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Cynthia Ayala Obituary

Cynthia Ayala, 18, of Surfside Beach died in a vehicle crash on Thursday, July 12, 2012.

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Published by The Sun News from Jul. 13 to Jul. 17, 2012.

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Digna Sanchez

July 13, 2025

It seems like yesterday but the passage of time does not diminish the loss and the sadness rises again. Such a sweet and promising young woman. QEPD

Tony, Toni, Sam, Sharon

July 12, 2025

We will always
pray for you and your family especially in this difficult time of the year....
Love Always,

The Family

July 23, 2024

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Always keeping the family in our prayers especially their angel, Cynthia.
God bless you all...

Tony,Toni,Sam and Sharon

The Ayala's

July 12, 2024

Always loving our baby We think about her everyday. Her soul is and was beautiful. Her smile was contagious. She's missed. She's always remembered
Thank you to everyone who remembers, loves and holds her in thier hearts.

The Ayala's

Tina

July 7, 2024

You´re truly missed. I think of you always.

Family

July 12, 2023

We wanted to send our love to your family during this difficult time of year.
Rest in peace Cynthia.. You will always be loved and missed.
Love Always,
Tony,Toni,Sam and Sharon

Eva & Luis Ayala

July 8, 2023

It's so comforting to know that people are still remembering my little girl.
Its always a rough time for me and my family, I'm grateful for the love that is shown for Cynthia.
She is always on our minds and spoken about as if she's still with us.
Thank you to all family and friends for your support.

Mary

July 7, 2023

Ayala family.. you're in my thoughts and prayers....peace be with you!

Tina Vanvalen

December 15, 2022

There is not a moment where you do not cross my mind. You and Layla were my best friends in Elementary and in Middle school. One thing I will say is that you always had a smile on your face. There are still moments when I think to myself "how did she do it?!" You never let an obstacle deter you from being in good spirits. Time will continue to pass, but despite the years that go on, I will always say you were one of my biggest inspirations and role models. I miss you always and I hope one day we can meet again.

Ayala Family

July 7, 2022

Our hearts are full of sadness to this day. It's been 10 years and we all think of her everyday. We know she is with us.
We miss Cynthia so bad, but seeing her videos and pics always bring smiles to our faces.
She is always in our hearts and minds.
We love you Cynthia.

mary

July 17, 2021

i pray that your hearts will be comforted as you remember your loved one. She is resting in peace in the arms of our loving Father.

Jimenez family

July 12, 2021

Remembering the Ayala family and loved ones especially during this difficult time..always in our hearts and in our prayers...

The Ayalas

July 8, 2021

There's never a day we don't miss and think about you. We love you and still remember the wonderful human being you were. Your smile is forever etched in our minds. Till we see each other again, Love Eternal Mom, Dad, Grandma, Nicole, Darryl, Elizabeth, Alysa, and Devin.

Jimenez

July 10, 2020

Dear Ayala Family,

Lighting a candle in memory of a special, loving, daughter, sister and cousin...May the Lord watch over your family...
Peace and Love Always,

The Jimenez Family

Digna Sanchez

July 7, 2020

Dear Cynthia,
You are remembered as a smart and loving girl that was tragically taken as you blossomed into a smart, beautiful and caring young woman. QEPD ❤

Trish Murphy

July 7, 2020

Thinking of your beautiful Cynthia and sending up prayers for her parents and family.

Ayala Family

July 29, 2019

Celebrating the life of our beautiful and kind hearted daughter. Our hearts are full of love and sadness on her birthday. But we always have her beautiful smile in our memories.

Angela Garcia

July 13, 2019

To my granddaughter Cynthia we are still missing you we know you are and angel watching over all of your family and so far you are doing a great job miss you and love you we will not forget

July 11, 2019

Just wanted the family to know that all of you are being thought of during this difficult month..
..love always.
.. Jimenez family

Tony Lopez

September 3, 2018

I was a friend of Cynthia we went to middle school together. Although we were never close friends or even hung out outside of school for some reason Cynthia always pops back in my head every couple of months. I get so sad thinking about her being gone but I always ask myself why does she keep popping back in my head if me and her weren't close? It was her smile. She had a beautiful smile and I only remember her face with a smile on it. It's crazy how powerful her smile was. It was a smile that just let you know what kind of girl she was. She was kind, friendly, warm and loving. I only remember her being kind to everyone in the classroom and to me as well. If her parents are reading this you guys were blessed with a beautiful daughter. May God bless you guys and may her soul rest in peace with God.

