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Mary L. Tobin

1953 - 2022

Mary L. Tobin obituary, 1953-2022, Myrtle Beach, SC

BORN

1953

DIED

2022

FUNERAL HOME

McMillan-Small Funeral Home & Crematory

910 67th Ave North

Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

Mary Tobin Obituary

Dr. Mary L. Tobin
May 8, 1953 - March 24, 2022
Myrtle Beach, South Carolina - Mary L. Tobin, 68, of Myrtle Beach passed peacefully on March 24, 2022 at Memorial Sloan Kettering Hospital. She was born on May 8, 1953 to her parents Pasquale and Rose.
Mary is remembered for her kind spirit and positive influence on the lives of others. As a psychiatric nurse in private practice for more than 30 years, she counseled individuals through some of the most difficult points in their lives. She saved countless lives and was a fixture of Myrtle Beach's medical community.
A graduate of Ursuline High School, Mary married her high school sweetheart, Tom, after 11 years of dating. Mary graduated from nursing programs at Kent State University and earned her doctorate in nursing from LSU Medical Center in New Orleans, where she was awarded a dissertation prize. She distinguished herself for excellence in her nursing practice, authoring numerous publications and serving on professional committees.
Mary was surrounded by love. She is survived by her husband, Tom; her two sons, Tommy John and Jimmy Paul; her daughter-in-law Adriana; and her beloved puppy Yum Yum. Before her passing, she said, "I have lived a wonderful life, and I love my family." She loved playing board games, telling engaging stories, and being with her boys. She possessed boundless energy and buoyant resilience. Mary would often be seen reading mystery novels or Harry Potter books.
A memorial visitation will be held McMillan-Small Funeral Home in Myrtle Beach between 4-6 p.m. on Thursday, April 7. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations in her honor be made to St. Jude's Children Hospital, giftfunds.stjude.org/MaryTobin.

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Published by The Sun News on Apr. 3, 2022.

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Theresa Lafar

April 16, 2023

Dr. Tobin was a very special person who blessed many with her loving and compassionate nature. I miss her dearly, she helped me during trying times. Dr. Tobin may you rest in peace.

Danny moore

April 10, 2023

Dr. Tobin was my doctor for about 6 years. I was a mess when I first saw her.
I had gotten off my meds and went into a manic state. And needed help.
A friend of mine told her about my situation and that I was really struggling. The next day I saw her in her office. She got me back on a routine and kept check on me and I haven't had a bad day since. I never had to call her for anything. She called and checked on me all the time.
She was such a Wonderful Soul. I loved her dearly because she helped me when I needed it most. And she kept tabs on me until she passed.
I will miss seeing and talking to her for sure. She was and had a special way about her.

Margaret Shaulis

March 28, 2023

Dear Tom: I can't believe a year has passed.
Give us a call. I left our contact information
previously. I hope your faith is getting you through
this most difficult time of your life.

Love Butchie & Glenn Shaulis

Mike Gabriel

September 1, 2022

I just found out that Mary has passed. I'm so sorry to hear, and really upset that I stumbled upon this. Heaven has gained another angel

The Gabel Family

June 16, 2022

The life that Mrs. Tobin lived and the way she touched hearts will always be remembered!
Even in this time of grief` may her memory carry you on to brighter days.
Your wife/mother was loved and respected by us and our daughter. She really helped our daughter through some difficult times. Pre-Covid, Mrs. Tobin would always give her a hug and a smile at the end of their office visit. That is not something you normally receive after a medical visit! We realize this is late, but we were not notified
until an appointment was cancelled. For that
we are deeply sorry. Mrs. Tobin will be dearly
missed! Her presence was a light and the world will be darker without her. We wish you only fond memories and a smile when you think of your wife/mother.

Jacob Morris

June 12, 2022

I only heard this terrible news recently and was shocked and heartbroken for Mary and for your family.

Jan Rabe

May 10, 2022

I just found out today about Mary´s passing. I have known Mary for 30 years and loves her so much. She was much more than a therapist she was a dear friend to me. She talked so much about her sons, they were her pride and joy along with her husband! I will never forget her or the help she has given me through all those years. May God bless you all and bring you peace!
Jan Rabe

Sheri Clayborne

April 30, 2022

God Bless Dr. Tobin and her Family! I was a patient of hers and she was very kind and professional! She will be missed by many!

Linda Van

April 29, 2022

RIP Dr Tobin. You will be greatly missed. You were the best. Fly high sweet Angel.

Ray, Jeanette and Nicole Dilicchio

April 22, 2022

Our deepest sympathy to Mary's family. She was a special person and we loved talking to her. Nikki was a patient of hers and we truly loved her. May she rest in peach with our Lord and Savior.

Sharon Clayborne

April 16, 2022

I am so upset learning a few days ago that Mary Tobin had passed! She was a Wondeful Caring Doctor who will be missed by so many!!! God Bless Dr. Tobin and her Family!!!

Robert Freeman

April 6, 2022

Really a great person. May her soul rest in peace

Michele Barczynski

April 3, 2022

Dr. Mary Tobin, came into my life at one of the lowest points of my life. As one of her patients, she treated me with respect and love. She was so reassuring and caring. I will not be able to replace that beautiful and encouraging smile. My appointments with her were a highlight to me while dealing with a very difficult situation. Dr. Mary Tobin will be missed by myself and I am sure many others. My deepest sympathies go out to her family. I will always remember her in a loving way!

Butchie & Glenn Shaulis

April 3, 2022

Dear Tom and family:

I just read our newspaper with your sad news. Words cannot express our heartfelt sympathy. I talked with Mary in 2012 when our daughter, Amanda, was going
through a rough time and she was so kind and concerned. Please give me a call when you are up to
talking. Home (330) 534-3533; Cell (330) 398-7508.
May you have the strength you need for today and the hope you need for tomorrow. Love Always
Butchie & Glenn

Gretchen & Mike Ferncez

April 3, 2022

Tom & family, our deepest condolences on the passing of Mary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Donna Pitre

April 3, 2022

Mary, you had a smile on your face always. The love for your family was immeasurable. My deepest sympathy to the Tobin family. ( from Dr. Smith´s office )

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