Abigail Montana Swanson
September 11, 2001 - August 11, 2023
BUTTE - On August 11, 2023, while she slept in her dorm bed, the Lord gently took Abigail Montana Swanson home. They say it was asthma.
Abby was our first child. We didn't know how much we could love until we saw Abby. She was beautiful and she was perfect. She was born in Mission Hills, CA on the infamous "9-11" day. While the world mourned, we celebrated.
Because she was an Army Brat Abby lived in nine different towns as a child.
Abby started school at Independent Elementary in Billings, Montana. After her 3rd grade year, the family moved to Butte, Montana where she started 4th grade at West Elementary. Abby loved West. She was part of the West Buff's Ski Club and the volleyball team, and the Tiernan Irish Dancers. Abby attended Butte's East Middle School where she went to New York City with the Travel Club. In 2016 Abby started at Butte High. During this time she learned to fly airplanes and often buzzed our house on West Platinum. While growing up Abby and family went to Disneyland once and to Disney World, Universal Studios, Legoland, and Sea World in Florida and Lagoon Park in Utah many times. Abby also went with friends to Silverwood Park in Idaho. She loved amusement parks but Disney was her favorite. She was saved by Christ and with family attendant Butte's Abundant Life Fellowship. Eventually Florida started calling her name so she graduated early and moved to Ocala, Florida, her mother's hometown, in January of 2020. She did return to "Walk" for graduation at the Butte Civic Center on May 27, 2020 then flew back to Orlando.
She learned to ski at the age of 5 and became an excellent skier. She never missed a season and skied all of Montana's best ski resorts.
In June of 2020 Abby's family moved to Ocala and soon after Abby moved to Orlando to attend Valencia Community College where she received her Associate's Degree. She transferred to the University of Central Florida in Orlando where she was pursuing a degree in psychology with the goal of following in her mother's footsteps and becoming a Mental Health Therapist. She went to Heaven a week before her senior year started.
Once in Orlando Abby had annual passes to Disney World, Universal Studios, and Sea World. She also started working as a "Bar Wench" at Medieval Times Dinner and Tournament. She loved that job and her co-workers.
In Orlando Abby absolutely blossomed. Everyone noticed. It was like the Florida sun was always shining on her and it reflected off of her brilliantly. In Orlando she started living her dream life, a dream life of good friends, college, amazing restaurants, mind blowing movie theaters, the world's best amusement parks, beaches, cruise ships, the Caribbean, road trips from Key West to Savannah and from Cocoa Beach to the Gulf Coast, and even a medieval Castle with a King and Queen and brave Knights in shining armor who all adored Abby.
Abby loved travelling and here is a list of some of the places she visited: New York City, Seattle, Los Angeles, Las Vegas, Salt Lake City, Phoenix, Dallas, San Antonio, Atlanta, Saint Louis, Denver, Washington DC, Chicago, Miami, Oahu Hawaii, The Bahamas, The Cayman Islands, Jamaica, Cozumel, Castaway Key, Coco Cay, St. Thomas, St. Maarten, Cedar Key, Key Largo and Key West and all the Keys between.
Abby also loved Star Wars and got to see "The Force Awakens" in Las Vegas, "The Last Jedi" at the famous Chinese Theater on Hollywood Boulevard in Hollywood, and "The Rise of Skywalker" in Honolulu.
Abby also loved the Muppets, particularly Kermit the Frog. It was through Kermit's song "The Rainbow Connection" that she started letting us know, even if she didn't understand it herself, that she was being called away again but this time home to Heaven. Kermit sings these words, "Have you heard the voices? I've heard them calling my name. I've heard it too many times to ignore it. It's something that I'm supposed to be. Someday we'll find it, the rainbow connection, the lovers, the dreamers and me." We didn't understand it then either.
