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Tamara Wilson-Seidle Obituary

Tamara Maria Wilson-Seidle

AGE: 51 • Neptune

Tamara Maria Wilson-Seidle was a beautiful selfless woman who met God on Tuesday, June 16, 2015 at 51 years old. Tamara was born in Munich, Germany on Dec. 30, 1963. She often reminisced about attending kindergarten, milking cows, and wearing traditional dirndl dresses in Germany. Tamara moved with her family to Neptune, NJ in 1970. She attended Neptune High School where she was Homecoming Princess from 1979-1981 and Homecoming Queen in 1982. Tamara is survived by her siblings, Joe Wilson Jr. of Maryland, Heinz Osterholzer of Ohio, Eva Lutzenberger of Germany, and Sylvia Daly of Pennsylvania. She is also survived by her 9 children, Kirsten 24, Philip 22, John 20, Christopher 19, Monica 17, Dorothy 15, Maria 12, Stephen 11, and Teresa 7. Tamara was very involved with Mother of Mercy Parish where she was the Coordinator of Religious Education for the past 17 years. She was also a lector, commentator, Eucharistic minister, and a Virtus: Protecting God's Children instructor for the parish. Tamara was a licensed soccer coach who was looking forward to starting her own team one day. She has spent countless hours volunteering for the Missionaries of Charity and the Saint Vincent de Paul Society. Tamara was a 5 year breast cancer survivor. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Church of Mother of Mercy/Seidle Family Fund at Mother of Mercy Parish, 1212 First Ave., Asbury Park, NJ 07712. Visitation will be held from 4 to 9 p.m. Sunday, June 21, 2015 at Holy Spirit Church, 705 2nd Ave., Asbury Park. A mass will be celebrated 12 noon Monday, June 22, 2015 at Holy Spirit Church, Asbury Park. Internment will follow at Mt. Calvary Cemetery, Neptune. Francioni, Taylor & Lopez Funeral Home, Neptune, is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Asbury Park Press on Jun. 20, 2015.

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Mark wymbs

June 15, 2023

Eric Eason

June 17, 2020

Such a wonderful Beautiful Phenomenal Spirited human always so kind we were friends why back when before you had your Beautiful Kids Now you are living through them they have your Beautiful eyes you be so proud of them All

Lisa Chimenti Furrule

July 15, 2015

Although we only met once, she had a light and aura about her that was almost angelic. May your family be at peace

Joe Estenes

July 15, 2015

We never comprehend why the higher power (God) takes the great people. The f victims in this incident our the children. I will keep the children , the family and Tamara in my daily thoughts and prayers.

Joseph Eustace

July 14, 2015

I never knew you my sister in Christ, but you are in my prayers. May God bless you and receive your soul. May peace be bestowed on your children and KS.

July 5, 2015

God bless all of you. My deepest of sympathies to the entire family. Tamara Wilson-Seidle embodied love in all forms. Tamara is with god now and she will know love eternally.

The McCarron Family

June 26, 2015

I miss you. God bless you and your family.

Renae Sellers

June 25, 2015

Condolences from the Sellers/Jacobs family.

Donna Arnold

June 24, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. It has touched me deeply. Please know that I too, someone you don't even know, is thinking of you praying for each of you. May God hold you in His arms and comfort you.

June 23, 2015

The Newman Family

TONY WATT

June 23, 2015

THE WATT FAMILY SEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR MUCH BELOVED MOTHER TAMARA

Linda Harris

June 22, 2015

To the Seidle Children - May God's grace and peace be with you continually. You all are so beautiful and so loved by many!

Ani

June 22, 2015

So very sorry for your loss. Remember like Jesus she too is always with you and will help to comfort and guide you in the days, weeks, months and years ahead. Her task is now done and you her children and siblings a new one is begining.
Find comfort in the love and peace that comes with healing. May God our Father bless each of you with so much more.

DARRYL CASON

June 22, 2015

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to your family Tammy may you rest in peace

Beverly Gruensfelder

June 22, 2015

No words of comfort could possibly ease your sorrow, but please know that you are loved by those who you have never even met. Your good deeds will be your Mother's legacy. May she rest in peace, and let us say, Amen

June 22, 2015

I will be praying for your children that the lord will give them grace in their mind and soul and send his angels to comfort them. and now you are a saint and will still be allways watching over them. ann

Husniyyah Muhammad

June 22, 2015

My deepest sympathies and condolences to her beautiful children and family.

