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Jared T. Picarella Loving son, brother and uncle Middlesex/Naples - Jared T. Picarella, age 28, passed away unexpectedly on Saturday, Feb. 14, 2009. Jared was born Sept. 29, 1980 in Rochester and was a son of John J. and Debra S. (Sykes) Picarella. He was a graduate of Naples Central School and also attended Calvin College and Cornerstone University in Grand Rapids, Mich. Most recently, he was attending Keuka College. Jared worked for several construction companies in various positions in Michigan and at Bristol Builders. He attended Bristol Springs Free Church. Jared enjoyed snow skiing, hiking and swimming. He was predeceased by his brother, Zachary J. Picarella on June 6, 1993. He is survived by his parents, John and Debra Picarella of Middlesex; sister, Jessica (Daniel) Donnelly; and nephew, Zachary Donnelly, both of Phillipsburg, N.J.; paternal grandparents, John and Stella Picarella of Westwood, N.J.; and several aunts, uncles and cousins. Friends may call Wednesday from 2 to 4 p.m. and 7 to 9 p.m. at Baird - Moore Funeral Home, 154 S. Main St., Naples. A memorial service will be held Thursday at 4 p.m. at Bristol Springs Free Church, 6481 County Road 12, Naples. Burial will be in Rose Ridge Cemetery, Naples. Those who wish to light a memory candle for Jared may do so at www.bairdfu neralhomes.com. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Bristol Springs Free Church Youth Group or Middlesex Ambulance.

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Published by Daily Messenger on Feb. 17, 2009.

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Barb Spohn

March 6, 2009

Dear Debra, John, Jessica and family,
I just heard last night about Jared while I was in Walmart's and I was so shocked. Jonathan and I ran into Jared sometime in January after the holidays at Eastview Mall and we had a wonderful conversation with him. He told us about his illness and he talked about taking courses and his dreams of dating and marrying and starting a family, etc. He was so upbeat and positive and happy.
I told Jonathan about Jared at Walmart's and he had to immediately leave the store. He cried all the way back home. Jonathan still talks about Zach. Jonathan was saying recently that he wanted to hang out with Jared occasionally. Jared was such a great young man. I fell in love with Jared when he took swimming lessons as a little boy at about age 3. I thought he was the cutest little boy. Jonathan and I just want to say how sorry we are and Jared will be truly missed. I know he's with Zach and I know Fred is looking out for both of them.
Sadly,
Barb and Jonathan

Mrs. David Widrig

February 28, 2009

John, Debbie & family - our prayers are with you as you grieve. Jesus tells us he leaves us a comfortor. (we now this is the Holy Spirit)
John 14:16-18 "And I will pray the Father, and he shall give you another Comforter, that he may abide with you for ever; "Even the Spirit of truth; whom the world cannot receive, because it seeth him not, neither knoweth him: but ye know him; for he dwelleth with you, and shall be in you."I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you"

Debbie & Don Lockhart

February 23, 2009

Debbie, John, Jessie and Family -

It was with great sorrow that we learned of your loss of Jared. We had been in NC visiting Bryon and his family. Know that we think of you all often and remember those early days on Raeburn Ave as precious and fond memories. Know you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Tina Grove-Norman

February 21, 2009

John, Debbie, Jess and family,
My family and I would like to send our deepest sympathy. I believe the worst part of life is death. Jareds great smile and personality will certainly be missed. We hope to send strength through our prayers to help you get through this huge loss.

Becky and Doug Conard

February 20, 2009

John, Debbie, Jessie, Dan, and Zack, I still can't believe the good Lord took Jared so soon! It is never easy to lose a loved one, no matter how full or happy their lives may have been! May God richly bless you and comfort you in this most precious loss! I will never forget the memories that we had, swimming, cub scouts, fishing with gummy worms, and life in general! I will miss that guy terribly! He was such a gentle soul, and now he is in the arms of God! My prayers are with you!

Mark Nunamaker

February 20, 2009

Dear Debbie, John, & Jessica & Family,
I want to send our condolensces on my entire family's behalf. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Carol Sullivan

February 19, 2009

Dear Debbie, John, & Jessica & Family,
Think of Jared always living in the hearts of those he touched, for nothing loved is ever lost & he was loved so much,by so many. God be with all of you at this great time of sorrow.
With love & prayers,
Your cousin Carol & Family

Elaine Hudak

February 19, 2009

Dear Debbie & John,Jessie,Daniel&Zach,

We are so sorry to hear of your great loss.
Jared was a wonderful young man and he will be greatly missed.
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. May you find peace in knowing Jared is in the loving arms of his Lord.

With deepest sympathy,
John & Elaine
Bonnie & Linda

Bryon Lockhart

February 19, 2009

To the Picarella family,

Our deepest condolences to your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jerome Duncan

February 18, 2009

Dear John and Debbie,
I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. I wish I could be there for you John.

Tom Hawks II

February 18, 2009

Dear John and Debbie... I am so sorry to hear of the death of Jared. He was a fine young man with so much to give. It is hard to know God's plan in times like this. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.

Sue Dominick

February 17, 2009

Dear Debbie and John, You are in my thoughts and prayers. We do not know what the future holds for us. We can only live and love each day.
I'm sorry for your loss.

Christine Zumbo(Senglaub)

February 17, 2009

It has been many years since I lived across the street from your family in Naples, but your family is remembered as one that loved our Lord...may He comfort you all at this difficult time, as only He is able to do.

John & Courtney Bolton

February 17, 2009

We are so lucky that Jared became one of our very close friends over the past few years. He was so kind and will be missed so much.

Kelly Hubbard / Herrick

February 17, 2009

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that I am praying for your family. Jared was a wonderful childhood friend and I had the honor of dancing with him at my wedding. I will charish that memory forever.

Jim Brewer

February 17, 2009

Jared was a kind and gentle soul . . . always there to help, he will be missed. We were not made for this earth, heaven is our home. Jared has gone home and he is praising in the presence of the Lord.
Joy in Jesus <

Susan Nash

February 17, 2009

John and Debra, I am so sorry that this has happened. You and your family are in my prayers and the prayers of many others. May the Good Lord above hold you in His arms and comfort you at this time.

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