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Gerald Kosztur Obituary

Gerald John Kosztur Sr.

AGE: 53 • New Bern, NC

Gerald John Kosztur Sr., 53, loving and dedicated father, grandfather and husband, passed away on Monday, Nov. 10, 2014. He loved fishing and hunting. He is formerly of Monmouth County, NJ.

He is survived by his mother, Patricia Kosztur of Greenville, NC; his son, Gerald John Kosztur, Jr. of New Bern, NC; his daughters, Heather Lynn Kosztur of New Bern, NC and Kristina Ann Kosztur of Newport, NC; his brothers, Robert Kosztur of New Bern, NC, Ernest Kosztur of Oklahoma and Michael Kosztur of Greenville, NC; two grandchildren, Michael Maxximus Mullinax and Kian Andrew Kosztur; and his loving ex-wife, Kathryn Kosztur.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. Saturday, Nov. 15, 2014 at Cotten Funeral Home chapel. The family will receive friends following the service at Cotten Funeral Home. Arrangements are by Cotten Funeral Home & Crematory. Online condolences may be made to the Kosztur family at www.cottenfuneralhome.com.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Nov. 13, 2014.

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Bridget James Hofman

December 10, 2014

So sad to hear of Jerry's passing. Such a kind and sweet man. Even as a child, the best behaved of the four little "rascals". The older brother who looked after not only his little brothers, his well-loved children, but also his Mom.

Baby Gerry (6 months) with Grandma Ginley, Grandma Gert, Patti and Bridget

Bridget James Hofman

December 10, 2014

Rick Zeni

November 30, 2014

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.

November 23, 2014

Sorry to hear of your loss. Just heard about it today. Deeply saddened. Love Kevin and Lisa Petz, Hopelawn, NJ

Scott Mandel

November 17, 2014

Friends and family:Very sorry for your loss. Will remember the good times fishing and crabbing with Gerry. Many good times had.

Maurita & Tony Vecchio

November 16, 2014

So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you & your family Kathy at this time of sorrow.

Michelle McDonnell Fleischmann

November 16, 2014

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our prayers, Kathy!

Ruth Keel

November 15, 2014

So sorry for your loss, my prayers are with all the family. May God give you strength to endure all the pain.

Carson and Iris Jones

November 15, 2014

To all the family we send our condolances, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
We are here for you.
The Jones Family

November 15, 2014

Sorry for your loss, Gail Kosztur Davis

Kenneth Sheridan

November 14, 2014

You will be missed uncle Jerry. All of my memories I have are only good ones.

HOPE BROWN

November 14, 2014

I prayed that you would be found ok my friend, sadly you are gone. I will always have such fond memories of you and your family my friend. Hug Ernie and his little dog for me. Rest easy my friend <3 Hope

Wayne and Chrissy Ferrell

November 14, 2014

We love you and the memories we shared with you... You will always live in our hearts...

November 14, 2014

May the love of God shleter your family during your time of grief.  May God be your fortress and bring comfort and loving memories to hold in your hearts. I'm truly sorry for your loss.  Psalms 37:39

Genevieve Reed

November 14, 2014

Words cannot express our sincerest sympathy that goes out to the entire family. We believe that Jerry is now in the arms of his heavenly father and is at rest. Take heart in knowing that. With much love, Aunt Gen and family

November 13, 2014

Jerry, very sorry to hear about your dad. You and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. Let me know if I can do anything.

Benny and Joanie Williams

Vicki Trzeszkowski

November 13, 2014

We were very sorry to hear about Jerry's passing. Our sincere condolences to your family.

Loesch Family

November 13, 2014

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Will be keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

November 13, 2014

Kathy,
So sorry to hear of Gerry's passing. Although it has been a long time, Larry and I have often had you in our thoughts. Just want you to know our prayers are with you.

Sally and Larry Walker

Ginny, Claire, Bradyn and Emma

November 13, 2014

May your fondest memories soon ease your sadness. Sharing your grief,

Mark Lehman

November 13, 2014

So sorry for your loss. May memories comfort each of you in your family, May God Bless you all.

Gary Kosztur

November 13, 2014

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Brian Sheridan

November 12, 2014

I will always remember the times uncle Gerry taking me on his delivery routes. I had such a great time as a kid tagging along with him. He always spoiled his nephew. I wish I was able to see him more as an adult. Love you Uncle Gerry.

Barbara Sheridan

November 12, 2014

Words alone cannot express how deeply saddened we are about the loss of Gerry. Both Jamie & I hold many fond memories of Gerry in our hearts. May the love of friends and family comfort you during these difficult days.

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