Ayala Family

July 29, 2018

Thinking of our beautiful girl on what would have been her 25th birthday. We miss her dearly. Her light shines on us all! She's our inspiration.
Thank you to all that have commented through the years, it brings comfort to us knowing her family and friends still keep her in their hearts. Love and kiss your kids always, Never take anything for granted.

Digna Sanchez

July 19, 2018

Never forgotten. You will always be in our hearts.
Your cousin and your father's madrina,
Mucho amor,
Digna Sánchez Jiménez

Heily Silva

July 18, 2018

Love and miss you, pretty girl!

July 18, 2018

Thinking of Cynthia and her family.

The Murphy's

Jimenez Family

July 17, 2018

Sending this candle along with prayers and love to the Ayala family...in memory of Cynthia.
Stay strong

July 11, 2018

Grandma will always love you RIP

Angels Garcia

July 29, 2016

Dear Cynthia Happy Birthday we all miss you it is not the same there is something missing and that is you with all my love Grandma

Ayala Family

July 29, 2016

Happy Birthday to my beautiful angel. We are thinking of you and miss you dearly. Celebrating her life with her beautiful smile in our memories.
Love you

Ayala Family

December 25, 2015

May the light of our angel star shine and protect upon all of our family and friends this holiday season. Always thinking of and missing you baby girl at this time of the year. Love you always.

November 24, 2015

Thinking of Cynthia and her family at the start of this holiday season. Continued prayers of comfort and strength to you all.
Trish, Paul, Heather & Caitlin Murphy

July 29, 2015

Happy Birthday is all that comes to mind, on this 29th of July. Love Grandma

Ayala Family

July 29, 2015

Happy Birthday!!

Ayala Family

July 29, 2015

Celebrating our beautiful angels birthday today, we miss you and love you dearly. You're always on our minds and in our hearts.

Heily Silva

July 29, 2015

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Miss you, beautiful. I shall have a drink in your name today. Again, happy birthday in heaven. Xoxo (:

Lou

July 23, 2015

My deepest condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace

July 14, 2015

Always in our prayers.....

Jimenez Family

July 13, 2015

Thinking of Cynthia and her family. Pray that you are all doing okay.

Trish, Paul, Heather and Caitlin Murphy

Danielle

July 13, 2015

RIP..

July 12, 2015

Dear Cynthia, I just finish washing your videos they bring many memories of you.
will always remember you. Love Grandma

Ayala Family

July 12, 2015

Thinking of you on this Sad day and we know you are watching over us all. Thanks for taking care of your sister on her big trip yesterday. We love you and miss you so much.

Geoff, Loren, Amy and Jillian Frost

January 7, 2015

Hi Ayala Family.

I just wanted to let you know that the Frost family still thinks about you all and how you are doing. God bless and remember that you are always in our hearts and minds. Cynthia was beautiful!

December 25, 2014

Dear cynthia, I will be going to your Mom and Dad house to have Christmas dinner wish you were here, but you are always in our thought's. Love you Grandma.

Ayala Family

July 29, 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, to our beautiful daughter. We all love and miss you dearly. We're celebrating your life today and that beautiful smile you always had on your beautiful face. Love you

Ayala Family

July 29, 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!
To our sweet angel, we miss you so much and today we are celebrating your beautiful life that we had the honor of sharing with you for such a short time. We will always remember our baby with that beautiful smile on her face.

July 28, 2014

My Dear Cynthia once again another year that you are no longer with us. Your death, and your Birthday,on the same month seems so hard to bear, but we are doing it because you would want it that way.
but I miss you, I know you know that. Love Grandma

Kathy Mason

July 17, 2014

I think of Cynthia almost everyday as I pass her memorial wreath on business 17. I pray for her & her family often-she will not be forgotten!!!

July 16, 2014

Cynthia...you and your family are always in our hearts and prayers....Love Always,
The Jimenez Family

Johanna Marrone

July 14, 2014

Prayers and thoughts are with you's always we miss you Cynthia

Anita Glamuzina

July 14, 2014

To Family Cynthia . I'm still deeply touch with this tragedy . I was there in myrtle beach on my family vacation . 2 years do fly but time can not ever heal
A enough all y'all pain . I'm again so sorry for your lost , I have 3 kids my own . I will keep your family in my heart and my daily prayers . May God give you a healing and peace in each lives that we all walking with God .

