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Shirley Williams-Spellman Obituary

SHIRLEY J. "SAM" WILLIAMS-SPELLMAN - 64, passed over peacefully on Tuesday, February 13, 2007 at Stamford Hospital after a long battle with lung cancer. She was a long time resident and descendant of many generations in Stamford. Shirley was a deeply loved single-mother of three children. She was an accomplished singer and artist who passionately enjoyed gardening and antique hunting. Sam co-owned and operated an antique shop, Resale and Consignment, for many years with partners Margo and Rhoda. She enjoyed an early retirement at the age of 62.

She is survived by her mother, Frieda Williams; a brother, David Williams; Barbara J. Burbank and Martin L. Burbank, her daughter and son-in-law; and John J. Palermo and Dana Palermo, her son and his wife. She was the proud grandmother of four girls, Mellisa A. Burbank, Jessica L. Burbank, Jenna C. Palermo and Molly A. Palermo. As well as many family members and numerous lifelong friends who have been blessed to know her and honored to call her daughter, sister, mom, aunt, grandma and friend.

Shirley was predeceased by her eldest daughter, Jodi A. Lorenti; and two brothers, George Williams, Jr.; and Richard Williams.

Final arrangements have been made through Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory, 104 Myrtle Avenue, Stamford, and will remain private as per her final wishes. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Loving Memory of Shirley Spellman to The Bennett Cancer Center, c/o Stamford Health Foundation, 9 West Broad Street, Stamford, CT

06902.

The family invites all to honor "Gramma Sam" by participating in the annual Bennett Cancer Center Walk, Run & Ride. The family will be coordinating a team to walk in the event and requests that you send a condolence via www.cognetta.com, so that we may contact you in the near future with the details.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by MyCentralJersey on Feb. 16, 2007.

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reed compo

February 26, 2007

To the Williams Family,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Mo Lord

February 22, 2007

I'm so sorry to hear of your mom's death. We were friends since kids growing up off of Long Ridge Rd. Our paths crossed frequently over the years and she was always lively and enthusiastic about whatever she was doing. It was always fun to catch up with her and I know she will be missed by so many.I remember her as a spunky and determinded woman. And that's a nice way to be remembered! My sympathy to you all.
Most sincerely, mo

Jim Lucas

February 17, 2007

John and Barbi,

I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of your mom. She was always very kind to me. My heart is with you.

Jim Lucas

Kevin/Cathi O'Brien

February 17, 2007

Dear Barb and John: You both know Sam meant the world to Kevin. His relationship and love for Jodi brought him to her and their friendship remained ever since. He has always said she was the best Mom ever.

When we were married, Kevin asked Sam to join him during the Groom and Mom dance. It was a beautiful testament to their love and respect for one another.

Rest in peace dear Sam. We are comforted knowing you have been reunited with those you love who passed before you, especially Jodi. We will keep you forever in our hearts and minds - knowing you will never be far from us.

With Love: Kevin and Cathi (Germain) O'Brien

Diana Williams~O'Meara and Family

February 16, 2007

Barbi and John ~
Genuinely warm,inspiring,caring and giving. That is what your mom always was to me and my family. Thoughts of her always bring a smile to my face. We will miss her very much.

Clifford Compo

February 16, 2007

Barbi and John, I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

February 16, 2007

Dear Grandma, Uncle David, Barbie and John,
Aunt Shirley will be sadly missed by all. We send you lots of love and prayers.

Love,
Jennifer Williams-Grecco, Jerry and Olivia

Allen & Patti Bantz

February 16, 2007

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time.

Alberta Williams Leone

February 16, 2007

Barbara Jean, John, Frieda and all family members. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you...
Your beloved mother and daughter will remain in my thoughts and prayers forever.
Alberta Williams Leone

Judy Compo Bump

February 16, 2007

Frieda and Family,

So sorry to hear that Shirley has passed. My deepest sympathy to all.

Judy

Bonnie Pomponi

February 16, 2007

Barbi and John,
We are sorry to hear about your mom. She was always a beautiful women and we had so many good memories in Bracewood Lane.

Bonnie, Timmy and Joan Maxwell

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