RENEE CONEYNE

June 22, 2015

miss Renee Coney. We ent to Neptune junior high together.GOD BLESS U IN heaven.MY SON officer Thomas coney sends prayers to the family.love r.c

Prayers sent!

Dawn Corbin

June 22, 2015

Tanya Timbers-Graves

June 22, 2015

My deepest condolences to all the family & friends...May you be blessed with peace & the will to move forward in love & kindness. She was a pillar of society & God's Kingdom is blessed to have her home now

Pauline

June 22, 2015

Although I did not have the priviledge of knowing such a beautiful human being, you truly were one of God's chosen few to do his work here on earth and now are with him for eternity in heaven.

My heart goes out to your family at this difficult time. RIP Tamara

William "Butch" Brooks

June 22, 2015

To the Seidle family: Please stay together. May God bless you with strength and resilience during this difficult time.

The Johnson Family

June 22, 2015

Words are not enough to express the sorrow I feel in my heart at this moment. Not only for Tammy's children but for a woman who dedicated her life to God, her family and other people. That she made such a difference in the lives of her fellow human beings. Only God knows his plan. RIP Tammy and God Bless your children.

Sabrina,Brittany,Noelle & A.J Carter

June 22, 2015

Phil-& The Seidel family, please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for the loss of your Mother.
I'm sure your heart is aching.
We'll remember your Mom in so many positive ways-with a big smile and a great sense of humor, always there to help others.
We will continue to pray for you and your family in the weeks and months to come.
God bless her and keep her close, and may you and your family be comforted by the love surrounding you.

Alicia Spraulding

June 22, 2015

Rest. .in. ..Paradise

Marva Braxton

June 22, 2015

May you rest peacefully in HIS arms forever! Our earthly Angel has returned home.

Alphonso Ayers

June 22, 2015

Tammy, I will always love and remember you. We go back to the 5th grade, The RAMS.. old Ridge Ave Middle School. And stayed close and in touch until... May GOD bless your Spirit, your in good company, say hello to my father, your dad and mom and Zena for me. We an earthly Angela but gained an Heavenly one. Watch over us all, until we meet again....My beloved Friend ..Amen

Maria (Pinky) Johnson

June 22, 2015

To the Seidle family im so sorry for your loss . May god give u all the strength u all need in this difficult time . God may u all .

Laurie Kruse

June 22, 2015

Please God bring peace to the children of this mother. It is just awful that this ended in such a horrific way. Our hearts are broken for this family. Rest in peace Tamara.

Marilyn Hampton-Brown

June 22, 2015

I will always remember Mrs. Seidle's smiling face as she would hurriedly rush from one teacher's class to another's during parent-teacher conference season. I would jokingly say to her, "Mrs. Seidle, you didn't put those maternity clothes away yet, " and with the biggest smile she'd say, "No, not yet. We're still growing the family." How proud she was of her children and how concerned she was with making sure that her children were doing what they needed to do in order to learn what was required. Mrs. Seidle was the type of parent who proved that when parent and teacher worked together...success would follow the child.
Rest in Peace, Mrs. Seidle and know that The God who you trained your children to believe and depend on, will continue to comfort and hold all nine of them in the palm of His hand.
Prayerfully,
Mrs. Brown

Hubie Bond

June 21, 2015

My very sincerest heartfelt condolences to the entire family for the tragic, untimely and horrific death of such a wonderful individual. Please know that my prayer is that God gives the family the needed comfort to get through these challenging times. Peace, Love and Jehovah's rich blessings upon you and The entire family! Sincerely, Hubie Bond

Barbara Ann

June 21, 2015

The Lord is close to the brokenhearted. May each and every one of Tamara's family members remember this today, for the next few days and always. She is resting in the warm and loving arms of the Lord. My deepest sympathy...

Cathy

June 21, 2015

My deepest sympathy for the children and family of Tami. May her love and memories comfort you. RIP Tami

P Sanfilippo

June 21, 2015

May you have eternal peace in gods loving arms

Karen Mindingall

June 21, 2015

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Angele Fitch-Solomon

June 21, 2015

Tammy was my childhood friend and we often shared stories about becoming moms. All that she was in our youth carried over into her adult life. She will always remain on of the sweetest, nicest, devoted and loyal people we all have had the pleasure to meet. My prayers will continue to be with her family as she has gone on to be with Our Lord and Savior. May my friend rest in eternal peace.