Claris MacDonald

July 13, 2014

Dear Ayala Family: I didn't know Cynthia, but my heart still breaks when I think of her beautiful life, cut short too soon. They say time heals all wounds. I'm not sure time "heals" anything like this. I think over time you learn to live with it. I am glad that you made this guestbook permanent. I know it will comfort your hearts just to know that people have not forgotten her. I am a mother of 2 and a grandmother of 6 and I know how much family means. Please know that at different moments during many days, God is bringing you to people's minds and they are praying for you. May God continue to comfort your hearts and strengthen you with His peace.

Ayala Family

July 12, 2014

Thanks to everyone who still remembers our angel. We will always have her in our hearts and eyes. She faced life with a smile and a kind word. Celebrate her birthday this 29th of July with a smile and a kind word to someone you love. In memory of a beautiful soul.

Heily Silva

July 12, 2014

Hi babygirl! Today makes 2 years since you've left this world. I know everyone misses you so much. Today is actually my brother's bday and instead of being sad and missing you, i miss you and celebrate your life <3 Your sisters are so strong, i couldn't imagine losing one of my brothers. But not just them, your whole family is strong. I love you Cynthia. I'm gunna go stare at all your pretty pictures now. Hugs and Kisses to the Ayala family! #teamcynthiasmiles

Danielle

July 12, 2014

Prayers still Cynthia and the Ayala family. May time make it easier.

June 28, 2014

I was just reading the guestbook and just wanted to say that I am very proud of all the accomplishments Cynthia had made in her short time here.....Wishing my cousins family ...Peace and Love

Love Always,
Jimenez Family

June 26, 2014

My Dear Cynthia, You are stil doing good things for yor friends don here on earth
one been the scholarship, your friend remember you as a special young girls who knew you had fun with you, those who did not know you are also saying nice things about you,I your Grandma will always love you.

Ayala Family

May 23, 2014

To all still posting and Remembering our beautiful daughter.
Thank you so much, I check this often and it gives me comfort to know that people are still reading about her and Remembering her. Kiss and tell your children you love them every day, we did and we're so glad we did. She new she was loved.
Thank you
Eva Ayala

Ayala Family

May 23, 2014

Murphy family,
I was told by Andrea about the award. It was a very proud moment for my family. We think about and talk about her every single day as if she is still with us. Thank you for remembering and being one to honor her laughter and smile, and her dedication and compassion as a human being she loved all.
Thank you so much for still posting here.

May 22, 2014

Dear Ayala Family,

We were at Colonia High School yesterday for the Class of 2014 Senior Awards Night. What a beautiful scholarship tribute Cynthia's friends presented in memory of your daughter. I want you to know Cynthia will always be remembered at CHS and in our hearts as well. We pray that you are comforted by these thoughts and we send our prayers of strength to you always.

Trish, Paul, Heather & Caitlin Murphy
Colonia, NJ

Leon Kwark

May 13, 2014

I am so saddened to read about the loss of this beautiful soul. I send my sincerest and deepest condolences to the Ayala family - I only wish there were more I could do to ease your pain.

February 27, 2014

Cynthia how nice to know, that we will be able to go into your guest book, and tell you how we are missing you. we will always remenber you. And now we can go in at anytime since it is permanent, thanks to you Mom and Dad Love Grandma

Ayala Family

February 26, 2014

Mommy and day love you baby, we miss you

Samantha Pieretti

December 27, 2013

Rest in peace beautiful ! Hope ur enjoying the candy can I left for you

Heily Silva

December 26, 2013

Miss you babygirl! I know we all do.
Love you! Xoxo#teamcynthiasmiles

Heily Silva

December 26, 2013

To the Ayala Family,
Just wanted to wish you a happy holiday and i know Cynthia is with you all in spirit.
Lots of hugs!

December 24, 2013

Dear Cynthia, we went out to eat and had a very nice time You were there with us, in our hearts.
Love Grandma

December 17, 2013

Dear Ayala Family,

We are all thinking of you during this holiday season....Prayers and Peace to You and your Angels...xoxo

The Jimenez Family N.Y.

December 10, 2013

To the Ayala family,

Sending prayers of comfort and peace this holiday season. Cynthia is never far from our thoughts here in Colonia. God Bless.

Trish, Paul, Heather & Caitlin Murphy

July 29, 2013

Happy Birthday, Cynthia, there is a party in your honor in heaven, I miss you. Love Grandma

I Heart You

The Ayala Family

July 29, 2013

Happy Birthday to our sweet angel Cynthia. 20 years ago today, a beautiful gift was born to us. Though your time with us was too short, we all found a way to fit so much more in it. May your birthday remind us all to cherish every moment we can with our loved ones. And to make as much beautiful memories we can, so we can smile a bit when times gets a little rough. We will always cherish our beautiful memories with you in our hearts and in our minds. Love Mom, Dad and your Sisters.