Abby lived an amazing life. She knew she was greatly loved by her mother and father and her brother and sister, extended family, friends, and Jesus. If Abby could tell you herself, she'd say that, out of all her travels and experiences, the greatest thing she did was to ask Christ into her heart.
Abby went before Parents Jennifer & Tracy Swanson & Sister Chloe Swanson in Ocala FL, Brother Bridger Swanson in Spangdahlem Air Force Base Germany. Maternal Grandfather Charles & Step-Grandmother Ellen DeBerry in Dayton OH, Step-Grandfather Bud Tate in Orange City FL, Aunt Kristy Paquette & Cousins Lizzy & Olivia Laserna in Ocala, Cousin Charles "Ricky" Robbins in Denton TX. Paternal Grandmother Sandra Gilbert in Huson MT, Uncle Curtis & Aunt Jenny Vaile & cousin Teagan Vaile in Huson & Cousin Corbin Vaile in Missoula MT, and Aunt Jessica Vaile in Chandler AZ. Those that went before Abby are Maternal Grandmother Priscilla Tate, Uncle Phil Laserna, Aunt Sheryl & Paternal Grandfather Jim Swanson.
Abby was a remarkable person. Beautiful, honorable, loving. She also was very brave and quite hilarious. And in her last years here she became a leader. We thank God that he let us parent her for 21 years and 11 months. She was our first child to arrive and the first one to return back to our Father. She's in much better hands now.
We love you Abby and are extremely proud of you. We miss your constant laughter, your beautiful face, your daily calls telling us about the funny thing that happened to you that day but mostly we miss hugging you. We miss you more than words can say. Our hearts are truly broken and past mending, but we know you're safe and thrilled to be dancing with Jesus and Nana Priscilla and, of course, riding a roller coaster over a rainbow and "Swansonizing it" for all of us. We look forward to hugging you again in the Rainbow Connection, the Lovers, the Dreamers, and us, Abby.
On Friday September 1st, Abby's earthly body was laid to rest at Glen Haven Memorial Park, Winter Park, Florida with many family and friends in attendance on a beautiful sunny day. Glen Haven is just a short drive to Disney World, Abby's favorite place on Earth.
The Swanson Family would like to thank all of you who helped us through this very difficult time. We are forever grateful. God Bless you all!
Dance Abby. Dance!
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Jennifer Vandekop
August 14, 2025
We think of your family often and keep you in our prayers
Bonnie Josephson
August 11, 2025
Miss Abigail, you are missed and loved and cherished. You have taught us all so very much. Your spirit, zest for adventure, love of new and exciting things. Keep an eye on us down here, we all require guidance and comfort. Love you dearly. Auntie B
Jerry and Gwen Anderson
August 10, 2025
I just reread and very much enjoyed the beautiful recounting of Abigail Montana´s life. She accomplished so much in her short lifetime; quite an inspiration to all. It is clear that she lived with gusto and enthusiasm, enjoyed her life ("Swanson-izing it")
and brought much joy to all that knew and loved her while she was on this earth, and still do, forevermore.
To the Swanson family, we love you. May God be with You always, give you a healthy measure of His amazing grace, and give you His peace that surpasses all understanding. In Jesus name, we pray, Amen.
