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Jerome Lee Rubin M.D.

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Jerome Lee Rubin M.D. obituary, 1944-2018, Monterey, CA

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1944

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2018

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Jerome Rubin Obituary

Jerome Lee Rubin, MD
June 29, 1944 - October 16, 2018
Carmel
Dr. Jerry Rubin, beloved physician to thousands on the Monterey Peninsula, died at Community Hospital of the Monterey Peninsula after a valiant battle with acute myelogenous leukemia. A private burial service has been held at El Carmelo Cemetery.
Dr. Rubin was born in Richmond, Virginia to Dr. Abraham and Rose Levinson Rubin. He grew up in Brooklyn, New York and attended Erasmus Hall High, where he met his wife-to-be, Suellen Safir. They married in 1966. After attending Cornell University, Dr. Rubin graduated from Johns Hopkins School of Medicine and also completed a residency there in Internal Medicine. The Rubins moved to Boston, where Dr. Rubin completed a dual residency in hematology and oncology at Beth Israel Hospital, a Harvard affiliate. The family then moved to Fort Knox, where Dr. Rubin served as a major in the U.S. Army treating cancer patients and assisting in nuclear medicine and some surgeries.
In 1974, the Rubin family, which now included two daughters, moved to Carmel, and Dr. Rubin began his 44 year medical career. He was awarded CHOMP Physician of the Year in 2002. Soon after beginning practice, Dr. Rubin began offering support groups for his patients, called the Cancer Recovery Project. This project grew into the Hospice of the Monterey Peninsula in a remodeled house in Carmel Valley. Working with Assemblyman Sam Farr in Sacramento and Rep. Leon Panetta in D.C., Dr. Rubin spurred the implementation of hospice legislation that has enabled hospice funding nationally. As the need for local Hospice beds grew, Dr. Rubin was instrumental in developing the 27-bed Hospice House in Monterey (now Westland House). Dr. Rubin was awarded the Heart of Hospice Award in 2003.
Dr. Rubin served as President of Congregation Beth Israel during the development and building of their present facility in Carmel. He also helped found the first AIDS clinic here, Outpatient Immunology Services (OPIS), now part of CHOMP.
Throughout his busy years here, Dr. Rubin always found time for his family as a loving husband and father. He coached his daughters' softball games through their elementary and high school years, even before the advent of cell phones! Jerry and Suellen enjoyed and supported many local musical offerings here: Monterey Jazz Festival, Monterey Symphony, Carmel Bach Festival and Carmel Music Society.
Dr. Rubin is survived by his wife Suellen, their two daughters Nancy and Emily (Monique Mikrut), his sister Gail (Mike Myshrall) of Tacoma, WA, grandchildren Maya and Bethany Mikrut of Atlanta and Zachary and Sienna Farfan of Carmel, and cousins Toby and David Eisenberg of La Jolla.
The family would like to thank Dr. Rubin's colleague physicians and staff of Pacific Cancer Care and especially Drs. Michael (Zach) Koontz and Nancy Rubin for their loving and attentive care throughout his illness, the rehabilitative staff of Westland House, and the CHOMP nurses, doctors and laboratory assistants who so kindly attended to him in him final days.
There will be a Celebration of Life for Dr. Rubin on Sunday, December 30 at 2 pm at Congregation Beth Israel. Save the date. Donations in his memory may be made to Hospice of the Central Coast (Montage Health/HOCC), 40 Ryan Court, Suite 200, Monterey 93940 or to any of his other charities mentioned above.
Condolences may be written to the family at
www.bermudezfamilyfunerals.com


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Published by Monterey Herald Obits on Oct. 21, 2018.

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Roseanna Solomon

October 4, 2024

Jerome Rubin was the best Doctor he really cared about his patients i miss seeing him at Pacific cancer care he was the best no other doctor can ever take his place continue to rest in peace Dr. Jerome Rubin.

Roseanna Solomon

October 3, 2023

I miss My Doctor Jerome Rubin he saved my life he was the best Doctor at Pacific cancer Care he really was a loving and caring and very kind and friendly to his patients may he continue to rest in heaven.

John Baldwin MD

August 21, 2019

Having read the guest book, it is obvious that Jerry Rubin had a gift, immense talent and love for people with some of the worst diagnoses in the book. My esteem and affection for him grew through the years we shard at CHOMP and the clear miracles he often produced in seemingly impossible cases. He is missed already and I salute his career of integrity, scholarship and human kindness.

Larry Diamond

April 5, 2019

Having just seen this, I would like to extend condolences to Suellen and the family on behalf of the Erasmians of '61 who knew Jerry. Brilliant, personable and clearly destined to leave the world a better place. He will be missed.

Jennifer Johnson

October 29, 2018

I first knew Dr. Rubin as Coach Rubin when I played softball with his daughters, Nancy and Emily. I remember the kindness and patience he showed to all of the kids. Now as an adult, I can appreciate how precious his time must have been and how generous it was for him to share it with us.

My path crossed with Dr. Rubin again many years later when my mother was battling leukemia. We came to Dr. Rubin late in her illness and though there was little he could do for her in the way of treatment, he showed her great compassion. I will always be grateful to Dr. Rubin for the kindness he showed to my mother in her final days.

October 26, 2018

Suellen, Dr. Nancy & family,

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

Allene Perry

Craig Wandke

October 25, 2018

A wonderful, gentle, compassionate physician who helped me get through my diagnosis as a man with breast cancer. My heart is with the family. I will miss him greatly.

Roseanna Solomon

October 22, 2018

To the family of DR. Rubin I thank GOD for him he saved my life on July 10th 2012 when I was diagnosed with Chronic Myeloid Leukemia he was the best caring loving and kindhearted Dr that I ever had I will miss him Rest in peace Dr. Rubin. God please give the Rubin family strength and comfort in their time of need. Thank you.

October 22, 2018

one of the most wonderful compassionate doctors, he will be missed. thank you doc!

John Wyant

October 21, 2018

I'm sorry to hear this and my sympathy to the whole Runin Family. Dr. Rubin to me is one the best Doctors I have ever seen along with his Daughter. When I was in the Hospital 2007 I felt very secured and well cared for . To all the Rubin Family I am very Sorry for your loss as he was a great man and anyone that never never met this wonderful man really missed out. God Bless You All.
John Wyant ([email protected]).

October 21, 2018

I know the Angels of Heaven were in waiting for this great human being. What a treat to the Medical Profession of Monterey. My heart weeps for our loss of caring that this wonderful Dr. gave all his patients. I being one of them. He is not gone, he is just away. NO one can take your place but you have inspired the ones that truly try. Thank you for taking care of me. With much Love,
Mary Paddock

Lisa Davenport

October 20, 2018

Dr. Rubin will be missed by the patients who adored him as I did. No doctor will ever measure up to Dr. R. Simply the kindest, nicest and most gentle person ever!

Liane Pfaff

October 18, 2018

My mom & I could not have had a kinder more thoughtful Doctor to care for us during one of the scariest times in our lives. You will be missed by so many who you gave care and comfort to for many, many years.

From my garden, for you

Kathy Nolan

October 18, 2018

Ah, Dr. Rubin, you're gone. Returned to star dust. Indefatigable, pouring out compassion as if from a wellspring inside - so many of us mourn you now. We hope that at the end of your selfless time on earth, your "seas were calm and your ship sailed easily", and we know that your family must certainly be comforted, somewhat, by the love that surrounds them now.

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