July 13, 2013

Dear Ayala Family,
Our hearts and prayers go out to you all...
Love Always,
The Jimenez Family....

July 13, 2013

Dear Ayala Family,
Our prayers and hearts go out to you all...
Love Always,
The Jimenez Family.... BX NY

Heily Silva

July 12, 2013

#TeamCynthiaSmiles
Wow, a year already. Time flies like crazy but I miss you Cyn! You should give my brother a hug for me up there. Muaahhhh! I love youuuuu! Hugs and kisses to the Ayala family <3

July 12, 2013

Candles on lite in my house, dear grand dauther, and also in New York you are loved by many. You have gone but not forgotten. Love
grandma

Danielle

July 12, 2013

Can't believe it's been a year already... Gone way too soon. Prayers to you and all the Ayala Family. =(

Our beautiful Angel

The Ayala Family

July 12, 2013

Mommy and Daddy

July 12, 2013

Cynthia we all miss you sooooo much. Mommy and daddy think of you everyday. Your beautiful smile is in our hearts forever. We were so lucky to have a child that was so thoughtful, kind and giving. Your beauty wasn't just skin deep, your heart was beautiful and pure and that's what made you so special. Your memory will always go on in our hearts. Your beautiful face always in our eyes.
love Mommy and Daddy

Trish Murphy

July 12, 2013

Prayers of continued comfort and strength for the Ayala family.

Johanna Marrone

July 11, 2013

Thinking of you and your family I can't believe your gone 1 year your always in our hearts love doe doe!!! Johanna Marrone ps I know ur chillen with nanny!!!

June 22, 2013

Dear Cynthia, as I look at your pictures, it is so hard to beleive that you are gone. I miss you, lets just say we all do. But I know that you are with the Lord, I will be seeing you my angel. Love Grandma

Katelynn Lambert

June 18, 2013

Hey baby girl,
Nemo was on three times yesterday and i watched it everytime and thought about you every time! Man i miss you so much its getting scary, all i wanna do is call you or text you and tellyou what is going on so you can give your sweet caring advice like you always did. Hope everything is okay up there and if there is a way to come back to us all even for a little bit please do! We all miss you baby girl, watch over us, and rest in peace.

Love you girl,
Lambchops

Ashley Cee

May 14, 2013

Hey Babygirl,
please come back to us ! I miss you more than anything. The fact that your gone still has not been accepted ! I hope everything is okay up there. Please continue to look over us all. I love you and miss you beyond belief !

Michele Neri

January 13, 2013

Cynthia... Ever since I've learned of your passing I beat myself up every day for not keeping in better touch with you since your move to South Carolina. Saint Joes Hockey Games with you were hilarious, you always had me, along with everyone else laughing and smiling. You really were such a great person. I am definitely going to forever miss you. I can't even believe that something like this happened to you, such an amazing individual. I'll never forget dancing around the Woodbridge community center parking lot blasting cannibal by Ke$ha before the hockey game to get all pumped up. Haha :-P Rest easy angel. <3

N C

September 17, 2012

Come home please

September 5, 2012

Dear Cynthia I miss you every day the weeks I spent with you, when I came down from Jersy I would not change for anything and everything. I love you and miss you I know that I will see you someday, I did not have much time to let you know but I think you knew. Love Grand Ma

September 3, 2012

Hello Beautiful,
We all miss you very much obviously words cant describe the pain I feel everyday to think your not going to come back to the FunWarehouse with that big smile of yours but in a way i know your in good hands.Everyone knows you were perfect at anything and everything you did, im grateful to have known you for the time i did .We all miss you very much.Nothing will ever be the same. Rest easy Beautiful.
Return If Possible. Love you.

Bridget

August 15, 2012

Cynthia I miss you so much you were the best friend someone could probably ever ask for. Your were so funny and nice and you knew how to brighten someones mood up. I miss not seeing you at the Funwarehouse ever Friday its hard on us and the workers but we're all helping each other through it<3 I still wish this was a sick joke but its not:( They say it gets easier but really it just gets harder</3 Rip angel<3

your sister

August 7, 2012

Hey you.... I miss you very much i just wanted to tell you that i love you and were doing ok over here but its still not the same wirhout you

Joe

August 4, 2012

I miss her so much and I'm so sorry for her family if there's anything in the world I could ever do please let me know.

