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Patricia Haley Obituary
January 2, 1939 - December 11, 2023
Modesto, California - It is with heavy hearts that we announce the passing of Patricia A. Haley, of Modesto on Dec 11, 2023. She was a native of Oakland, CA and the daughter of Horace B. and Klugh L. Ward Parham. She lived most of her life in Modesto and had attended Thomas Downey High School. Pat had a lovely singing voice and sang on KTRB radio station when she was in her teens. As a military wife she lived in several states and cities in CA before finally coming back to Modesto. Pat had a long career in retail, including Dunlap's and Gottschalks. She is preceded by her parents, her husband Dave Haley, ex-husband Art Allison, son Michael Allison (Nicky) and brothers Jim Parham (Anita) and Richard Lynn Parham (Vietnam 1967). She is survived by her daughter Summer Moore of Oregon; and her sister Mary Jo Stavrakakis (Mike) and sister-in-law Anita Parham both of Modesto; 4 grandchildren, 3 step grandchildren, 11 great-grandchildren, 6 great-great grandchildren, and several nieces and nephews. Pat was laid to rest at San Joaquin Valley National Cemetery. A private celebration of life will be held in the spring.
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Gina
December 11, 2024
Aunt Pat, it's hard to believe that a year has gone by since you left us, and we miss you so much. Mom really misses you and your brother Jim, too. You and Uncle Jim left us too soon and the hole in our hearts is still there. You and mom were so close and did everything together, almost like twins. It was an honor to help you with your affairs the last year of your life.
May your memory be eternal.
Gina Louis
Richard Stavrakakis
January 30, 2024
I can't believe you're gone Aunt Pat. I didn't see much of you these past few years with everything that had been going on. I love and miss you.
Thoughts and prayers with Summer at this time.
Richard Stavrakakis
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