Michael R. Henry

Michael R. Henry, longtime owner of the much-loved Steak Out restaurant, died peacefully on September 15, 2025, at his home in Brattleboro, VT, holding the hands of his family. He is survived by his wife of 49 years, Elizabeth "Betty" (McGrath) Henry; his children, Colleen, Sean, and Brendan; his son-in-law, Anil Soni; his grandchildren, Rohan and Ava; his sister, Patricia Stans; his brother-in-law, Chip Stans; and his dear cousin, Fred Rieder, and Fred's wife, Mary. He also leaves behind his sisters-in-law, Judith Cunningham and Kathleen McGrath; their partners, Robert Cunningham and Edward Murrin; and many nieces and nephews. Michael was born in St. Albans, NY, on February 17, 1949, and raised on Long Island. He excelled in lacrosse, setting numerous high school and college records. At the University of Massachusetts Amherst, he earned a bachelor's degree in business, discovered a passion for the outdoors, forged lifelong friendships, and met Betty, the love of his life. For nearly 30 years, he ran the Steak Out-first as manager, then as owner-employing hundreds, serving thousands, and creating laughter and lasting memories for all who passed through its doors. Under his watch, the Steak Out became more than a restaurant-a community hub where people celebrated special occasions, marked milestones, loved and mourned, and laughed together. For his devoted employees, it was a place to learn and grow, make new friends, and sometimes fall in love. Michael was known for his quick wit, epic Christmas Eve parties, and festive Fourth of July gatherings. An optimist, dreamer, and an engaging conversationalist, he loved live music, talking to strangers, and traveling the world. He took great pride in restoring his old house and lit up when passersby commented on the beautiful home and yard he meticulously maintained. In midlife, he and Betty took up sailing and spent decades entertaining friends aboard their boat, the Alvilda Mae (named for their mothers), first at Point Bay Marina in Charlotte, VT, and later at City Marina in Charleston, SC. He loved few things more than standing at the helm, gazing out over the open water, and feeling the wind blow through his hair. Michael was a loving, proud father and a delightfully silly grandfather, adored by his children and grandchildren. He loved life deeply and fought to stay with us as long as he could. He will be deeply missed and always held in our hearts. Friends and family are invited to calling hours at Atamaniuk Funeral Home on Friday, September 19, from 4:00–6:00 p.m. A service celebrating Michael's life will be held at the First Congregational Church of West Brattleboro on Saturday, September 20, at 10:30 a.m., followed by a gathering at Michael and Betty's home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Michael's memory to Dartmouth Hitchcock Medical Center (Heart and Vascular Center Fund) or Brigid's Kitchen in Brattleboro. PLEASE DO NOT DONATE A TREE OR FLOWERS. THE LINKS BELOW FOR FLOWERS AND TREES ARE PART OF ATAMANIUK'S WEBSITE AND SHOULD NOT BE UTILITZED.