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Paul Bengston Obituary
Paul E Bengston, age 75, of Colchester CT, passed away on April 8th 2023 at Yale New Haven Hospital after a brief illness. Paul was born in Hartford, CT on November 29th 1947 and grew up in Portland, CT. The oldest son of Oscar and Madeline Bengston, Paul was followed by his predeceased brother David, and now survived by brother Peter (wife Lori), sister Dawn (husband Russell Woodward) and sister-in-law Bonnie Decarli.
Paul's life and memory will also live on through his wife Susanne and his two sons, Stephen (Spouse Karisa) and Ryan. Paul's memory will also live through his grandson Cru and Paul's numerous nieces including Laura, daughter of Peter and nephews, including Josh and Justin, sons of David. Paul would want more than anything to be remembered as a man who truly loved his family.
Paul served two tours in the Vietnam War with the United States Marine Corps. After Vietnam, Paul took numerous jobs, including that with the Portland Police Department and the Connecticut Department of Environmental Protection until finally accepting a position with the town of Portland, where he served as the Director of Buildings and Grounds until his retirement after more than 40 years.
Paul was an avid fisherman who held a United States Coast Guard Captains license. He was a skilled carpenter and lover of ice cream. Paul was a great friend to all and loved to make people laugh with his constant stories and humor.
Graveside services will be held on Saturday, April 22 at 10:30am in the Swedish Cemetery, Portland. Friends may call at the Portland Memorial Funeral Home, 231 Main Street, Portland on Friday, April 21 from 4-7pm.
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Joanne Basso Misenti
May 8, 2023
Dear Susanne and family,
So very sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. I have so many wonderful memories of growing up with Paul. He was truly a wonderful man...Many many good times as neighbors with Jack, Buzz, Paul, Dave, Peter and Dawn. He was a true lover of the outdoors and always willing to help out. Our deepest sympathies to you and your family.
Sal and Joanne (Basso) Misenti
Donna Basso Quintero
April 24, 2023
Dear Susan and family, I´m so very sorry to hear this news about Paul. He was an amazing person- always willing to lend a hand to anyone especially my dad Donald. I´ll always remember the good times our families had together growing up being neighbors. Paul will be missed.
Donna Basso Quintero and family.
Al Laflamme
April 22, 2023
Dear Susanne, Ryan and family, we are so sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. He was a GREAT man, friend and Scouter. He did SO much for Boy Scout Troop 13 in Colchester and helped a lot of boys attain the rank of Eagle Scout, including our two sons. He was a humble man and a real pleasure to be around. Again SO sorry for your loss, we will keep him, you and the family in our thoughts and prayers.
The Laflamme family (Al, Julie Ann, Normand Jonathan and Andrew)
Patricia Ackerman
April 22, 2023
So many memories of our parents and the early years! My condolences to all. He has certainly earned his rest.
Rick and Roxanne Roy
April 21, 2023
Sending our sincere condolences to the Bengston family. Paul will always be remembered as a great friend. RIP
Donald Goodrich
April 21, 2023
So sad to read of Paul's passing. May good memories sustain you all in the days ahead.
Barbara and Don Goodrich
Tarpon Springs, Fla.
Capt Kevin Betley
April 21, 2023
My condolences to Paul's family. He will be missed by all. Paul never had a bad word to speak of anyone and was truly a great person.
Frank Renner
April 20, 2023
Paul was a much respected member of the Oddfellows Stephen Terry Lodge # 59, a very old charitable organization formerly located in Portland. Paul joined Stephen Terry on October the 6th, 2014, earned the 3rd degree, and the trust of the his brother lodgemates. His dedication and hard work were not unnoticed, and he was voted to hold the position of treasurer , a position he held to the last. Stephen Terry inherited the stewardship of Camp Connecticut , located in Hebron ct, on whose board of directors Paul was a member, as it´s financial secretary as well. I can say Paul gained my respect when it chanced to fall to me to help write our annual reports, and I realized the integrity of his book keeping, twice we were able to report to the penny, and other years were nearly as close.
His stories, his laugh, his black truck pulling into the drive, we his brothers at Stephen Terry will miss Paul , and honor his memory.
Our deepest condolences to the Bengston Family , and yours in Friendship, Love and Truth, Frank Renner, and Stephen Terry lodge# 59
Gail Landry
April 20, 2023
Jim and I are so sorry for your loss. He was such a nice guy. :(. Love you both.
