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Harry Highfill Obituary

RDML H.M. Highfill, USN (ret.)
September 9, 1943- September 29, 2018
Myrtle Beach
Rear Admiral Harry Mitchell Highfill, 75, passed away peacefully on September 29, 2018 in his home in Myrtle Beach, SC surrounded by his family and close friends.
Born September 9, 1943 in Lumberton, NC, Admiral Highfill grew up in Winter Garden, FL, graduating in 1961 from Lakeview High where he excelled in math, sciences and sports. He received an athletic football scholarship to Clemson University and later transferred to Troy State University where he lettered in football, graduating in 1967 with a BA in Mathematics.
After graduation, Admiral Highfill completed the Aviation Officer Candidate School in Pensacola, FL and was commissioned an Ensign in the U.S. Navy in 1967, later receiving his Wings of Gold as a Naval Aviator, his lifelong ambition. He spent the next 33 years in the Naval Service, retiring in 2000 at the rank of Rear Admiral. During that time, Admiral Highfill accumulated over 1000 carrier landings, made two combat tours completing 350 combat missions in Vietnam, participated in Operation Desert Storm and Operation Provide Comfort for Kurdish Refugees in Northern Iraq, commanded two carrier aviation squadrons (VAW-117 and RVAW-110), two ships (USS Guadalcanal (LPH-7 and USS Belleau Wood (LHA-3)), and was Operation Officer on USS Enterprise (CVN-65) and Aide to Commander Strike Group SIXTH Fleet in Naples, Italy. As a Flag Officer, he was Vice Director for Command, Control, Computers and Communications (J-6) on the Joint Staff, and Commander Amphibious Forces SEVENTH Fleet out of Okinawa, Japan. During this period he was awarded the Defense Distinguished Service Medal, the Legion of Merit (4), the Air Medal (6) and 55 other decorations, medals and campaign ribbons. Admiral Highfill was a Distinguished Graduate of the Naval War College earning a Master of Arts degree in International Security and Foreign Affairs.
Upon retirement from the Navy in 2000, Admiral Highfill settled in Great Falls, VA, where he was appointed as a Vice President for SAIC. Later, he was appointed as a Vice President for C4ISR at the Titan Corporation. He then was appointed as the President and CEO of Base Technologies where, under his leadership, the company was recognized as one of the Top 100 Information Technologies companies in the US. Admiral Highfill was recognized by all who worked for him for his depth of knowledge, attention to detail, focus, hearty laugh, and love of life. He was generous with his time and talents and mentored many along the way. Upon his second retirement, he settled in the Grand Strand region of South Carolina where he worked in real estate, fished, played golf, told tall tales of his many adventures, some of which were true, and, most of all, enjoyed to the fullest his many friends and family.
Admiral Highfill was a loving husband, father and grandfather. He is survived by his beloved wife, Jenny, his daughter, Cheryl Highfill Woods, her husband, CDR Jeffrey Woods and their three children, Connor, Keira and Kendall of New Freedom, PA; his son, Dr. Jeffrey Scott Highfill, his wife, Dr. Jessica Colburn and their two children, Madeline and Liam of Silver Spring, MD; and his step-daughter, Lauren Jordan Perry of Charleston, SC. He was preceded in death by his beloved daughter, Kristin Leigh Highfill, in 2005 and his faithful companion Boxer, Lucy, in 2015.
Admiral Highfill's family will receive visitors on Sunday, October 14, 2018 from 2-4pm at The Dunes Golf and Beach Club in Myrtle Beach, SC. A burial at Arlington National Cemetery will be held at a later date.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Ronald McDonald House and The LilaBean Foundation.

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Published by The Sun News on Oct. 3, 2018.

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Gina

October 8, 2024

I miss our talks. I love you, Uncle Mitchell.

Gina

October 3, 2023

How can I really miss someone I haven't seen in person since 1997? Uncle Mitchell, I miss our phone conversations so much. I regret not seeing a relationship with my uncle sooner so we could have had so many more. I love you.

Anthony Callahan

May 6, 2023

Rear Admiral Highfill was a great person and leader. I remember I went to captain mast after being on the USS Belleau Wood 12 hours. LOL. He dismissed my case because it didn't make any sense why I was there. He helped me become a better person. I wish I could have met him again. Thank you again for everything. You are truly missed.

Demetrios

April 20, 2023

Condolences to the family. A very good leader. Last place you wanted to be on the USS Guandalcanal LPH 7 was Captain's mast before RAMD Highfill. Demetrios Manthous

Richard Notman

May 18, 2021

I served under Captain Highfill aboard the Belleau Wood. After a 25 year career, I can say unequivocally that he was the best CO I ever had. I mourn his passing.

gina englet

September 27, 2020

I can't believe it's been two years already. We became reacquainted for only a short time. Even so, I sorely miss our talks. I enjoyed being able to call you up and just say hi. I really enjoyed knowing you cared. I love you and I miss you.

August 29, 2019

Thinking about the many Naval Officers who showed kindness I decided to look up RADM Highfill. I was aboard his ship (USS Guadalcanal)during Op Provide Comfort. He would say hello to me each morning as I prepared for day ashore. He was truly a wonderful Officer and Human being.