Aunt Gwen and Uncle Jerry
Tracy J Swanson
November 19, 2024
Life is painful without you Abby. Life doesn't always work out and for us it didn't. We look forward to seeing you again in Heaven. I love you and miss you greatly. Your "Padre"
Jennifer Vandekop
September 12, 2024
Thinking of you, holding you in our hearts
Tracy J Swanson
September 12, 2024
Happy 23rd Birthday Abby. I miss you more than words can say. It is painful. And I hate that you are not here in the flesh. I really look forward to seeing you again. I love you and miss you. -- Dad
Bonnie
September 11, 2024
Dear Abigail, today was the date that you came to your mother and father and family, your birthday on earth. It was a day when sadness and uncertainty rang, but your birth was announced and gave us all hope and blessings. We miss you, your spirit and soul remain with us, as we honor all you are and have been...to this family. Guide us and help us heal and move forward. We think of you on the rising of each day. Love you so very much. Auntie B
Natalie Espinoza
August 11, 2024
It´s been one year since I lost one of the best people I´ve ever met, but her impact has never left my life. Through the year I often found myself lost on what to think and feel about many things. I would always go back to the sadness of losing Abby, like many of us have. I felt almost guilty to experience things that we always said we would do together, and I often forgot the joy that Abby brought me in that grief. But recently, I´m starting to remember. I remember her smile, her funny rants, and her advice. Her stories, her likes and dislikes, and her amazing capacity to live. Abby LIVED. She would always leap into experiences with no fear, and always come out on the other side smiling. She would take a chance on everything, always such an inspiration. Now she inspires me to live, still and always. I find myself thinking "What would Abby do?", and smiling at some funny comment she would make about the situation, and then, I always do it. She´s truly changed my life for the better, forever. We all feel the immense sadness of not being able to talk to her, laugh with her, or see her anymore. But I believe we still experience her every day. In the memories we made with her; many over a lifetime. In the people she´s changed. In the Disney parks, and in her favorite films and musicals. Sometimes we even see her in things we don´t expect, like gummy bears and butterflies. Through every milestone, and through every hardship, I just know she´s there. She will always be with us, and always be a part of our lives. I´m endlessly grateful, Abby. You´ve changed mine forever. I love and miss you every day. Your friend forever - Natalie
Bonnie Josephson
August 11, 2024
Abby, you have been gone from us a year now. We think of all the ways you have touched our lives. Miss you dearly. Auntie Bon
Madre
July 13, 2024
A year ago was our last visit to Disney together. We laughed about me buying you this Star Wars merch that you just had to have. So many amazing memories. Missing you terribly.
Bonnie Josephson
May 28, 2024
Missing you and thinking of you every day our dear Miss Abby.
Gwen Anderson
May 27, 2024
Abby, darling, We know you are in a Safe wonderful place and we are happy for that. But,
We continue to Think of you and miss you every day You are making heaven and even brighter Place and we look forward to being there with you eventually when our race has been run here on earth tell Jesus hello for us and all of our dear family. God bless you. Keep up the good work, sweet Abby. Much love to you uncle JERRY and aunt Gwen
Bonnie Josephson
February 29, 2024
Abigail Montana, we continue to think of you daily. We miss and love you and your spirit remains with us all who are still here...help guide and support us. Love you, Auntie Bon
Daniel Merrick
February 28, 2024
We are deeply saddened by your loss. What a remarkable girl. So full of life, beauty and such an adventurous spirit. She lived more than many in such a short time. I´m so glad she knew Jesus and that she is full of life right now. May God give your family comfort and hope at this time.
Deborah Brooks
January 25, 2024
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Nana Sandra
January 25, 2024
Our Abby.....priceless. Tell us stuff..... keep in touch with your parents in your heavenly ways. Love and miss you. In Heaven's kindness and for our sake, Speak, my girl..
Gwen Anderson
December 13, 2023
Enjoying the great pictures and reading about the precious memories that friends and family have of times with Abby. thank you all for sharing.
Kay Howard
December 11, 2023
Thanks for sharing Abigail's history. You have to be so proud of her adventurous spirit & personality that allowed her the courage to live life to the fullest at such a young age. She had accomplished more than most elders and is now a great warrior for the Lord. Blessings upon your family as you mend and heal.
Aunt Gwen and Uncle Jerry
December 10, 2023
Abigail. Abby. So sweet and pure. You were a remarkable young lady who lived an absolutely amazing life! Your passion and enthusiasm was a wonderful example for us to follow. You have a smile that is contagious, and it is what I see in my mind's eye when I think of you. And then it brings a smile to my face too! See!? Contagious!
in a very Good way :)
We believe You are busy up there in Heaven, helping to make preparations for the Return of our Lord and the Final Harvest of souls. You are deeply loved and missed. You will be spending CHRISTMAS with our Savior!! That is a lovely vision that helps to soothe our souls a little bit.
