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Allan W. "Skip" Dees

Allan W. "Skip" Dees obituary, Midland, TX

Allan Dees Obituary

Allan W. (Skip) Dees passed away May 12, 2009 at his Midland residence.

He was born June 23, 1942 in Dallas, Texas, grew up in Kaufman, Texas, and graduated from Kaufman High School in 1960. He earned a Bachelor of Science Degree in Electrical Engineering from Texas A&M University in January, 1965.

After graduation, Skip joined Texaco as a petroleum engineer in South Texas and worked in various petroleum engineering and engineering management positions in South Texas, Southeast Texas, and Trinidad, West Indies. He became a Registered Petroleum Engineer in Texas in 1974. In 1981, he organized Texaco's Houston Division Regulatory Compliance Department. He was transferred to Midland in 1984 as Regulatory Compliance Manager (and later Environmental, Health, and Safety Manager) for Texas and New Mexico.

Skip was named Texaco Regulatory Affairs Manager in 1994, with responsibilities primarily for Texas regulatory and legislative matters. He served on Texas Oil and Gas Association's (TxOGA's) Production Environmental Committee from 1984 and was its Chairman from 1987 until his retirement from Texaco in November, 2002. During the same period, he was also an active member of TxOGA's Regulatory Practices Committee. He was the first recipient, in 1995, of Texas Oil and Gas Association's Exemplary Service Award. Since retiring from Texaco, he has continued full-time support of these and other TxOGA committees as a Regulatory Affairs Consultant on contract to TxOGA.

Skip served as an Elder of First Presbyterian Church in Liberty, Texas. He served as Deacon and Elder of Trinity Presbyterian Church in Midland, and continued to participate in church committee work when not an elected church officer. He taught adult Sunday School classes in Liberty, and has been a children's Sunday School teacher in Midland since the late 1980's.

He served the Boy Scouts of America for eight years while in Liberty, Texas, as a Cub Scout Pack Committee Secretary and Den Leader and as Assistant Scoutmaster and Scoutmaster. Some of his fondest memories were of the three trips he was able to make to Philmont Scout Ranch as a Scout Leader and of seeing his oldest son earn the rank of Eagle Scout.

Skip was a member and affiliated Past Master of Midland Masonic Lodge No. 623. He was a 32nd Degree Scottish Rite Mason and a member of Lubbock Consistory. He was particularly active in the various organizations that compose the York Rite of Masonry. In addition to being a past presiding officer of all four of the major York Rite Bodies and an officer in several other York Rite honorary organizations, he had held several appointive and elective offices on the statewide level. As a local representative of the Knights Templar Eye Foundation, he assisted applicants for financial assistance with eye surgery to obtain that assistance since 1993, and he served for several years on a Knights Templar Educational Foundation state committee to review scholarship and educational loan applications. In recognition of his service to Masonry and his community, he was awarded the Knight Templar Cross of Honor in 2003 and the Knight Commander of Temple in 2006 by the Grand Encampment of the United States of America. He was also awarded the Golden Keystone A ward in 2005 by the Grand Chapter Royal Arch Masons of Texas.

He was preceded in death by his mother, Sadie Sampsell Dees.

Survivors include his wife of 42 years - Billie June Kellar Dees; three children - Randy Dees of Midland, Katherine Short of Corpus Christi, Tx, and Douglas Dees of Burkeville, Tx; six grandchildren; his father - Allen D. Dees of Kaufman and Brownsville; and two sisters - Marilyn Denisco of Columbus, OH and Linda Roy of Shreveport, LA.

A memorial service has been scheduled for Saturday May 16, 2009 at 2 p.m. at Trinity Presbyterian Church in Midland, with Dr. Tom Lobaugh officiating. The family requests that memorials be made to Trinity Presbyterian Church or to the Knights Templar Eye Foundation, 5097 North Elston Avenue, Suite 100, Chicago, IL 60630.

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Published by Midland Reporter-Telegram from May 15 to May 16, 2009.

