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Aileena Brogdon Obituary
It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of Aileena Rose Brogdon (Rutledge), 36, on June 8th, 2025, after a long and courageous battle with Gardner's Syndrome. "Rosie" passed peacefully at UI Health Hospital in Chicago, IL, after weeks of being lovingly surrounded by close family and friends. She is survived by her mother, Terri Rutledge-Smedly; her brothers, Stephen (Betsy) Harnois and Matthew (Jenna) Rutledge; her three sons, Braedyn, Liam, and Henry; her aunt, Jackie Harnois; and several nieces and nephews, including Harley, Delaney, Stephen Jr., Eva, and Amelia. She was preceded in death by her maternal grandmother, Arleen Harnois, and stepfather, Rick Smedly.
Aileena enjoyed spending time with her boys and cooking for her family. Aileena lived life to the fullest with such strength and hope despite her chronic illness. She is a true inspiration to all who knew her. Aileena was blessed with the gift of organ donation; the small bowel and kidney she received allowed her to spend years with her boys.
A celebration of life with family and friends will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, we have established a memorial fund in Aileena's memory to support her three boys, Braedyn, Liam, and Henry Wilson. Memorials may be made to the Aileena Brogdon Memorial Fund at any Petefish, Skiles & Co. Bank location or mailed to 102 W. Beardstown St., Virginia, IL 62691.
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Memories and Condolences
for Aileena Brogdon
Beth White
June 14, 2025
So sorry for your loss.
Jennifer Blean
June 13, 2025
I am so sorry to hear this! I'm send loving prayers to her family and friends. Aileena, was close to my Dad Bill Batman like family.
Jane Anne Murray
June 13, 2025
Terry i cannot imagine how great a loss this is for you. You have been by Aileena's side through thick and thin, celebrations, victories and now this tragic loss! Prayers for you and the boys and family at this time!
Jane Anne, Toronto, Canada
Kimalea Stegall
June 12, 2025
Terri, My heart breaks for you. You have showed us what love is. Your Rosie knew she was loved. This coming days if you need someone to talk I am here. Much love, prayers and hugs. Kim
Miss Anie
June 12, 2025
My Condolences to everyone that lived Aileena so. She was truly a warrior and she fought hard to keep it together. And to her boys no worries fellas Miss Anie will always be here for you. She's not hurting no more and her peace she always said she hopes to find through all her troubles has now been found. Rest easy beautiful.. Love Miss Anie
Lisa Pagliarulo
June 11, 2025
My deepest condolences for the loss of beautiful Aileena. I met her through Emily and she touched my life with her beautiful soul. I will always remember her. My prayers are certainly with all you during this difficult time. Fly high Angel
Debbie Colson
June 11, 2025
Terri, My deepest sympathy. You and your family are in my prayers. Your daughter was very courageous.
Debbie Colson
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Janet Dillow
June 11, 2025
I knew her as Rosie since she was a little girl. I enjoyed knowing her. When it was time for the boys to start school, she had a million questions. What a good Mommy she was. I will miss her. She had strength of character.
Karen
June 10, 2025
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Mary. McGownd
June 10, 2025
Rosie you will be so missed at pur house growing up you spent time there and your mother is one of my best friends I can look in on uour sons once in a while since they live close and they will never forget you .
Leigh Miller
June 10, 2025
One of my favorite memories ever, and you were with me. You always understood what it was like to be perpetually ill and never made me feel bad for being sick all the time. It´s hard to think that my Rosie, my rock, is gone now. I´ll miss our daily messages with recipes or funny videos or inspiring quotes. You will always continue to be one of my biggest inspirations and reasons to keep fighting. Your fight is over and your rest is well deserved. Rest easy, love. We´ll be seeing you soon. Sending prayers and good thoughts to the boys and your family during this time.
linda childress
June 10, 2025
was a sweet person knowing you for 2 years and seemed like a lifetime its been rough for me these few days going in rooms that had a memories with you in it to the family my prayers are with you all
Diana Feigl
June 10, 2025
Sending lots of prayers to all of her family and friends.
Lisa Horney
June 10, 2025
Prayers to all the family !! I took care of her during her last pregnancy and I am also a Virginia Il native !! She was always such a positive person during her pregnancy and yet was so sick. God speed girl!! Lisa Horney
Barbara Weishaar
June 10, 2025
Terry so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Rosey, that was what we knew her by , when your family lived by Grandma Gussie, Grandma Gussie loved u all. Saying prayers for your family and Roseys family.
Jessica Marie Luster
June 10, 2025
Aileena, I cherished our friendship so deeply. You were the only friend I had who "got it" when it came to the struggles of chronic illness. We leaned on each other and celebrated each birthday that we "made it" another year. Our milestones, our struggles, our memories, our lives. Life isn´t fair but God needed you for something more. I will still celebrate your birthday in your honor. I will never forget you, dearest friend of mine. I´m praying for your boys and your family. Love you very much and thank you for being with me through my journey and allowing me to be a part of yours! Always and forever will be in my heart... until we meet again.
Terri shive
June 10, 2025
Rosy sure was a fighter and never forget her smile and her laugh, every one met her or knew her couldn´t help but like her. Had such great personality. Very fortunate to have met her and her family. She was truly a blessing. Hugs and prayers to all her family.
Stacey Boyer
June 10, 2025
I was blessed to have known you for over the last 20 years and proud to call u my friend and pretty much a sister to me. I will never forgot any of our conversations we had and watching our kids grow up together and all the laughs we had over the years you are in inspirationto alot of people. I will love you always and forever rest easy til I see u again!
Betsy M Harnois
June 10, 2025
I'm blessed to have you as my sister-in-law, I love you! Ohana-Betsy
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