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Emma Coleman Obituary

OBERLIN - Emma Rose Coleman, 19, died unexpectedly in Oberlin when her heart stopped on Saturday night, November 26. She was removed from life support at the Cleveland Clinic on Tuesday morning, November 29, where her organs were donated. An accomplished violinist, artist and writer, Emma was a 2010 graduate of Oberlin High School, and was a sophomore at Smith College in Northampton, Massachusetts, where she was a recipient of a STRIDE research scholarship. Emma is survived by her immediate family: mother Rebecca Cross, father Randolph Coleman and cherished brother Schuyler Samuel Coleman; half-sister Rachael Brehm, and nephews Clayton and Davis Brehm of Oberlin and half-brother Ian Coleman of Eugene, Oregon; uncles and aunts Tim Cross and Ute Hahmann of Dresden, Germany; Sean and Kelly Cross (cousins Davis and Loren) of Boise, Idaho; Henry and Leslie Coleman (cousins Mary Clayton and Ran), Clayton and Crystal Coleman (cousin Alan), and aunt Patricia Harding (cousins Neal and Gene) of Virginia; the Madden cousins of Vermont; her beloved, Lee Carruthers, and his daughters Zoe and Kira; and many godmothers, friends and teachers. Her memorial service will be held in Finney Chapel in Oberlin on Sunday, December 18th from 4-6 p.m. A private internment at Westwood Cemetery, and the scattering of some of her ashes into the waters of the Northern Oregon coast, will be made at a later date. A book fund at the Oberlin Public Library has been created in her name, and contributions in her honor may be made to Oberlin Community Services or Doctors Without Borders/Médecins Sans Frontiers.
Online condolences may be made to www.cowlingfuneralhomeoh.com.

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Published by The Morning Journal from Dec. 6 to Dec. 7, 2011.

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May 20, 2012

Rebecca and Randy, I am so sorry you lost Emma. My heart is heavy.
Joanne Cornelius

Deborah LeBer

May 16, 2012

Rebecca,and family I am devistated to hear of your loss. Emma was an angel walking this earth. I am sending my deepest and most loving sympathies to you all. Please if I can be of any help to you through this time and forever please contact me. I love you dearly and cannot wrap my mind around this. Please take care of yourself and let everyone help you and the family through this.

Barbara Kryc (Pratt)

December 17, 2011

Dearest Rebecca, Randy and Schuyler, I am so very sorry for the loss of sweet Emma. As my dear seventh grade student she wrote about lavender clouds and tofu turkeys and gender roles in the media. I regret deeply the loss of her life and embrace the short time I had to spend with her. She taught me much. Barbara Kryc (Pratt)

tiffany georgiadis

December 11, 2011

Randy, Rebecca, and Schuyler- Emma has been in my thoughts constantly over the past weeks. She was such a bright, gentle soul. Rebecca, as you would say:"Thank you for her." I truly have benefited from knowing your family. Thank you for your friendship and warmth.

December 9, 2011

My thoughts our with your family and Emma. She was such a beautiful, fun person. I hadn't seen her since high school but I will always have fond memories of being with her in drama club and school.

Marilyn Mayer

December 8, 2011

Rachel and family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Altough I have never met Emma, What a beautiful person she was. God Bless your family. I know how hard it is to go through something like this. May God be with you and fill you with his peace. "Weep but briefly for your loved one as she enters into the Kingdom of God for she shall possess a joy and peace that is unattainable on God's Earthly realm. Rejoice in her Everlasting and Total Happiness for Emma's eyes have seen God"

valssss ssss

December 6, 2011

Having never met this family, you must be so proud of your angel to have accomplished so much in such a short period of time. This is proof that God knows perfect when HE sees it

Rachel Hickson

December 6, 2011

Dear Rebecca, Randy and family: Our sincerest condolences on the loss of your daughter Emma. We send our sincerest sympathies.
Rachel Abelson Hickson '80, David Hickson '82

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