Jim and Gail Landry
Don Bysko
April 20, 2023
Ryan & family,
I am so very sorry about your dad. I remember him being very active when you were involved in Troop 13. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Alexander Chamis
April 20, 2023
Sorry to hear about Paul.As youngsters we lived and played in the same neighborhood. He was a wonderful person that I had the privilege of hanging around with. We haven´t been in touch for years but from what I read about him he grew up to be the man that he was destined to be. RIP Paul.
Alex Chamis
Fred Brugnetti
April 20, 2023
Paul was my boss for 17 years at PHS always thought he was a fair man, my best goes out to his family.
Bob Veach
April 20, 2023
I remember Paul as a true gentleman. RIP my friend.
Donna & Steve Duteau
April 20, 2023
Our sincerest condolences to all of Paul´s family members.
Deb, Guy, John and Paul Dapkus
April 19, 2023
With deepest sympathy as you remember and celebrate Paul/Dad who has left a trail of fond memories for all of us who knew him. I am forever grateful for the many good times we have had all together. Susanne, I look forward to sharing a day with you in the near future. Please always know dear friends, we are only a phone call away.
Susan Bartholomew
April 19, 2023
I am saddened to hear of Paul's passing. He was a wonderful person. He will be missed by all who knew him. I guarantee he is up there fishing with the angels. May he rest in peace.
Ryan Bengston
April 19, 2023
Sean and Annmarie Harrison
April 18, 2023
So sorry to hear this news, We've been friends forever, I know he is in heaven with David, Jack, and Buzz!! God Bless the family in this sad time.
Ryan Bengston
April 18, 2023
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Rebekah Anne
April 17, 2023
I'm so sorry Aunty Susanne for your loss! I know you loved Uncle Paul so very much! I remember him when I was VERY little as such a happy, kind soul!! Hugs, prayers & love to you, cousin Steven & Ryan! Reading what Ryan wrote about his dad...this must be the most beautiful thing I´ve ever read from a son about his father! All I can say is what an amazing man he was.!! Love you all xox
Mike Colla
April 17, 2023
Hi Ryan.
Met your dad in 1989 while selling Snap-on Tools at the Biz. He had been a VERY good friend ever since. Even trimmed some trees at your house. Maybe they need trimming again. I'll ask him.
Melissa & Richard Iskra
April 17, 2023
We are so sorry to hear about your loss.... Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers always......
Debbi Uhlman
April 17, 2023
Paul was a great person. I always enjoyed our conversations over the years.
Prayers of peace for Suzanne, Stephen & Ryan.
Donna Nobile
April 17, 2023
So sorry for your loss.
Liz Whitty
April 17, 2023
A good man has passed. Paul was that rare breed of men whose service to country, community, and family was lived each day. Paul showed up when there was trouble, and someone needed help. He will be missed. He will be remembered. My deepest condolences go to the Bengston Family on your loss.
Bill Willinsky
April 17, 2023
R.I.P. Paul
Christine Nestor Roccapriore
April 16, 2023
Christine Nestor Roccapriore
April 16, 2023
Christine Nestor Roccapriore
April 16, 2023
Cousin Susanne & family, Roy & I want to send our heartfelt condolences on the loss of Paul. He was a wonderful guy & I am so thankful I finally reconnected with you & met Paul. Please hang in there & may all your precious memories help you & your sons during this difficult time. Chris Nestor-Roccapriore
Gail and Jim Landry
April 16, 2023
Jim and I are so sorry to see this. What another nice Bengston. Sending you love
Ed Szydlowski
April 16, 2023
May Paul rest in peace. So sorry for you all, Ed Szydlowski
Martha Ellard
April 15, 2023
You are in are thoughts and prayers. We love you. So sorry for your loss and sadness. Love, Martha and Ryan
Jacqueline Fabi-Liebler
April 15, 2023
Sending you love and prayers. Nick, Jackie, Stella and Sienna
Donald Gates
April 15, 2023
I wish to express my deepest sympathy to the Bengston family. Paul was very dedicated to the town and Board of Education as he performed his responsibilities as supervisor of buildings and grounds. As the high school principal I enjoyed our working relationship along with all of the support he provided. Unfortunately I am unable to attend services because I just experienced heart failure and will be undergoing surgery on Thursday. May he Rest In Peace and join his brother in heaven.
Corlee Brown
April 15, 2023
Our love and sympathy to the Bengston family from your 2nd cousins, the Hummels(Thom, Gary, Corlee and Doug).
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