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James Francis Sparolini Obituary

James Francis Sparolini
November 14, 1948 ~ June 22, 2008

Carmel – Jim Sparolini, 59, passed away peacefully, surrounded by his family, on June 22, 2008 at Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula.
   Jim courageously battled cancer for the past three years and his positive outlook and gracious spirit were with him even in his final days when he celebrated Father's Day with his wife and children at a San Francisco Giants game.
   Jim was a lifetime resident of the Peninsula, born in Carmel on November 14, 1948 to Francis and Aili Sparolini. Jim attended local schools and was active in the community as a member of the Monterey Peninsula Jaycees and the Monterey Peninsula Chamber of Commerce Board of Directors, a sponsor of the Big Sur International Marathon and a Founding Board Member of the Bronco World Series. He contributed to numerous nonprofit organizations and was active with both Santa Catalina School and Robert Louis Stevenson. He also served his country with the United States Navy.
   He married Kathryn Grych in 1975 and they enjoyed 33 years of very happy marriage. They have two children, Sonia and Stephen, who were blessed to have Jim as their father.
   Jim was involved with the family business, Sparolini Distributing Company, for 27 years and he was at the forefront of his time by opening Sparolini Recycling Center, the first of its kind in the area.
More recently, he was active in Real Estate.
   Jim had a strong will and competitive drive, while also only speaking the best of each and every person. He was loyal and honest and a very loving husband and father.
   Jim was a sports fan and competitor who sponsored numerous youth and adult teams. He was not only the team's sponsor, but their greatest fan. He was especially fond of watching his children's sporting endeavors and was a permanent fixture at all of their sporting events. They always knew that he would be the most excited and the most proud when they scored the winning run or sank the winning putt. He also loved playing golf and in his spare time enjoyed building golf clubs for family and friends, as well as donating his clubs to local charities. He had a knack for building and repairs, regardless of how big or small the project, and a keen architectural vision that was helpful in his real estate developments. He was a natural in the kitchen, where his gourmet meals will be missed by all who were lucky enough to share them with him.
   Jim is predeceased by his mother, Aili Sparolini and is survived by his loving wife, Kathy; children, Sonia and Stephen; father, Francis Sparolini; sisters, Susan LaVarnway (Charles LaVarnway) and Catherine Sparolini and many other relatives and friends.
   A Memorial Mass will be held on Thursday, June 26, 2008 at 10:30 a.m. at the Carmel Mission. Contributions may be made to the Community Hospital Comprehensive Cancer Center or the AT&T Pebble Beach Junior Golf Association.

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Published by Monterey Herald from Jun. 25 to Jun. 26, 2008.

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June 20, 2009

Dear Kathy: I got this guest book in my email today. I also heard about Francis through my brothers, Rob and Eric. It's quite a family into which you married! My main memory of Jim is that he was always nice to Eric's little sister, as he sat in our kitchen and ate mustard and onion sandwiches! Thinking of Jim And you! Love, Noelle Low Everhart

Joann Vaughan

June 27, 2008

Dear Kathy, Stephen and Sonia: Please know how much our love and hearts are with you right now and how much joy Jim brought into our lives -- and the lives of so many families . There are so many great memories. With love -- Bill, Joann, Barton, Elizabeth, Robbie and Caroline

Noelle Everhart

June 26, 2008

Kathy, Please know that I am thinking of and praying for you and Jim at this time. His Mom and my Mom were good friends for years and he was always welcomed in our home and kitchen! We will all miss him. Noelle Low Everhart

Jeff Allen

June 26, 2008

Stephen,

I am sorry to hear about the passing of your father. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Take care.

Brenda Mizgorski

June 25, 2008

Dear Kathy (Mrs. Sparolini),
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. We are very sorry to hear of Jim's passing.
Much love,
Marc, Brenda and Madeline Mizgorski

Christian Haun

June 25, 2008

I enjoyed working with Jim. His character and good nature is an example for us all. God bless Jim and God bless his family.

Tom Bristol

June 25, 2008

Dear Kathy, I am so sorry at your loss. I'm in total shock. I didn't see Jim that often, but I always enjoyed talking with him. I have great memories of him in high school sports. My prayers are with you and your family.

john rosa

June 25, 2008

to my old friend Frank ( Mr. Spearolini) and all the family of course. So sorry to hear about Jimmy, he was a great kid, I remember him so well when he would come out to the country club with you. We were about the same age and he was always nice to me as you were all the times I caddied for you. Again my condolences to all.

The Mansfield's

June 25, 2008

To All family and friends,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. God Bless.

Ellen Dunnion

June 25, 2008

Dear Kathy, Sonia and Stephen,
We are all so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. He was always the smiling and kind face in the crowd you could count on seeing. You have a wonderful family and he will be sorely missed by all. You are in our thoughts and prayers at this sad time. With love and affection. Ellen,Tom, and all the Dunnion children

Carolyn Rees

June 25, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. God bless

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