Alan Charof Obituary
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Born in New York City, New York, Alan lived a life defined by reinvention and passion. At the age of 52, he launched a successful acting career in New York, later moving to California to continue pursuing his dream. At 64, he authored a novel, further cementing his love for storytelling. Beyond his professional pursuits, Alan was deeply committed to service, volunteering for many years with the Highway Patrol.
He is survived by his soulmate and wife of 56 years, Eileen; his brother, Ken; his children, Eric and Lynne; seven grandchildren-Adam, Matt, Dan, Zach, Jamie, Jake, and Luke; and two great-grandchildren, Sofia and Lola. Alan will be remembered as charismatic and generous, with an unmatched sense of humor and a gift for spinning unforgettable stories. His presence filled every room, and his spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew and loved him.
A celebration of his life will be held with an air burial at sea at 11 AM on October 5, 2025, at Pointe Vicente in Rancho Palos Verdes.
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Wanda Emmert
October 4, 2025
Alan was such a special guy. Always fun and making me laugh We will miss you Alan. Rest in peace
Lynne Charof
September 24, 2025
Lynne Charof
September 22, 2025
So much of who I am comes from you, and you are with me forever.
Eileen Charof
September 21, 2025
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Rosee Andrade
September 20, 2025
Carrying you always in our hearts You will be missed and forever loved.
Eric Charof
September 20, 2025
Dad I never knew a bigger man who had an even bigger heart. Love you forever.
Eric
September 20, 2025
Eileen Charof
September 13, 2025
My Soulmate - Always and forever in my heart.
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