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Billy Hofmann
October 20, 2025
When my sister, Donna Hofmann Emerzian, shared the news about Lil it struck me that this marks the end of an era.
Lil and her parents and siblings were like a second family to my mother, Betty Dumeer Hofmann. Mom often spoke very fondly of her cherished memories of growing up on Chestnut Street and the kindness of the Seagraves toward her, both on an everyday basis and in including her on many special outings with them.
When I was a young boy we lived on Silver Street and I experienced the same myself many times, including visiting the gas station run by Mr. Seagrave (Lil's dad) for an ice-cold Coke and a friendly talk, and when I would stop in at the Seagrave home sometimes after my day at Hubbard School and be warmly greeted by Mrs. Seagrave (Lil's mom) who asked about my day and made sure to share a delicious bowl of my favorite butterscotch pudding.
As an adult my family always made a point of stopping at the Seagraves' house on Christmas Eve on the way from our home in Vermont to visit my parents in Durham. And what a warm welcome we received -- always so much great food and drink and laughter and good cheer.
There was an awful lot of love and kindness in that house on Chestnut Street, and isn't that really what it's all about?
Donna Emerzian
October 17, 2025
Lil was my Mom's best friend growing up and they always stayed close. I was very close to Mrs. Seagrave, Lil and Ruthie as a kid. I loved our frequent trips to lunch, shopping and always having a good laugh. In most recent years I enjoyed talking with Lil on the phone. I will miss you Lil, please rest in peace ❤ Donna
Anthony Covino
October 17, 2025
Lillian will always hold a special place in my heart. I was so lucky to spend so much time with her and care for her over the years. She had such a warm, gentle way about her — always kind, always strong, and always finding a way to make me smile. I learned so much from her, not just about life, but about grace and patience. I’ll miss her dearly, but I’m so grateful to have known her. She will always be one of the most special people I’ve ever cared for.
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