Suzanne Novak

June 21, 2015

Eternal rest grant unto her,O Lord and let perpetual light shine upon her. May her soul and all the souls of the faithful departed through the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen

June 21, 2015

I knew your mother in high school. She was such a warm person with the happiest smile and I will never forget her. Words cannot express my sorrow, may God keep you in his care.

Ale rand

June 21, 2015

Bless you sweet angel and may God comfort your children.

katina garrett

June 21, 2015

My condolences to the family & especially her children. God Bless you all

June 21, 2015

MY DEEEPEST SYMPATHY TO THE SEIDLE FAMILY,

I am truly saddened by your loss. I have known your mom for about 18 years. I first met her when she decided to enroll young Phil in Pre-School. Your mom was a wonderful person full of love for her children. My GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU AND GIVE YOU STRENGHTH DURING THIS DIFFICULT TIME IN YOUR LIVES. YOUR MOM WILL LIVE ON IN YOUR HEARTS
FOREVER!!

barbara scales

June 21, 2015

To the Family and children of this wonderful woman. May God comfort you all at this time. May you find comfort in knowing that an angel will be watching over you always. Stay strong.

Nancy Dugan

June 21, 2015

May God hold you tight and give you comfort

Mary Ann Dempkowski

June 21, 2015

Dear Seidle Children, family and friends,

I am so sorry for your loss, Tamara was a very sweet lady, always with kind words and a smile on her face. Tamara was affiliated with the Diocese of Trenton Religious Education, we just shared time with her in May at a Retreat, her future presence will definitely be missed.
I pray for healing, strength, love and faith to conquer all the pain and hurt. All of you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Liz Matsutani

June 21, 2015

To the Seidle children, stay strong for your mother. She is now with God. May God guide you and keep your strength. God Bless all of you.

Maryellen

June 21, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with Tamara Maria Wilson-Seidle and her dear children. Your mother was a beautiful person and she will live on in all of you. God Bless you all. Tamara R.I.P.

Charlene Thomas

June 21, 2015

God bless her love ones and just know she's in God's hands now and they'll watch over you all from the heavens

June 21, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Paula Betz

June 20, 2015

to the Seidle children. so sorry for your loss. the strength of the lord will get you through this difficult time

Reyna Navarrete

June 20, 2015

My heart & prayers goes out to family and her children. God has her in a very special place

ruth thomas

June 20, 2015

You will truly be missed. It hurts me u just seen me and.ask.remind.u.of.our wedding. It.hurts so.much. my prayers for your kids n family. Miss u alot

Tracey RICHARDSON

June 20, 2015

May you rest in peace t knowing that the NEPTUNE COMMUNITY we also love you and miss you.

June 20, 2015

May you rest in peace and live in the kingdom of God. I did not know you but, I feel the pain along with your children and your community. You are a angel now.

Steven McDuffie

June 20, 2015

Truly a loss. RIP Tammy you will truly be missed.

Audrey Washington

June 20, 2015

Truly heartbroken. Tammy was always kind, happy and at peace. A loving and devoted mom and a woman of God. Her legacy will live on. I pray that God will surround her children and family with love and strength.

Ana Lanzara

June 20, 2015

Rest In Peace Sweet Angel!
:( To Ms.Tamara Maria Wilson's Children ....... So So Sorry for Your Loss! :(

June 20, 2015

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Temorra Cortes

June 20, 2015

God has his angel back.....she will be deeply missed temorra and anaiya cortes

Carol Williams (née Macey)

June 20, 2015

To be absent from the body is to be present with God. May peace that surpasses all understanding be with your beautiful children.

Carole Wester

June 20, 2015

Well done good and faithful servant...your job here is done. Now it's time for you to go home. HEAVEN HAS ITS NEWEST ANGEL. May God give you charge over your children once more, this time from heaven. Into HIS presence you are for eternity. No more tears, fear or pain. Rest in HIS grace and peace forevermore.

Danielle

June 20, 2015

God Blesss

Angela Faulkner

June 20, 2015

Prayers go out to your family. RIP Tammy and know you will never be forgotten.

Rose

June 20, 2015

Weeping may endure for a night but joy comes in the morning. R.I.P.

Mona English

June 20, 2015

Tschuss, biss spater!! May you rest in eternal paradise!!