Keith B. Rawls
Major, USMC(Ret)

Allisen Fox-Hanson

July 28, 2019

RIP RDML Highfill. We have the watch now.
He was my CO at VAW 110. He ran a good squadron and earned much respect.
Fair Winds and Following Seas.

AD3 Fox

Butch Kirkland

May 7, 2019

Great man, true American, superb Naval Officer. Enjoyed our time together on the waterfront in Sasebo, Japan, 1993-95. Fellow CO, Butch Kirkland, USS Brunswick, (ATS-3)

November 12, 2018

AMS-3 Short rest in piece skipper thanks for being a father to me after i lost mine God bless.

November 11, 2018

R.I.P.
AMS 3 Jay W. Caffo
VAW 117
1980 - 84

November 11, 2018

Couldn't have asked for a better Skipper.

AMS3 Paul Skinner
'80 - '83
VAW 117

DC2 (SW) Dressing

October 28, 2018

RIP Sir...it was a pleasure and an honor too serve under you

George Everson

October 27, 2018

It was a pleasure to serve with you. Rest in peace.

Robert Schmitt

October 17, 2018

Of all there people that I met and worked with in the USN, Mitch Highfill was, in my opinion, the best pilot I ever flew with. Not only that, our first responsibility as officers, was to take care of our personnel. That, he excelled at and anybody who ever met admiral Highfill will tell you the same. He was a person that you looked up to and wished to emulate. I feel very privileged to have worked with him and am saddened so very much at his passing.

October 8, 2018

RIP, Admiral, a life well lived! Thoughts and prayers are with your family. It was an honor and a privilege to serve under you twice in WESTPAC. Hands-down my best boss ever. . . and the best liberty bud a Shipmate could ever ask for!
Vr, Tony "2 More" Heimer

Joe and Terry Jordan

October 6, 2018

Rest in peace, Mitch. It was a pleasure to get to know you and an honor to have you as a brother-in-law.

Nancy Klepacki

October 5, 2018

I am deeply sorry to hear of Admiral Highfill's passing. His many, many kindnesses to our family will never be forgotten. Prayers and wishes of comfort to all his loved ones.

G H

October 5, 2018

I have loved you always

Hector Ayala

October 4, 2018

Pleasure serving under your command onboard the USS Belleau Wood. Fair winds and following seas Sir.

John Loving

October 4, 2018

MItch- as a proud member of the P.O.W.s Club, you will certainly be missed! Know youll have a centered ball when you arrive at the pearl gates.

October 4, 2018

We shared our chilhood as cousins and next door neighborsa. We ar proud oof his achievements and his legacy that follows. Our condolences to his family. Donald and Linda Bennett (Blairsville, GA)

Gina Highfill Englet

October 4, 2018

Uncle Mitchell, These last couple of years have meant the world to me. You seeked out a friendship after so many years and I am honored and humbled by that. I love you more than ever because of that kindness. I will miss our phone chats terribly. I wish you God speed. ❤❤❤

Ade Fetuga

October 4, 2018

Sleep well Admiral, we all got the watch.

Gabriel Holter

October 4, 2018

Hang Em High Harry. Definitely raised the standards. Made the newbies sweat for sure. God bless you and yours. Always. Fair winds and following seas.

Suzanne Perry

October 4, 2018

Jenny, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Joe, Suzanne and Gene

MMCS (SW) Spence (Ret)

October 4, 2018

In loving memory of a wonderful person.
We served together and because of His standards I can honestly say I became a better person.
Some where I have a Picture if he and I together on the lower level of the main space. But Ill forever remember the morning he came to the engine room and we just conversed as a couple of Sailors.
Fair Winds and Following Seas.
God Bless those left to spread the stories of a Great Man.

Joseph Swiderski

October 4, 2018

Fair winds and following seas Admiral Highfill. It was an honor and pleasure to work with you and have you as a friend. Joe & Patsy Swiderski

Kevin Warren BTC

October 4, 2018

A sad day, the world has lost one of the greatest men I have ever had the opportunity to know and serve with. Admiral Highfill, the world will be a lesser place with out you in it. Thank you for your courage, your discipline, you bravery, your leadership and most of all your mentoring of so many men such as myself, I am a better man having served under your command. Fair winds and following seas shipmate, my God have mercy on you and may God bless your family.

Rusty Wright

October 3, 2018

RIP Mitch. You were one of the good ones. You maintained high standards, took care of your people, and got the job done. You will be missed.

Donald jarrett

October 3, 2018

Mitchel,you will always be remembered we worked for the same company for many years crossed paths a few times winter garden was our home but the Navy was our life. FAIR WINDS AND FOLLOWING SEAS.

October 3, 2018

CAPT H - you were my greatest CO, you set the highest standards for all of us B-WOOD and made us live up to them. The Devil Dogs of USS BELLEAU WOOD lost a true great hero, rest in peace. Very Respectfully, CDR (Ret) Dennis Cameron

Dan Summerall

October 3, 2018

Mitch was truly "one of a kind" and will be missed by the Hawkeye community. Prayers and blessings for the family.

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