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John J. Flannigan III

1958 - 2024

John J. Flannigan III obituary, 1958-2024, Middletown, CT

BORN

1958

DIED

2024

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John Flannigan Obituary

John J. Flannigan, III
With deep sadness, we announce the passing of John J. Flannigan, III, 65, husband of Lorraine "Lori" (Pontrelli) Flannigan on March 16, 2024.
John grew up in Durham, and was born in Middletown, on August 18, 1958. He went to Wilcox Tech for welding certification after graduating from Coginchaug High School. Prior to retirement, he worked at Cytec Industries for many years as a skilled welder and reactor operator. He was the son of the late John J. Flannigan, II and Mary (Spada) Flannigan. John is survived by his wife, Lori Flannigan, and his daughter Kelly Flannigan of Boston, MA, which was his greatest joy. He is also survived by sister Diana Flannigan of Durham, sister Doreen Fama and her husband Michael Fama of Durham, his brother, Jay Flannigan and his partner, Darlene and Darlene Flanagan and her husband Mikey of Middletown, CT. Additionally, he leaves behind his mother-in-law Lorraine Pontrelli and her late husband Anthony, who were very fond of him, as well as a number of nieces and nephews. Additionally, John will be missed by two special friends, Sal Vernale and Eddie Adams. Rudy, the faithful dog he loved, misses him already.
Cooking was John's forte. Taking care of his yard and gardening was one of his favorite things to do. In addition to flea markets and tinkering in his garage and basement, he enjoyed muscle cars, car shows, and collecting blue bottles.
An event to celebrate his life will be held at a later date.
Those who wish may send contributions to the American Diabetes Association or a charity of their choice.

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Published by Middletown Press on Mar. 24, 2024.

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Lori Wilcox

October 2, 2024

Just ran across this. OMG - so sorry for your loss. Trust you are continuing on your journey of healing.

MaryAnn & Vivian Flowers

April 1, 2024

Lori: I'm so very sorry to learn of John's passing. My heart goes out to you and Kelly. My prayers are with you during this most difficult time in your life. Please know that we are thinking of you.

Kimberly Dragone

March 30, 2024

Lori and family, I´m so sad to read of John´s passing. Sincerest sympathy to you all.

Beth Milardo

March 29, 2024

Lori, I am very sorry for loss. Sending my condolences to you and your Family. Beth Milardo

Mary Ann Wargo

March 29, 2024

Lori & Kelly
Our deepest sympathy on the passing of John, we are sending healing prayers for you both. R.I.P. John
Mary Ann & Andy Wargo

The Kleeman´s

March 28, 2024

Condolences to the Flannigan families. The Kleeman´s

Donna Rondinone

March 27, 2024

Lori, I am so sorry for your loss. Sending love, hugs and prayers for you and Kelly.

Lynn Pellerin Lipka

March 25, 2024

Lori and Kelly,
Thinking of you and your family as you celebrate the life of your beloved husband and father. May your memories give you peace and comfort during this challenging time. Praying for you during this time. I have great memories with John and Jay working at Kentucky Fried Chicken. I remember teaching him how to ski. He was always a happy guy. We even won the white glove award and we all met Colonel Sanders. That was so exciting for us.

Single Tree

Cj

Sent Flowers

Deborah Howley

March 25, 2024

Dear Lori
I am heartbroken for you & your daughter, Kelly.´
I didn´t really "know" your husband, but I´ve only heard wonderful sentiments about him. Furthermore, John was married to you, so I know he had (& always will be), a good soul.
My heart goes out to you & Kelly.
I am praying for you & Kelly during this challenging & difficult time.
Love & prayers, Always

Susanne DellaValle

March 25, 2024

I will always remember John for his kindness. He had that special way of making you feel comfortable,no matter what was going on. Calm and peaceful ,John. My heart goes out to you Lori. My Love goes out to you and Kelly. I love you all, including Rudi . Can't stop crying...

Andrew Rak

March 25, 2024

Lori and Kelly , our deepest condolences to you. John will be sorely missed.
I always enjoyed talking with him.
Andrew Rak and Family.

Robin & Robert Zadroga

March 25, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Claudio mejias

March 24, 2024

My deepest condolences to the Flannigan family. I worked with John for many years in the maint. dept. may he rest in peace.

Diane Hayn

March 24, 2024

Lori and Kelly, please know that our heart felt thoughts, prayers and love are with you. May John Rest in Peace. My heart is just breaking for you.
Love, Diane and Carl Hayn

David Strickland

March 24, 2024

With deepest condolences.
John was a great person and always fun to be around.
I worked with him at Cytex for a short time and he always help me with any questions.
He will be truly missed.

