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Dr. Sheila MacDonald Stearns

1946 - 2023

Dr.  Sheila MacDonald Stearns obituary, 1946-2023, Missoula, MT

Sheila Stearns Obituary

Dr. Sheila MacDonald Stearns

August 30, 1946 - May 23, 2023

Sheila MacDonald Stearns, educator, died Tuesday, May 23, due to complications from lung cancer. She leaves behind hundreds of grieving hearts because she was so loved by so many.

Sheila was born August 30, 1946, in Ft. Snelling, Minnesota, where her father, Alexander MacDonald, was stationed as a dentist during World War II. Her mother, Marie Peterson, was the daughter of Swedish homesteaders, raised near Highwood, Montana. Alex and Marie moved their family to Glendive, Montana in 1947. The six MacDonald kids treasured their free-range childhood spent exploring the banks of the Yellowstone River and nearby Makoshika State Park.

Sheila was a graduate of Sacred Heart School and Dawson County High School where she was Valedictorian, National Honor Society member, Science Fair and Spelling Bee champion, cheerleader, member of the Homecoming Court, and friend to so many in her class of 1964 and beyond.

Sheila arrived at the University of Montana in September 1964, where she pledged the Alpha Phi sorority and found many more lifelong friends. In Missoula, she met the love of her life, Hal Stearns, on a Newman Center retreat weekend. Each knew within days that they had found their soul mate, and what a great partnership it has been. They were engaged to be married at Homecoming in 1967 where Sheila was crowned UM Homecoming Queen.

Sheila embarked on an exciting and meaningful education career that began with teaching middle school English at the U.S. Air Force Base in Wiesbaden, Germany. Sheila and Hal made it a point to "see the world" during those three years in Europe.

They returned home to Missoula where Scott MacDonald Stearns was born, followed a few years later by Malin Jean-Marie Stearns. They raised their children in Missoula, Sheila's beloved home community, with the aid of Missoula's fine public schools.

Having earned advanced degrees from the University of Montana, Sheila served as UM's 18th President, after posts as Montana Commissioner of Higher Education, President of Wayne State College in Nebraska, Chancellor of UM Western in Dillon, Vice President and Alumni Director of UM, and teacher and librarian at Whittier Elementary School.

In 2012, she was honored as a Distinguished Alumni of the University of Montana. In 2017, Sheila and Hal were honored with the Governor's Humanities Award. She received an honorary Doctorate from Montana State University in 2018.

Sheila modeled a life of dedicated and tireless public service. Much of her career was devoted to serving, building, and improving Montana's well-respected higher education system. She earned the admiration and respect of everyone she encountered in education circles and in public service, on both sides of the aisle, whether she was at a PTA meeting, in the halls of the Legislature, in the Governor's office, or leading a campus community.

Sheila is survived by Hal, their children Scott and Malin, their spouses Julee Stearns and C.J. Johnson, and grandchildren Elise, Renn, and Lily Stearns, and Lexi, Mia, and Silas Johnson. She is also survived by MacDonald siblings and spouses: Mariellen Neudeck, Alice and Ray Down, Sandy and Susan MacDonald, her twin Peter and Kathleen MacDonald, Margie MacDonald and John Smillie; and by Stearns siblings and spouses: Jim Stearns, Nancy and Jim O'Kief, Michelle Stearns and Pat Smith, Tom Stearns and Noriko Mizoguchi, Jeanie Schmidt, Tim Stearns and Linda Clark, and many beloved nieces and nephews.

The University of Montana will host a celebration of Sheila's life on Friday, June 2 at 2:00 p.m. in the UC Ballroom on the University of Montana Campus.

In lieu of flowers, please consider working to make education more obtainable for someone else, just as Sheila did for her kids, grandkids, and countless others. Memorials may be sent in Sheila's honor to the foundations of any of the many colleges she led and loved, including tribal and community colleges.

Published by Missoulian on May 27, 2023.

