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John Meadows Obituary
It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of John "Jay" Lamar Meadows Jr.. Jay left us on August 26, 2024 at Middlesex Hospital. Jay was born on September 22, 1962 in Middletown, CT. He was the first born to John and Patricia Meadows, and grew up to become a man known for his vibrant spirit and unwavering determination. Jay co-founded JF Tool with his brother Frank Meadows in 1984. With his natural talent for sales and his warm, engaging personality, Jay played a pivotal role in driving the company to success. He was well-regarded for his generosity and the meaningful relationships he built with those around him. Jay was a devoted father to five children with his former wife, Rebecca Johnson. He found great joy in spending quality time with family and friends. He shared his love for sports with them, particularly baseball, football and skiing. Jay took pride in teaching his children the values of hard work and integrity. His love for them was boundless. Preceded in death by his father John and his aunt Judy, Jay leaves behind his beloved mother, Patricia, his brother, Frank, and his devoted partner, Tammy Dorfman. He is also survived by his children: Michael Johnson (Jocelyn Belmonte), Shawn Meadows (Samantha Carle), Andrew and Kelly Meadows, Patrick Meadows and Casey Meadows (Jake Levesque). Jay was a proud grandfather to Hailey, Patrick Jr., Blake, Lena, Emma, Lincoln, Theodore, Logan, and Benjamin; all of whom will carry his memory forward. Jay's legacy of kindness and connection will live on in the hearts of all who knew him. His presence will be missed, but the impact he made on his family, friends, and community will endure for generations. A private ceremony was held in Jay's honor. To share memories or express condolences online please visit www.biegafuneralhome.com.
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Carrie Jones
October 1, 2024
I am so sad to hear the news of Jay's passing. He was the life of the party and always had a smile on his face. Rock the heavens Jay!!
Mike Gionfriddo and Norma
September 20, 2024
Sorry to here about the loss of Jay,,,or prays are with the family and friends. RIP Brother
Philip Faiella
September 17, 2024
Sorry to hear about your dad. Thinking of all of you. May he rest in peace.
Nelson and Judy Dion
September 16, 2024
Jay you will be missed we had some good times condolences to all of your family and friends
Nelson and Judy Dion
Holly Pearce
September 13, 2024
I knew Jay in high school. I went to his junior prom, and he went to my senior prom. Good times. Miss you my friend.
Trish Dynia, Durham, CT
September 13, 2024
Met Jay, Rebecca and all the kids when their son Andrew was a member of my Cub Scout troop. Jay was a huge support for the troop and we always appreciated his humor. My condolences to the entire family.
Lucian Slepski
September 13, 2024
Jay was a treasured Client to our accounting firm. He worked with us though all his projects with dedication, and we were blessed with his overall insight. With sympathy, J Oaks CPA & Slepski, Oaks & Associates.
Bill Fowler
September 12, 2024
I'm Sorry for Your Loss
Bill Fowler
Patti Makuch
September 12, 2024
To Shawn, Andrew, Patrick and your families, we were saddened to hear about your Dad. He always treated our boys, Nick and Brian like family. Sincerely , Greg and Patti Makuch
Love, Cathy Porter
September 10, 2024
Patty and Frank so very sorry. I only met Jay a couple time. But he seemed like a very nice guy. Prayers to the family.
Cathy Flannigan
September 10, 2024
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and
friends. I'm sorry for the loss of your dad, your son, your partner,for your father, your grandfather, for your brother, you and friends..Jay was always generous,fun, loving, compassionate,and will always be in our hearts ... Find peace in only good memories of a good Man.... Rest in peace Jay
Ken Newcombe
September 10, 2024
so sorry to hear about Jay. He & I went to school together from 5th thru 12th grade. We also played little league baseball against each other. He was a great guy.
Maria Erdman
September 10, 2024
I´m sad to hear that Jay passed. My sincere condolences to your family and friends
Tammy Catalano
September 10, 2024
So sorry to hear of Jay’s passing I went to high school with Jay good memories. My condolences and prayers to his family
Denise Duclos
September 10, 2024
I had the pleasure of knowing Jay through by brothers and was so saddened to hear of his passing. My sincere condolences to his family
The Bertrand´s
September 10, 2024
So sorry to hear of Jay´s passing ! We always enjoyed seeing him around town and sharing laughs. He will be missed but his memories will live on within each one of us . I want to extend my deepest sympathy to all his family and friends during this difficult time.
Linda Griffo
September 10, 2024
So sorry to hear of Jay’s passing. He was such a nice guy. I saw him often at Attorney Joe Milardo’s office. I’m certain he left his family and friends with a lot of memories to hold on to. Rest in Peace Jay.
Lin Griffo
Middlefield
Alyce Felt
September 10, 2024
My deepest condolences and prayers to his family. May he rest in peace.
September 10, 2024
Too many are leaving.
Fly high.
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