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Robert Gotelli Obituary

Robert Gotelli
February 1, 1939 - June 9, 2021
Modesto, California - Robert (Bob) E. Gotelli, beloved husband, father grandfather and great-grandfather, passed away Wednesday June 9th 2021. Born to Louis and Agnes Gotelli on February 1, 1939 in San Francisco, California. The family soon after moved to Stockton, CA. where Bob was raised.
In 1967, Bob moved his young family to Modesto where he began his career in the insurance industry of 50 years.
Bob was very proud to be one of the original founders of Modesto Youth Soccer Association, which still flourishes today and was a true passion of his. His many other clubs and associations he served in were Civitan, Kiwanis, Stanislaus County Mental Health Council, Independent Insurance Agents Association, and Rotary. He proudly served as a Director on the Board of Casa de Modesto Retirement Center for twenty years, where he spent his final days following several strokes.
Above all, Bob's greatest love was his family; his wife of 40 years, Dee, and his children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He was proud of his Italian/German heritage and constantly spoke of them.
Bob was happiest when golfing, gardening and playing poker with his many friends, as well as, softball while he and Dee lived in the Del Webb community.
Bob is survived by his wife, Dee, and children, Lisa, Rob, Tana and Jennifer; grandchildren Alex, Lauren, Kelli, Cash, Sebastian, and Bode, and great-grandchild Avery. He was preceded in death by sister, Patricia.
A Service Honoring Robert (Bob) E. Gotelli will be held at Our Lady of Fatima Catholic Church 505 West Granger Avenue Modesto, CA. 95350 on June 29, 2021 @ 10:00 a.m.
Remembrances may be made to Casa de Modesto Retirement Center 1745 Eldena Way, Modesto, CA. 95350 or Community Hospice 4368 Spyres Way, Modesto, CA. 95356.

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Published by Modesto Bee on Jun. 20, 2021.

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Antonella Gotelli

June 30, 2021

Condoglianze,da parte di tutti i parenti,in Italia.

Robert Martin

June 24, 2021

Sad to hear of the passing of Robert. We shared many years with the Modesto Youth Soccer Assoc. and also being a fellow Insurance Broker and Rotarian. Robert Always gave 125% TO WHATEVER PROJECT HE WAS INVOLVED WITH AND WAS A TRUE EXAMPLE OF SERVICE BEFORE SELF. R.I.P. my friend. Until we meet again.

Al & Vera Girolami

June 22, 2021

Vera and I were saddened to learn of Bob's passing. We have known Bob for many years in Stanislaus County. He is remembered, not only for all he did in Youth Soccer, but also for his contributions in his time and treasure with his involvement in Modesto North (now Metro0 Rotary. Our condolences to Dee and family.

Cari Amundsen, corresponding Secretary McHenry Mansion Docent Council

June 20, 2021

Deepest sympathy to Dee and the family from McHenry Mansion Docent Council. Our hearts go out to you.

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