Maria

June 20, 2015

Rest in peace

June 20, 2015

I didn't know you, but it sounds like your family was blessed to have you! Should have been many more years!! Hold your memories tight and live as she would want you to! God bless all of you!! Carole C.

Olga Vazquez-Clough

June 20, 2015

My sincerest condolence on the untimely passing of sweet Tammy! She was a wonderful mother and great Community leader and those of us who knew her will never forget her! I will wait a few weeks before I visit you but if I can help you with rides, Spanish tutoring, or food please call me @732-859-2283. Sincerely,
Olga Vazquez-Clough

Patti McGrath Homefield

June 20, 2015

I did not know you but I do know that you are now an angel. My thoughts and prayers go out to your children.

Maggie Toyents

June 20, 2015

She will always rb remembered.

Yvonne B.

June 20, 2015

My prayers are with her children, siblings and other family and friends. May God keep you all and strengthen you as you all mourn your lost. Remember the good memories and I pray God just watches over the family. May you be in peace Tamara.

Carol Imbriaco

June 20, 2015

Prayers going out the the entire family. May God give you the strength to get through this tragedy and live the life as Tamera ...your departed mother, daughter, sister, and friend lived hers. The life she led and the role model she was should be an inspiration to those sho knew her, and those who read about her. Peace be with you.

June 20, 2015

RIP Tammy

June 20, 2015

I did know you but God has gain and Angel Rest easy and continue to watch over your children god bless you

Pam Dr Value

June 20, 2015

There are no words to express the emptiness I feel. My prayers for Tamara, and her children. Rest peacefully good and faithful servant. With love the De Value family.

Linda Puryear

June 20, 2015

Condolences and prayers for the family. May God give you peace and love at this time of sorrow.

Mark Wymbs

June 20, 2015

Never Met Such A Beautiful Person Inside And Out

Tamikya Dill

June 20, 2015

R.I.H.P Tamara my prayers n condolences to your family also prayering for there strength n healing as well!!!

Lisa Diana

June 20, 2015

My prayers and deepest condolences to the children and the entire family. May this beautiful angel rest in peace.

Karen Mannings Clark

June 20, 2015

My prayers go out to Tamara's family. Even though I don't remember her or either she was behind me, but being from Asbury, and Neptune my heart goes out to her family. Always remember it's hard, but God has other plan's for her now. But she will never be forgotten. Memories will always be there.

Carol

June 20, 2015

My prayers and deepest condolences go out to the siblings and children of Tamara.

Christina Katz

June 20, 2015

I am praying for Tamara's children. And praying that Tamara can rest in peace.

Bessie Allen

June 20, 2015

With Deepest Sympathy to the children and family, RIP

J Vhildress

June 20, 2015

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Karen Rogers

June 20, 2015

Rest in peace

June 20, 2015

we did not know the family but our thoughts and prayers are being sent --- so very sorry for your heartbreak -

Jim Snyder

June 20, 2015

My God bless the Seidle entire family!I am a co-worker and friend of Tamara niece, Brenda.

Diane Stanley-Williams

June 20, 2015

Although I did not know her personally, being from APNJ we are all family. My heart and prayers go out to her children may they find the love and comfort only GOD can give them during this time of sorrow.

Janet Henchman

June 20, 2015

My prayers are with the family and friends of such a lovely person in this hour of sorrow.

Ricardo Shoates

June 20, 2015

Everyone who knew Tamara is feeling the lost of a wonderful person. May God continue to watch over her children. And may she rest in peace.

June 20, 2015

Rest in peace beautiful soul

rosemary grant

June 20, 2015

My condolescences to the children and her siblings, God has another angel with him, who will also be looking down on you. My prayer during this time of sorrow is that the family will be there for one another as she has brought you up to be as one loving family and most of all know that God will
never leave nor forsake you during your time of sorrow. Earth has no sorrow that heaven cannot heal. Stay strong

June 20, 2015

May the peace of God which surpasses all understanding be with the family during their time of sorrow.

Stephanie Finklin , Kinsale Virginia

Stephanie Parker

June 20, 2015

My condolences & Prayers to the family. An angel has received her wings. Rest in Paradise. You are Loved, and will be missed by all the lives you have touched.

Lola Bozarth

June 20, 2015

Rip

michelle

June 20, 2015

May you rip ....

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