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terry shikany

June 11, 2023

had the honor of knowing SHEILA she was one of gods treasures rest in piece

Judy Epstein Siring

June 3, 2023

Hal and family-I was out if the country and did not learn of Sheila´s passing until today. My heart is sad for you-I will hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Jeff Even

June 2, 2023

Hal, my condolences and my sincere prayers. I can only imagine how difficult this is for you, but I wish you all he comfort you can find.--Jeff Even, Sentinel '78.

Kent Graves

June 2, 2023

I was so sorry to learn of Sheila's passing. She touched so many people throughout her exemplary career. Those of us who grew up with Sheila in Glendive recognized how talented she was. Even though she left too early she certainly exemplified a life well-lived. She will be greatly missed.

Rich and Vicki Micheletto

June 2, 2023

Hal, Scott, Malin, and all your family members,

I know this is a most painful time for you. We share your sorrow.
Remember your happy times with her, and share your wonderful memories of her and your deepest memories and feelings about her with each other.

We pray for her and all of you.

God bless you all.

Maureen Oelkers

June 2, 2023

Hal & family, we are heartbroken for your loss. This world was a better world with Sheila in it. What an amazing impact she made on us all. Godspeed, Mo & Loren

Gosline Family

June 2, 2023

Love to the family. Sheila meant the world to us and if it wasn´t for Hal and Sheila, our story would never have been complete. Love you all.

Suzanne Penn

June 1, 2023

Stearns family, my deepest sympathies for your loss! Dr. Stearns was one of the finest presidents Wayne State College has had. She truly cared about everyone, from making sure each student had a quality education to valuing and respecting every single employee. I was a part of the small group of support staff the worked with her to establish the Support Staff Senate here at WSC. She was knowledgeable, supportive, and caring. She made it a point to know all of our names and where on campus we worked. She returned to WSC many times, since leaving Wayne, for major celebrations and always greeted me by name. Her smile was genuine and her hugs were warm and freely given. She was a blessing that will be truly missed by all who knew her. I pray that your fond and loving memories will carry you through your loss. Blessings to you all!

Greg Vander Weil

May 31, 2023

Hal and Family, Just wanted you all to know that Greg and Zoe Vander Weil here at Wayne State College are thinking of you during this time. Faith, Family and former colleagues and friends help get us through life's challenges. Sheila was truly one of the best Presidents we had the pleasure to work with here at WSC.
God Bless, Greg and Zoe

Marilyn Liedorff Quance

May 31, 2023

I highly respected and admired Dr. Stearns when she served at WSC. She spoiled me for all presidents after her as none stand up to her standards. Her knowledge of contracts amazed me! I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Ray Matz

May 29, 2023

As a classmate of Sheila and Peter at Dawson County High School I was sadden to hear of Sheila's illness and passing. Warm thoughts to all. Ray

Nancy Ahmann

May 29, 2023

Dr. Stearns was President of WSC when I was employed there. Her compassion for the students and all of the employees, faculty were amazing. Dr. Stearns always had a smile and a Hello. My thoughts and prayers to her family. The memories will remain forever

Sylvia Jensen

May 27, 2023

My deepest sympathy to you all. /////what a great lady she was and will be truly missed by all who knew her.

Will Deschamps

May 27, 2023

A sad loss to Montana, education and the university.

She will be missed by all.

Denise E Grills

May 27, 2023

So sorry to hear of the loss of this distinguished and lovely woman. She served Montana in so many ways. She was kind to everyone including me when I joined the Alumni Board.
Another Angel is in heaven. Take care of yourselves.

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Dr. Karen Sweeney

May 27, 2023

Dr. Sheila Stearns touched many of us at Wayne State College in Nebraska. Her leadership, intelligence, kindness, empathy, and helpfulness made her presence create an atmosphere where staff wanted to do their very best in educating students. She made everyone feel important and accepted and she made a positive impact wherever she went She will always be remembered fondly.

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