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Stacy Fetyko Obituary
AGE: 38 • Brick
Stacy Lynn (Tuite) Fetyko, age 38, of Brick, passed away on Saturday, May 7, 2011 at home. Born in Point Pleasant, she lived in Brick most of her life. She was a member of St. Dominic's RC Church, Brick.
She is survived by her husband, James Fetyko; her parents Edward J. and Dolores (Di Donato) Tuite of Brick; four children Matthew, Daniel, Amanda and Cynthia; two brothers Edward J. Tuite Jr. of Bath, NY and Michael J. Tuite of Nutley, NJ; and her mother and father in law John and Charlotte Fetyko of Lakewood.
Visiting hours are Tuesday 4-8 pm at Colonial Funeral Home, 2170 Highway 88, Brick. A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered on Wednesday at 9 am at St. Dominic's Church, Brick, followed by interment at St. Mary of the Lake Cemetery, Lakewood.
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Memories and Condolences
for Stacy Fetyko
Loriann Gilmour
May 15, 2011
You were an amazing woman! Miss you so much... you will forever be in my heart. Love you!! xo
maryellen menzel
May 14, 2011
I can't stop crying.. I miss you so much. I try to think about all the fun times, we had growing up. I love you Stacy..xoxox
Amanda Fetyko
May 14, 2011
i love you mamacieta i miss you always,i cryed so hard and i wish you were still on earth
Amanda Fetyko
May 13, 2011
I love you so much mommy and I hope you know everybody who loved you and were your friend miss you.I cry everyday thinking about it. I feel so bad that I wasnt there with you when you died,I should have stayed,i hope you understand,I didnt know,you would pass away,I love you so much,I hope you know that,love a lways,your daughter.
Eve (again) Black
May 13, 2011
Xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo!
from everyone you have met
Cynthia Fetyko
May 13, 2011
I love you so much mommy. xoxo
Daniel Fetyko
May 13, 2011
I love you always,I couldnt imagine a life without you.
Matthew Fetyko
May 13, 2011
Love you mommy!
Eve black
May 13, 2011
even though i didn't know you long you are a nice person and so are your kids. you raised them right. Woof.
Amanda Fetyko
May 13, 2011
i love you so much mommy,you were the best mom ever.
amanda fetyko
May 13, 2011
I love you mommy
Richie & Anne Hratko
May 12, 2011
We met Stacy at Ocean Medical. No matter how much pain she was in or how bad her day had been, she always had a smile and a kind word. Stacy was an amazing woman.. A great inspiration to us all.. She will be greatly missed.. We know Stacy will be watching over all of you. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Jen Brine
May 12, 2011
Miss you so much Stacy...you will forever remain in my heart...love you always. Jen Brine
Jen Brine
May 12, 2011
Miss you so much Stacy...you will forever remain in my heart...love you always.
May 12, 2011
RIP STACY - YOU WILL BE MISSED - YOU WILL ALWAYS BE AN ANGEL!!!! CHARLES "JAMIE" DELMONTE
Roric Toomey
May 12, 2011
Stacy was a kind, loving and all around amazing girl. I chatted with her every other week and enjoyed every second. Thank you Stacy for being so strong and for being so amazing. I will miss her a lot.
Kat Belline
May 11, 2011
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you! She was an amazing woman!
Kat Pahira
May 11, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss, she's an amazing peron of strength and love.
Donna Tuite
May 10, 2011
Stacy... I remember you when you were a wee little girl.... and a beautiful young woman. You have been a wonderful daughter... and great Sister.... fun Aunt...and Fantastic Mother... I will never forget you. Have fun in Heaven with Chrissy!!!! I'm sure she missed her Aunt Stacy and was happy to see you!!! I will always love you!
Cathy Kelly
May 10, 2011
Stacy, I never met you, but was introduced to you and talked to you on Facebook through a friend. As you know I am not only a advocate but a caregiver of a brain tumor patient. My heart is broken and we can only hope for the healing of your children. You gave your best of what was expected - you were not only courageous but you are a hero!!! I hope that you rest in peace knowing that your children will heal in this process. I am hoping I can help in that respect. I pray for everlasting peace and I will help your children in every way I can.
Brenda Matthews (Hellberg)
May 10, 2011
My condolences go out to Stacy's family and friends during this very difficult time.
Barb Wyskowski, Jr.
May 10, 2011
So sorry for your loss, my prayers are with you.
MIKE EVERTSBERG
May 10, 2011
WE WILL MISS U STACY NOW GOD HAS ONE MORE BEAUTIFUL ANGEL GOD BLEES R.I.P LOVE U STACY
Amanda McManus
May 10, 2011
Im so sorry for the loss of your loved one. I'll keep u in my thoughts.
MICHELLE HALLOCK
May 10, 2011
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU
Edward Tuite III
May 10, 2011
Aunt stacy
You will be missed by many and loved by all that knew you. But now your a beautiful angel and will never feel pain again. Love you very much.
Mike Tuite
May 10, 2011
To my beautiful brave sister who was taken from us way too soon, you will be loved and missed forever. Love your brother Mike
Kelly O'Sullivan
May 9, 2011
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Brian Cronin
May 9, 2011
I reconnected with Stacy after HS last year. From our talks, I knew she was a strong and an amazing woman. My sympathy to her children and family. You will be missed.