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linda Roy

May 9, 2025

Missing you Skip. It´s so funny that you and May 12 popped into my head just a few minutes before I got this reminder. Keep a seat warm for me. I love you

Linda

May 9, 2024

Another year gone by, Skip. I still miss you so much. Loving you u til I see you again.

Linda roy

May 9, 2023

It´s me again skip. God knows I miss you.

Linda Roy

May 9, 2022

Loving you Skip and wishing I could hear your voice one more time. I know you are watching over Douglas and Kathy And I know you are so proud of them.

Linda Roy

May 9, 2021

Missing you today Skip! Now you have Billie with you. Your mansion is growing. I love you.

LINDA ROY

May 9, 2020

Another year has passed, Skip, without you here with me. Now you have Rob with you all. Hope you are having some laughs about life with me. I am greatful you haven't had to live through the Covid 19 Virus episode. Robert bought a big truck like yours to pull his 5th wheel. Riding in it reminds me so much of our Kaufman trip in yours. You, Marilyn and I had so much fun!. I miss you so much. I love you, big brother.

Sharon Manning

May 10, 2019

I'll never forget his kindness to Mother and me, and our pack of neighbor kids. Sharon Manning

LINDA ROY

May 9, 2019

Missing you today as I do every day, Skip. The world today is a MESS. You would be able to put some reason to it for me. I still see that quirky smile and hear you say "How's it going Little Sis?" I love you Skip and look forward to seeing you again with Mama and Daddy.

Sharon Manning

May 7, 2018

I'll never forget your kindness to Mother, my neighborhood kids and me. What a gentleman.

Linda

May 6, 2018

I miss you, Skip.

February 3, 2016

I miss you Skip! More today than yesterday! I am greatful Marilyn saved this so I could look back at how loved you were. Hug Mama and Daddy for me. I love you.

Randy Dees

May 18, 2013

Wanted you to know that you may be gone but you are not forgotten. Both Ivy and I are missing you. It is 4 years now, but it does not make it any better at the moment. I am hopeful that one day it will not hurt as much. I love you very much.

Randy Dees

May 13, 2012

When a great man dies, for years the light he leaves behind him, lies on the paths of men.
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882) U.S. poet.

Rand Dees

May 12, 2012

3 years ago and were still here missing you very much. I wonder what you would have to say today if you were here with us sitting across from us eating your favorite meals and later sitting in your favorite recliner watching nascar. Your very much missed, your wisdom and guidance is missed. It hurts not knowing that you are not down the street from me to check on you. Even as stubborn as you were and did not like. Said it made you feel helpless, but I know you knew we did it out of love and concern. I know you enjoyed a great meal. I know Ivy misses you dearly too. She too misses being able to talk to you and watch you eat her home cooking. I know to say that I hope to see you soon is (for those who don't understand) would be wrong but I miss you greatly. Till then I will wait to see you on the other side. Save me a cold soda. Love ya dad.

Randy Dees

June 24, 2011

Dear Dad, I am sorry I did not write this exactly on Father's Day for both you and Granddad, but I had to take care of Ivy. I almost lost her taht day. because her blood volume was a 5 insteat of the the 14 or greater for an adult female should have been. She told me at told me at one point in time while the were giving her blood that you told her she could not leave just yet and that she still needed to help me for a while longer. Shewas happy to see you but sad she could not be there with you, granddad and Chuck. She still has 2 more major surgeries left to go through in the next few months, Ineed you to help me get her through these. I can not lose my my best friend dad, it would kill me. As it goes she is all I had in this world. Next Wensday please be with us and help me protect her. I know your not here in body but you will be there in spirit and I need you close by. I miss you so much and I miss you counsel in these matters. Protect us both please. I love you and miss you........Randy

