A memorial service will be held at 1 p.m. on Saturday, Jan. 19, at St. Simon Church in Los Altos, Calif., for Joan M. Gardner, who died Jan. 15, 2008, at 81. Burial services will follow at 2 p.m. at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in Los Altos, Calif.
Joan was born Feb. 3, 1926, in Butte. Upon graduating from Butte High School, she attended Saint James Nursing School and thereafter began working with the Nursing Cadets in Butte. When she was 21, she moved to Santa Monica, Calif., and took a position as a nurse with St. John's Hospital. In Santa Monica, she also met John J. Gardner, an aeronautical engineer, and they were married in 1951. In 1957 she and her family moved to Santa Clara, Calif. She lived in Santa Clara for over fifty years and was involved in many community and charitable organizations.
She later obtained her R.N. Certification through the University of Redlands and worked at Stanford University Hospital as a Registered Nurse. During this time, she continued on at Redlands to earn her Master's degree in Psychology.
She was an accomplished pianist and artist. She loved playing classical and popular music, as well as painting with watercolors and drawing with pastel. In her later years, she spent many relaxing afternoons in her garden tending to her flowers, and enjoying a rest in the shade when the summer heat became too oppressive.
Joan was a devoted mother, raising seven children. Her independent spirit, patience and perseverance gave her the tenacity and strong will to raise her family all the while fighting a life long battle with rheumatoid arthritis. With her guidance and support she saw all of her children graduate from college and establish professional careers for themselves. Her love for her family was abundant and apparent to those who knew her. She had an accepting nature and easily made friends and was much admired. Her family and friends will dearly miss Joan.
Her husband John died in 1988. Survivors include her sisters Sylvia Delaney and Rosemary DeYoung. Also surviving are her children Greg, Marianne and husband Charles Jackson, Shari, Cathy, Chris, Marty and wife Karol, Dave and wife Stacie; and her grandchildren Rachel and husband Anj, Michael, Jessica, Ryan and Emma.
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MARY MUNGER
January 24, 2008
DEAR GARDNER FAMILY,
IT WAS POSSIBLE FOR ME TO GET THE OBITUARY FOR JOAN AFTER A NURSE FRIEND TOLD ME ABOUT IT. AS YOUR AUNT SYLVIA'S SISTER-IN-LAW I FEEL AS IF I KNOW ALL OF YOU AND WHAT A DEAR CLOSE FAMILY YOU ARE. YOUR MOM WAS ALSO MY FRIEND AND COLLEAGUE AS GRADUATES OF ST.JAMES SCHOOL IN BUTTE. THE OBITUARY MERELY TOUCHES ON JOAN'S MARVELOUS QUALITIES AND ABILITIES AS SHE WAS VERY SPECIAL. SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE AND OUT OF PAIN AND LEAVES A GREAT LEGACY.
WITH SYMPATHY AND PRAYERS.
Stacie Sadler - Callaghan
January 21, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the Gardner family for the loss of Joan. She was a wonderful woman. So loving and giving. I will never forget her and am thankful for knowing her. May she rest in peace.
Mary Jayne Hellebust
January 20, 2008
We were sorry to hear of the death of our cousin Joan. Most of the younger cousins from the Butte area still remember Joan's mother and dad, our great aunt and uncle, Rose and Syl, as well as Bill and Clara. Janet Davis Kranjcec, the daughter of Tommy and Ernesta Davis is in Butte and told me about the announcement. I will send the information to the other Clancy cousins: Dannette Schneller Pirkl, the daughter of Florence Clancy Schneller; Bonnie Smith White, the daughter of Dorothy Clancy Smith Farlan, who is living in Helena; Colleen Clancy Hansen, the son of Dan Clancy; and Lynn Todd Loving, the daughter of Adeline Clancy Todd. I am the daughter of Margaret Clancy Page. I am sure that the cousins will pass the word on to all the other cousins also.
All our prayers and good wishes from the family that started out in Butte, Montana.
Margaret Grant
January 19, 2008
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts have been with you all day, since Barbara called this morning to let me know. I hope you are all together, I feel sure you are. Your mom was such a cool woman. I always admired her sweet disposition and easy going style. I was impressed by her formal education and her life time pursuit of it. I am sorry for the feelings and emotions that will be difficult for you but it will numb after a while and hopefully you can all help each other through the ups and downs of grief. I love all of you and I loved your mom. Margaret
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