We will be thinking of You and Jesus on that special day.... and every day, with Love.
Rachel
December 6, 2023
Your soul was entirely too pure for this earth
Rachel
December 6, 2023
Abby is my best friend i´ve ever had the fortune of meeting in my life. I never had to think twice on if she had my back, I never had a friend who had the same loyalty for me as i did them. I am forever greatful to have experienced a best friend like that, and it´s my loss that she was gone so soon. There are still days when it´s hard for me to accept that you´re not here for to talk to, hang out with, even school. It broke my heart so much that we couldn´t start university together. I miss you everyday, and I know you´re happy and watching over from above. Save a seat for me in heaven with you, I love you so much
Natalie E.
December 5, 2023
Abby was my first friend here at UCF. I am so grateful that I turned and asked for her number at our orientation table, or else I would´ve never known such a beautiful person. She was so effortlessly funny, and she was the first girl friend I´d made in years. Our connection felt unreal. We´d sing "Man or Muppet" at the top of our lungs on our drives from Disney Springs, we´d talk about how much we loved the Star Wars sequels (even if it seemed like no one else did), and we of course would window shop all the time. She never made me feel weird when I would act silly like I always do, instead she would be silly in return. It truly felt like I was meant to meet her, I could talk about her forever! I attached a picture from a video we took at Epcot. We were super excited to be going to Disney together all the time. She made me immensely happy. The last memory I have of her was drinking a milkshake together at Universal the day before my birthday (May 8th) as a gift from her. I think about her every day. I never got to meet up with her and talk about our summer as I got back from my hometown of Miami just a few days after her passing, but no amount of time had or lost can change the fact that she was everything I´d dreamed of finding in a friend. I love you Abby, and I´ll be thinking of you as I walk the stage at graduation. Though you were meant to walk with me like we said, I know you´ll be with me in another way. I knew Abby for just a year, but I´ll remember her for the rest of my life. We were girls together.
Dad
December 5, 2023
First Chair on another Saturday morning "Dawn Patrol" We miss you Abby! How's the skiing in Heaven?
Dad
December 5, 2023
Lining up for the Butte Runway.
Mark, Bonnie, Taesan, Sojin
December 5, 2023
What wonderful pictures to share with us all. Thinking of you all and sending thoughts and prayers.
Dad
December 4, 2023
Swansonizing it in the Cayman Islands.
Dad
December 4, 2023
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Landing a plane at the Butte Airport
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Some family pictures. Abby flying and looking back at the Butte Airport. A Jeep trip around the Cayman Islands, Abby at Disney, A Luau at Disney Resort in Hawaii, Last lunch on the Florida Coast before Bridger shipped out for the military.
Patty O'Neill
December 3, 2023
Tracy, Jen, Bridge, and Chloe,
My heart is broken for you all. Abby was such a wonderful child-I got to know her at West when I taught Bridger and Chloe. She was quiet at first-but once you got to know her-she showed her quirky and fun sense of humor and enjoyment of life. I love your whole family and will pray for your loss.
Ms.O (Patty O'Neill)
Jenn Vaile
December 3, 2023
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Julie Robinson
December 3, 2023
So sorry for you loss. Your in our thoughts and prayers.
Julie Robinson and family
The Mummey Family (Cody, Jori, Carter, Tizer, & Charlie)
December 2, 2023
There are no words to express how truly saddened and sorry we are for the passing of sweet Abby. Reading about her life is such an inspiration to live every moment like she did. You raised a beautiful young lady that brought so much love and happiness to this world that will carry on through everyone that was blessed to have met her. We love you all and continue to pray for peace in your hearts and souls.
Chris D
December 2, 2023
So sorry to the Swanson family and friends. Such a tremendous loss. Praying for your comfort. She was an amazing person.
