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Peter Budryk
Peter Budryk died at 87 on Cape Cod, surrounded by family.
Peter was an avid fisherman, a devoted husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather and a ceaseless advocate for the disadvantaged and the marginalized. Through his work with the Upward Bound program, which identifies low-income students with potential and provides educational resources and tutoring, Peter helped give countless students a chance to attend college. He was also the mind behind the program's Great Hollow Wilderness School, a two-week outdoor challenge course. Peter loved fishing, publishing multiple books on the subject and making sure his children and grandchildren learned too, whether they liked it or not. All eight of them have memories that will last forever of standing on a bank or shore somewhere on the Cape, casting and reeling in with his guidance or just sharing a moment of quiet together. His fishing took him to waters from Grenada to Alaska to a solo trip to an uninhabited Bahamian island. He loved his hometown of Cambridge and his second home of Cape Cod, but more than anything or anyone he loved Elinor, his wife of 64 years, who preceded him in death two years ago. If there is anything resembling a Heaven they were reunited instantaneously, and also Boston College beats Notre Dame every day.
He is survived by his children Robin, Doug and Jennifer; his grandchildren, Max, Riley, Chandler, Nathan and Zachary; his brother Francis; and his great-granddaughters Willow and Lilly.

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Published by Middletown Press on Nov. 13, 2024.

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Robert W Murrell Jr

January 30, 2025

The passing of a kind soul. I will always be grateful for Mr. Budryk seeing something in me that I didn´t see in myself. It is because of him and the Harvard Upward Bound program, that I was able to see the possibilities in life, attend college, and I passed that same feeling of encouragement to our own children. They have all been successful; continuing Mr. Budryk´s legacy of educational excellence, achievement and enjoyment of life. Thank you...God Bless you and Rest In Peace

Jerry and Carmen Gloria Wisneski

November 23, 2024

To Jennifer,Robin,Doug and all of the generations of girls ,boys,parents ,staffs ,administrators of Wesleyan University Upward Bound Concap Program(and friends and supporters of the nationally acclaimed program) Peter Budryk on a citation given to me for excellence in teaching wrote- a teacher affects eternity: He can never know where his influence ends: Peters influence made it to The White House , when Miquel Cardona was named by President Joe Biden The Secretary of Education for The United States of America. Secretary Cardona 's wife Marissa Perez was an Upward Bound Student from Meriden Both Miquel and Marissa were students in separate summer programs hosted by Wesleyan. Marissa would later become Miss Connecticut and Miguel would become Superintendent of Schools for The State of Connecticut . They are the parents of two successful children in the Meriden School System . Bien hecho Peter_ very well done We will meet one day in Fiddlers Green _where the grub is good, the bunks are clean, the beer is free and where is no limit to the fish you can catch

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Jesse

November 20, 2024

Peter ran nis life lane exceptionally well and helped disadvantaged youth to succeed. Upward Bound was that difference between poverty or thriving .We testify that your vision, passion and sacrifice will always live on and never be forgotten. Thankful for both Wesleyan Upward Bound and your faithful dedicated contribution to our lives and humanity!
Jesse´ and Angela Banks Rankins, Upward Bound Graduate & Former U B Associate

Steve Perry

November 20, 2024

Wow. That hurts. Mr. Budryk has long been my why. He believed in me long before I did. What a tremendous loss. To his kids, thank you for sharing him. He made a lot of poor kids feel wealthy in mind, body and spirit.

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Mike Kabara

November 17, 2024

I am so sorry to hear about Peter, he was the nicest man. He gave me his book on fishing in Conn.which I still have.

Bill Pitruzzello

November 17, 2024

Dear Robin, Doug and Jennifer,

Sorry to hear about your Father and sending our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

We remember his positive attitude, active involvement and most of all his smile growing up on Laurel Grove Road.

He will be missed.

Bill, Steve, Greg Pitruzzello and Claudia Pitruzzello Maferra

Friends and Classmates

David J Mazzotta

November 16, 2024

Robin, Doug, Jennifer and the entire Budryk family - my sincere condolences on Peter's passing. Peter and the entire family were fixtures to our family growing up on Pine/Poinsettia Street. Peter was a regular conversant with me during my many years as an outdoor Maine Guide and LL Bean employee. May the sorrow turn to tears of joy, recalling the good memories and times with Peter. -David Mazzotta & Marjorie Mazzotta (mom)

Deborah Kleckowski

November 16, 2024

Peter cultivated my love of education and educational opportunity. His impact on my life as a UB´er and as an administrator in the program is treasured. He positively impacted students, teachers and our community as a whole- the Peter force! May you all be comforted by memories shared - God bless

Susan Milmoe (and Jake Bakalar)

November 15, 2024

Jake and I (longtime neighbors at 285 Harvard Street in Cambridge) are very sorry to hear the sad news. We still miss Peter (and Elinor), who did so much to make this old brick apartment building a warm home, and happily for me helped to leave it more handicapped accessible than they found it. What good and useful lives they lived! And Peter's stories about growing up in East Cambridge were great. We are thinking of you all. (Wonderful photo and writeup.) I was upset last year when our holiday card/letter--inadvertently addressed to the defunct Cape p.o. box--was returned. (I do hope I resent it to the correct new address but I'm not sure now.) We certainly hoped to be able to catch up with Peter in person again at some point. Unfortunately, I had a stroke in March and though I'm doing OK in PT I still need a walker or wheelchair, and I had to surrender my driver's license to get a handicapped hang tag. With only one driver, who sometimes gets sleepy, we haven't been venturing far from Cambridge, and relatives from Washington are visiting next weekend.
Our deepest sympathy, and all good wishes to all the family

Joy F Seymour

November 15, 2024

My condolences to your family at this time. Peter was a wonderful man, and without the work he did for Upward Bound I would not be where I am today. I am so thankful for that! May your memories of Peter carry you through this difficult time.

Susie bruce

November 15, 2024

I live at 285 Harvard st, Cambridge and loved going to parties at the Budryks! Many laughs and much warmth.

Melinda Shugrue

November 14, 2024

Dear Doug, Jennifer, Robin and families, Patrick and I are saddened to hear of the loss of your father. Patrick enjoyed his time teaching with him at Upward Bound. Your father certainly affected many lives in a positive way. May you all find comfort knowing he and your mom are together. I'm sure he will be with you when you go fishing!
Sincerely, Melinda (Cotter) and Patrick Shugrue

Richard Tanasi

November 14, 2024

"The greatest legacy anyone can leave behind is to positively impact the lives of others."
Emeasoba George
From the literally thousands of Upward Bound alumni scattered throughout the US.
Thank you, Peter.
With deepest gratitude and admiration.
Richard Tanasi

Glen and Wendy Manemeit

November 14, 2024

We are saddened to hear of the passing of Mr. Budryk. A wonderful man who has left a wonderful legacy. Sincere condolences to Doug and family.

Pedro Valentin

November 14, 2024

Tremendous loss. He changed so many lives for the better including mine! My condolences!

John L Robinson

November 13, 2024

Rest in Peace Peter..Job well done..May the good Lord be with the family at such a time as this..

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