Lori Berrios-Chebookjian
May 9, 2011
I will miss you, friend
maryellen menzel
May 9, 2011
you will never be forgotten..you touched the hearts of every1 who knew you. i love u dear cousin stacy..i will cherrish all the fun times we had.
Lori Doerrler
May 9, 2011
Good bye my beautiful friend, may you fly with the angels and flowers bloom in your name! Proud to have known you and shared some great times. You really did an amazing job with all of your kids!
God saw you getting tired
and a cure was not to be
so he put his arms around you
and whispered,
"Come to Me"
With tearful eyes we watched you
and saw you pass away
and although we love you dearly
we could not make you stay.
A Golden heart stopped beating
hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best
~unknown~
Rosanne Pillera
May 9, 2011
James, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news. Please know our family has you and your children in our prayers.
Kelly Gardner
May 9, 2011
You will forever live on in our hearts and through your children....God Bless You Stacy! Mothers like you sould not be allowed to leave our earth so young....
Holly Nacion
May 9, 2011
I knew Stacy for years working at Gusmer. She was such an amazing, strong woman. God bless her and keep her children and family safe. I remember the last time we talked late at night. She will truly be missed.
Lorraine Harvey
May 9, 2011
My heart is breaking for all of you in the loss of such a wonderful and amazing young daughter, mother and friend. I will always remember Stacy as a young girl in her teens, coming to our house in Brick with Loriann, and what a sweet girl she was. I know that all of the people who's lives she touched will miss her very much. You will all remain in my thoughts and in my prayers, as well in the thoughts and prayers of many, many others. May God give you His strength and peace in the mist of your grief, and may your loving memories of Stacy bring you great joy.
With deepest sympathy, Lorraine Harvey (Loriann Gilmours Mother-in-law)
Patricia Suhl
May 9, 2011
My deepest sympathy to Stacy's precious children, her loving parents and brothers, and her amazing friends. Stacy was one of the bravest women I have ever known. She had a kind heart and a genuine warmth about her. Thank you Stacy, for touching my life as well as many others. Rest in peace.
Kayla& Vinnie Ferriero
May 9, 2011
Aunt Stacy,
We love & miss you very much you, were the
best Aunt ever. we had a lot of good memories with you i remember the time when Lacy ran away and we went around and put up fliers for her. we will never forget all the christmases we spent at annie & poppop's.
Love always,
your niece and nephew.
Amy Evans
May 9, 2011
I miss you so much Stacy, you were an inspiration to so many. Your were so strong through everything you have had to deal with, thank you for being my friend.
God's Heavenly Garden
Sometimes God picks the flower
That is still in full bloom;
Sometimes the rosebud's chosen
That we feel He's picked too soon.
Sometimes the flower is fading
With petals floating down.
But God knows the perfect time
To gather flowers from the ground.
There is a Heavenly garden
in which God takes great pleasure
Because He's placed within it
The loved ones that we treasure.
He walks among the blossoms
Giving them eternal rest.
And I know that it must please Him
Because He chose our very best.
~Author Unknown~
Debbie Spenard
May 9, 2011
God bless Stacy and her amazing family.
Robin LePre
May 9, 2011
Stacy, I will miss you very much. It was a pleasure getting to know you when I started dating your brother Mike. You were an amazing positive person who inspired many others with your brave battle. I will continue to pray for you. Love, Robin
Frank Digironimo
May 9, 2011
Stacy was a wonderful person. I'm sorry for your loss.
Lori Fischer
May 9, 2011
She was an amazing person, my thoughts go out to her family and friends
Barrie Krywinski
May 9, 2011
Sending our deepest sympathy . My boys are in the same grade as Amanda at VMES.
The Krywinski Family
RoxAnne Plackis
May 9, 2011
Stacy was an amazing woman.. A great inspiration to us all.. She will be greatly missed.. Love you Stacy.. <3
Bruce Sarte
May 9, 2011
Stacy was a strong woman, a fantastic mom and a good friend. She will be missed by many and remembered by more.
Jennifer Clemente-Hauser
May 9, 2011
I am so very sorry for your loss. May God and your Angel Stacy bless and keep you. Many prayers for all of you.
Kristina Sclavunos
May 9, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss. Stacy was an amazing, strong, beautiful woman. Stonger than I could ever hope to be. She left this world knowing that she was loved by so many. She will be missed beyond measure.
jen nicol
May 9, 2011
Your endless smile and amazing fight is how I will remember you! Miss you already...watch over us all beautiful angel:)
Sandra Petersen
May 9, 2011
We miss you so much. I will make sure that your memory lives on. You were the best neighbor and friend. I love you!
Judi Sommers
May 9, 2011
Words cannot express how much I will miss you Stacy. I am honored to have been your friend, you were the bravest woman I know, an inspiration, and an example of what it means to take life one day at a time and to live life to the fullest. I will miss your beautiful smile, your infectious laugh, and fighting spirit....until we meet again my friend, xoxo
tracy draper
May 8, 2011
im sorry for your lost we will miss you stacy look down on us and keep your children save and guide them in every way you can we love you and miss you but you will neaver leave our hearts
The Black Family
May 8, 2011
Although we know there aren't any words to ease the pain of your loss, know that our prayers are for you. We pray that you find some comfort in one another while you grieve. If there is ANYTHING that you need, please do not hesitiate to call on us!
In Sympathy,
Michael, Kelli, & Eve Black
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