Bonnie Josephson
December 2, 2023
As I´m waiting to see my first message posted, I have re-read this story of Abby´s life over again and am simply amazed and feel truly blessed to have known this beautiful, young lady. Love you so much Swansons and miss you Abby.Auntie B
Kathy Johnson
December 2, 2023
Tracy and Jen, Bridget and Chloe!
I´m so sorry for your loss of sweet Abby! She was a beautiful young woman with hugh heart. We are praying for you all. We love you
Claire Britton
December 2, 2023
So many of my favorite childhood memories are with Abby, and she´ll always have a piece of my heart. My thoughts are with you guys, and I know she´s solving crimes up there with angela lansbury I was going through my photos and sadly realized I only had a few (I had hundreds of videos for movies, of course) but here´s one of my favorites
Zoe Myers
December 2, 2023
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Zoe Myers
December 2, 2023
There´s not enough words to describe how amazing Abby was. She was truly one of a kind. Her love, light, humor, perspective, and personality was so special and so unique and I am honored I got to experience all the amazing parts of Abby. My life is forever changed because of the time Abby was in my life. I am so honored to have had a friend like Abby.
To the Swanson family,
Thank you for raising such an amazing person. My life will be forever changed by all the love Abby gave me. I love you guys!
Jon Wolfson
December 2, 2023
Hi Swansons! Sending you love and strength this holiday season and always. Abby sounds like such an amazing, bright light - and the world needs more Swansonizing. Also, this is the best obituary I've ever read.
Robert Underwood
December 2, 2023
Abby was one of those special people who brightened up every place she went. Everyone who knew her would say the same. The Swanson family is one of those families that pulled it all together and they were totally blessed to have each other. Abby passing has put a huge hole in the Swanson Family but the love they all share will heal/patch this hole until they all meet again.
I know without a doubt they will all be together again someday. There is more to life than just living on earth. The time Abby was here on earth was short but the memory of her will go on forever. The Swansons were blessed to have her and will be blessed again when they all reunite.
Keep the faith, live your life to the fullest, live for the one that have passed and look forward to being together again.
Bonnie Gilbert Josephson
December 2, 2023
Trace, Jen, Bridger, Chloe...this family love you all and continue to pray and be a part of this healing from the loss of Abby. What a whirlwind life she had, what amazing memories and stories to share...but such a huge, difficult loss. Abby, all of your family here aspire to be more adventurous like you and to find greater faith and healing through this heartbreaking time. You gave us all hope on a day when the world was in great turmoil. You graced us all with your presence here. You will be our guide and guardian angel now. We love and miss you so much, Abigail Montana. Xoxo Auntie B
Sean O'Leary
November 28, 2023
Tracy and the rest of the Swanson family,
Our hearts go out to you in this difficult time. I wish I had the words to make this easier. Tracy, you were one of the first people I thought of with the recent loss of my brother, Ryan. To know you and your family are going through this is just heartbreaking. I lost my protector in my brother but knowing him, he is continuing that role with Abigail.
You're all in our thoughts.
The VandeKop Family
November 26, 2023
The Swanson Family, you continue to be in our thoughts and prayers...a beautiful tribute to a beautiful soul. With sympathy...
Debbie Mueller
November 26, 2023
Abby was a joy to have in class at West; I've never forgotten the Swanson kids and there was never a doubt in my mind that they came from a loving and supportive family. Abby's life was clearly too short, but you helped to make it a sterling adventure for her from start to finish. My deepest condolences to all of you as you struggle to find your way onto the path forward without your precious Abby
Jo Ann Buysse
November 26, 2023
I am deeply sorry for your loss! Abby sounds like an amazing person! Though I never knew her I feel like I know her through this loving Memorial. Jo Buysse
Jacoby C Lowney
November 26, 2023
What a tremendous tribute to her. My Condolences.
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