Randy Dees

June 5, 2011

It has just been over 2 years now (to be exact 2 years and 26 days) since your passing. The very first week after your passing, I was hospitalized because my body shut down because I just could not deal with the fact you were gone. After about 2 weeks in the hospital and CCU, I came home and tried to begin the healing. The first year anniversity of your passing I lit a white candle on the fire place mantle next to you picture as a rememberance of your guiding light. The second year I did the same, then I got a call on May 19,2011 (again your 2nd year anniversity) and was told that you would be seeing your father (my granddad soon) that he had passed that day. For a brief moment, there was shock, but then I knew that you would be alright Nana and Granddad were with you. It does not make it any harder to stop crying when I think about you not being here or as I write this. Ivy and I do so much miss you and wish you could still be here for those meals you liked so much. Not let us forget about the hidden diet cokes she placed in the ice box that only you and her knew where they were. I know that you are at peace. I know that your faith and beliefs lead you to that place that you were bound from while you were alive. I know you were met with open arms to not only friends and family but our Lord and Saviour, who is watching over you and your family. I can only hope that I will continue to make you proud and that as I live my life here on earth, that then and only when it is my time to take my place by yourside again. I will be everything you hoped for in a oldest son, a man, and that I made you proud. Until then, I will stand tall, walk straight, and never forget you.

Marilyn Denisco

July 18, 2009

As you know, I happened across my copy of the Midland paper with your death notice yesterday. It surprised me all over again to realize that I will not hear your funny laugh (Heh-eh-eh) again or see your determined opposition to whatever opinion I might have.

My missing of you is overwhelming, as I struggle to reconcile the distance that kept us apart during our adult lives. I can't imagine what your wife and children, and grandchildren must be feeling while the days between your last visits grow longer.

I will hold the memory of your funny little nuances and also your deep wisdom in my heart. I know that you are with me whenever I remember to remember. I love you, Skip

Randy Dees

May 29, 2009

5/29/2009 7:03 PM
The day that the Midland Police Officer knocked on my door I knew something was wrong, he really didn’t have to say where, when, or for that matter how. I knew that it was something very urgent. I had just spoken to my father probably 48 hrs at best just to see what he was up to and invite him for one of his most sinful pleasures; fried green beans, cornbread, and boneless barbeque chicken breast which were slow roast in the cooker. Another one of his favorites that my wife Ivy would cook would be cornbread and cabbage with polish sausage. It was always funny to watch him toss the cabbage on to the cornbread. He had this evil little grin on his face when he would have dinner with Ivy and me. It was almost as if he was getting away with murder or some sort of sin, but rest assured he was there to sit back, rest, take load off his feet and mind, then there was sometimes he would fall asleep in “HIS RECLINER AT OUR HOUSE” and enjoy a home cooked meal and a couple of hours with me and Ivy.

Some of my earliest memories of my father take me back to Liberty Texas were we lived up until 1984. I remember him participating with me in the cub scouts and into the boy scouts. Dad became active and was as a den leader and scout master going to summer camp outs at Camp Urland in Woodville Texas. I remember his first trip, our scout master Art Barkus, taught him a few lessons that he carried with him each time we had a camp out. Very plainly put, 1) set up your tent 2) set up your chair 3) relax and guide the scouts to reach their potential 4)finally don’t forget to enjoy your coffee. Dad and I also had a couple of opportunities to travel to Cimmaron New Mexico, to the Boy Scout high adventure ranch called Philmount. To see him smile at the wonders that this scout ranch had to show just made your hard soar into the clouds. He would make a few trips there doing 50 mile hikes and 100 mile hikes with me. I remember him being by my side when I was awarded the Eagle Scout merit badge and ribbon. Dad and I were both involved in the Order of the Arrow in scouting when he was inducted into the last trip we made to summer camp. As a family we traveled some in a 27 foot AVON travel trailer around the United States, of which my fondest was the trips to the Rocky Mountains in Colorado.

Shortly after that we moved to Midland Texas, where he set up shop and did what he did best work hard to provide for his family and ensure the needs were taken care of. I remember going up to the Heritage Center Plaza where he would work and visit him during the day, and sometimes when he was up there late at night. He helped me a lot while I was in school. He was a big Midland Lee Rebel Fan and Lee Band sponsor to which I played trombone in for 3 years.

My father was very active with many numerous activities over the many years some I cannot even begin to totally remember. Here is just a brief glimpse into a very, church, the Masonic Lodge, the Knights Templar, the York Rite Bodies of the Masonry Organization, Scottish Rite, Boy Scouts of America, and this is just to name a few.