Pam Daniels

March 24, 2024

Lori and Kelly, I was shocked and so saddened to hear of Johnny’s sudden death. May you all find comfort in the many memories you created over the years.
Pam (Flannigan) Daniels.

Charlene and David Valentine

March 24, 2024

Lori and Kelly so sorry to hear of Johnny´s passing. Prayers to all of you. Charlene Valentine

Thomas Spada

March 24, 2024

Lori and family
Sorry to hear of John's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all
We will miss you dear cousin
Love Tom and Cheryl Spada

Bob Erickson

March 24, 2024

Had some great memories with Johnny and the Flannigan family, my deepest sympathy

Doreen Rosano Moan

March 24, 2024

Our sincere sympathy to the entire Flannigan family. You´re in our thoughts and prayers. May he Rest In Peace

carol andrew

March 24, 2024

Dear Lori and Kelly,
I´m so very sorry to hear about John´s passing. He was such a kind, friendly, person. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. RIP John.

Catherine Moore

March 23, 2024

Dear Lori and Family we are very sorry to hear about the Passing of Your Husband John he was a very nice man. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you in this most Difficult time.
Love Cathy and Bill Moore and Family

Patricia Mulholland

March 23, 2024

Lori and Kelly, I’m so sorry for your loss. Johnny was nearly 10 years younger than me and our family’s weren’t really close. However, we are cousins and my sympathy for your loss runs deep. Truly, Patricia Mulholland (Johnny’s father Jacky was my mother Jeanne’s brother).

Melinda Shugrue

March 23, 2024

Lori, I just heard about your husband. I am so very sorry for your and your daughter's loss. It must still be such a shock. I hope with time and the love of friends and family you will find peace in all of your wonderful memories. May John rest in peace and God watch over you and Kelly. Sincerely, Melinda

Nancy Arboscello

March 23, 2024

Lori, We are saddened to hear of John's passing.
Sending you and Kelly our heartfelt sympathy.
Lifting prayers for peace and comfort.
Lean on your family and friends who are so willing to support you at this time.

Susan D'Antonio

March 23, 2024

Lori, My most Sincerest Condolences and Deepest Sympathy to you and your Daughter and Family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. Sending you ❤

Group of 10 Trees

Mr & Mrs William Tomasino

Planted Trees

Sue and Gary Behm

March 23, 2024

Lori and Kelly, we were so very sorry to hear of John’s tragic passing. We miss seeing him and Rudy on their daily strolls in the neighborhood. Please know he is resting peacefully.

Lisa Diboni Smith

March 22, 2024

Lori and family please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of John

Donna Pontrelli-Larrabee

March 22, 2024

Lori,
So sad to hear about John's passing.
I cannot imagine what you are going through right now.
My prayers are with you and Kelly right now.
Love,
Cousin
Donna Pontrelli-Larrabee

Eugene Flannigan

March 22, 2024

So sorry for your loss Lori and Kelly. I'll miss my surprise drive bye. Once in a while I would catch you outside Johnny. It was always nice talking to you. We've wanted to get together for another breakfast, unfortunately this one didn't happen. Life is way too short. If your thinking about stopping over to see someone you love just do it. You never know. Rest in peace John. Love you

Single Tree

Susan Sienko

Sent Flowers

Carla Carpenter

March 22, 2024

Lori, so deeply sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and Kelly. Hang in there during this difficult time.
Carla Carpnter

Wendy Manemeit

March 22, 2024

Very sorry to hear of John's passing. I went to school with him and thought of him as a gentle giant. Very nice guy. Sympathies to his family.

Jennie Sumler

March 22, 2024

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Kathy and Walt Kendrek

March 22, 2024

Walt and I are so sad to hear of John's passing. You all remain in our thoughts and prayers.

Susan Sienko

March 22, 2024

A great neighbor and an even better friend. We bonded over yard work and Rudy and good talks about the world in general. My heartfelt condolences to Lori and Kelly who were the stars of John’s life. I miss you, John.

Gary Williams

March 22, 2024

John, you will be missed but never forgotten. I love you John, you are one of my best friends. Friends like you are far and few in between. Love you always, Gary

Al Vernale

March 22, 2024

In loving memory of such a wonderful friend and family man

Sal Vernale

March 22, 2024

RIP brother from another mother. You surely will be missed till we meet again.

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