The Ayala's

July 29, 2012

Happy Birthday to our sweet angel, With Love, Pride and Tears.
Mommy,Daddy and Alysa

Heily Silva

July 29, 2012

Happy Birthday BabyGirl!!! Love and miss you Cyn! Forever Smiling! Team Cynthia Smiles!

Lindsay

July 27, 2012

This all makes me so sad. We were right up the road from the accident. Moments before it occurred we turned off to do so reminiscing. Moments later the traffic was backed up and police came from every direction. I am so sorry for the loss of Cynthia. Though we didn't know her, and are from an entirely different state, we still feel the pain of this. God bless.

July 23, 2012

To the Ayala Family,
I did not have the opportunity to get to know Cynthia, but I know her mom. Looking at her picture is looking at one of God's Angels. I will continue to pray for the entire family. Keep God in your hearts, and look forward to the promise from God of seeing her again in His Kingdom. The smile on her face is telling you that It Is Well With Her Soul. God bless and keep you all. Love from the bottom of my heart, Shirley Avery-Page

Brenda

July 22, 2012

My family and I were at the beach this past weekend and heard about the accident.... We never met but from reading some of the post here in this guest book, I can so tell she was one very beautiful person who was loved by all. God Bless the family and I give you prayers and thoughts knowing that some day you will see your sweet Cynthia again......

Angela Garcia

July 22, 2012

Cynthia Ayala was my gran daughter, and it has been so hard for all our family to cope with all of this. But as I read the guest book, I see that not just us, but so many friends and family are feeing just as bad, for that I thank you. People that did not know her were also touch by this tragidy, she is with the Lord now and another angel got her wings. God will give us strengh to carry on, for like my son says, that is what she would have wanted. Thanks to all of you, from a proud granma. We go foward for our two other grandchildren need us.

. McDowell

July 21, 2012

well i met you once and your sister is one of my best friends cynthia:( my deepest sympathy to the ayala family

Alyssa Eckhardt

July 20, 2012

When you hear the name Cynthia Ayala, you can't help but think of a beautiful smile and an amazing laugh. I have never met another person that was as loved as Cynthia was. I personally can say, she had the biggest and warmest heart of anyone I know. Cynthia and the Ayala family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I love you and am gonna miss you so much Cynthia<3 always

Diane Supplee

July 19, 2012

What a life you've had!
Do you realize how many lives you've touched?
A sweet smile,a tender touch, a spark of joy!
You light the world for those around you.
Your laughter, your compassion for others, your silliness;
love abounds within you!
I've never met anyone who is more loving with no negative words or actions.
All brightness, like the glory of God within you.
You are so loved. Not just by family and friends, but everyone who has the joy of meeting you.
Love shines through you and spills out to each of us.
You are a Blossoming Flower; that's how I will always think of you. it fits you so well, Cynthia.

We will think of you with peace and joy in our hearts.

Sunshine and Bobbers

nikki sisters

July 19, 2012

When i was little i begged and begged my parents for a sibling in 1993 they made me the happiest person in the world i had my vert own lift sized doll i helped her grow strong we faught hard and loved harder and ill for ever have her memorie in my heart in 1999 we were suprised to know we have another sister cynthias face lit up with joy she had the same feelings i did when she was born both ky sisters mean the worl to me and altho qe are 2 instead of 3 pysicaly we will be 3 at heart and im so glad to have had tje chance to have the time i did with my sisters as a whole they are both my heros as i went threw my teens ans became a woman i wanted to show them that they can grow up to be an amazing woman now i wanted them to look up to me and grow strong but little did i know that i did not need to try hard i have the most beautiful sisters someone can ask for and now i look up to them they are strong acomplished and so beautiful my sisters are my world my heros and my insperation to be a better person no matter what life brings you value your siblings they are your most important support group as mine are to me i see me sisters in my child they have influanced her greatly and im so thankful now me and alysa can grow old together and remeber all the silly stuff we have done like out most recent trip to broadway at the beach. Cynthia you have inspired many and our love is strong ill watxh over alysa for you and show her all the love you gave her i promise thank you for being you i love you and will always remeber and never forget. My aisters are my world i love you both im sorry time was short but i know you were a hero that day not only for those in the accident but you have brought alot of people together

Mike Gallagher

July 19, 2012

I never remember a day where Cynthia wasnt happy. Alot of people have their days where they "wake up on the wrong side of the bed" Cnythia never had those days. She ALWAYS had a smile on her face. She knew just how to make my day better just by saying a few words or even smiling at me, hers was contagious. Im so scared to read my yearbook entry from her. We were so close, I'll miss you Cynthia I love you rest easy. <3

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