Upon my return from the United States Army, a bond began to form between my father and me. My father, he was no longer just my father, mentor, role model, but he became my closest friend. He became a father figure to my wife Ivy and also a grandfather to Chad, April, and Amy. Then also grandpa Skip to Joseph, Alyssa, and Brianna. Dad where ever he when to had a somewhat commanding presences that would calm even the tenses situation. My father could take something that was very irrational and make it very rational to anyone. Dad was like the scales of justice whom could analyze a situation and would only tip the scales only if was the correct absolute right choice. This was always a huge help to me when I needed his perspective on something

Finally, I would like to say a special thanks to everyone that was able to attend the memorial, and whom couldn’t attend the service but had us in their prayers, all I can really say to you from the bottom of my heart and soul thank you very much for all the support.

RD

Katherine Short

May 23, 2009

There are so many things I could say about my Daddy. He meant the world to me. He was always a busy man, but he was always there for me, even if it was just to listen. He was my voice of reason when I was unable to see things clearly. Anytime I had a question about something, he either knew it or he would research it and find out. He was and will always be my hero. I will miss you Daddy more than you will ever know. I would give anything for one more hug from your loving arms, but I know in my heart that you are at peace. You no longer have any worries or cares in the world, and you are now in God's loving arms. I also know that you will be their with arms wide open when it's time for me to come home too. I love you. I will miss you.

Linda Roy

May 22, 2009

Skip was my brother, my confidant, my mentor, my HERO. He was the glue that held our family together from all sides.
I miss you Skip

Ronald & Sarah Guillory

May 21, 2009

In times like this we are thinking of you and your family. You are in our heart's and prayers. God Bless

Marilyn Denisco

May 19, 2009

As a member of his family, I was blessed to share life with Skipper. His passion for serving and for helping others, fulfilled his fondest wishes. Love for his family dominated above all other interests. Yet he made time to exceed expectations throughout his career at Texaco, and also during his so-called "retirement". He strove for excellence in every aspect of his life and public service, although his housekeeping left something to be desired. Skip was a man of few words but lofty thoughts. He was a character and a class act. He was wise, as well as ever curious. He was an exemplary man who was vulnerable to a fault. He was a good friend. He was my brother.

Chris Goode

May 17, 2009

Skip was my cousin. He was so dear to my heart! We planned the last family reunion together last summer. He had more fun than any of us! I talked to him the Saturday before he went to heaven. I tried to set up a time to see him. He loved hisfamily, work, Masons, and church. He was extremely busy. He told me he was very happy. My last conversation with my cousin was such a good one. I am so lucky that he was my cousin! His service was beautiful! It touched my heart!

Deb Hastings

May 15, 2009

Selfishly, I am not ready to say good-bye to my dear friend, Skip. He was one of the most dedicated & hard working persons I have ever had the privilege of knowing. He taught me how to love life.

charles teel

May 15, 2009

So very sorry to hear of your loss.may GOD comfort your family

Ruth Journey

May 15, 2009

He has touched the lives of so many people. He will always be an inspiration in my life. His goodwill towards mankind will live forever.

Doug Teel

May 15, 2009

God bless the Dees family and our prayers are with y'all. Skip seemed like a wonderful man, even though I didn't get the pleasure of meeting him. I know He's leaving a great legacy for his friends and family. Although, he will be missed dearly.

Michelle Wagner

May 15, 2009

Skip was a wonderful person. If ever there were an angel on Earth, it was him. He will be missed by all.

Sherrill Trammell

May 15, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your families.
With Heartfelt Condolences,

Ione & Tom Martin

May 15, 2009

God be with you as you remember all the wonderful time with Skip. He was a special person and he will be missed by all.

May 15, 2009

Skip, you are sorely missed by all your friends at the Railroad Commission of Texas. ...John Tintera, Ex Dir. Austin

Sharon Manning

May 15, 2009

God is so good to have sent Skip to us all. I considered him my 'other brother' and appreciated how sweet he was to my little Mother who adored him. He was one of the good guys.

Richard and Kathy Doss

May 15, 2009

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

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