Allyson "Akec" Ketchum

Allyson "Akec" Ketchum obituary, Mesa, AZ

Allyson "Akec" Ketchum

Allyson Ketchum Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Bunker Family Funerals & Cremation - University Chapel on Oct. 26, 2024.
On October 22nd, my baby girl Alex was found lifeless in a park due to a self- inflicted gunshot. She came into this world to forge a new path and open the minds of those who rejected the LGBTQ community, as well as those within the community who turned against each other. She understood that this journey was difficult, unfair, and filled with heartbreak and suffering, yet she chose to push forward.
I envision her as a bull in a Spanish bullfight. Like the bull, she kept running and fighting even as the torero and his assistants inflicted wounds upon her. Ultimately, the final sword pierced her heart, tearing apart the three components of her being: her body, her soul, and her spirit. At that moment, everything was broken, and she took her last breath. I hope, with a sincere and heavy heart, that this event won't be in vain. I wish that, with her passing, others will realize that when we leave this 3D dimension and earthly life, it won't matter what our gender, race, social status, or beliefs are. Where we are headed, there are no such titles; it is a place of love and happiness. We are all connected and come from the same source. I will miss her so much, I will miss her saying or texting "I love you, Mom". I am glad I could save some of the messages she left, I will be able to hear her physically which will give me comfort or a reason to cry when I am alone. Either way, it will help me to stay strong.
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Jorge Roig

September 30, 2025

A beautiful light taken out by the darkness which surrounded her.Hopefully you found your peace, I wish I could have helped you. I dedicate a song for you Allyson / Goo Goo Dolls : Iris . RIP pretty lady , fly away ! You are truly free now. We´ll meet up some day ,eternity waits for us. Death is only the beginning.

Nancy Slusarski

November 4, 2024

You don´t no me. I´m a friend of Kim Hutton and she told me about your daughter Allyson. I´m the mom of a transgender daughter. I can´t think of anything more tragic than the loss of your daughter. Please know there are those, I amount them, who will love, support and advocate for our LGBTQ population. I embrace you as you grieve the loss of Allyson. I will carry your family with me .

Lisa Rees

November 3, 2024

I'm the mom of a kiddo in the LGBTQ+ community too. My heart is broken over the loss of your beautiful child. Our children are warriors, and they're changing the world. Akec's legacy will never die. It will go on and continue to create a more accepting world for our babies.

I am holding you up with love and strength now. May you find peace in knowing that Akec's work here made a difference and will continue to do so.

Lisa Brennan

November 2, 2024

As the mother of a 28 year old trans daughter, my heart breaks for you. I can tell that Allyson is a beautiful person. I say "is" not "was" because she is still with you and always will be. Even though I never met you or Allyson, I will carry her with me. I will continue to fight for the rights of our kids and for all of the trans community, and I will do it in Allyson´s honor. I am sending so much love to you and your family.
Sincerely,
Lisa Brennan

Jeff Bender

November 2, 2024

Today, we honor the memory of Allyson Ketchum, a trailblazer and advocate whose light was dimmed far too soon. She courageously paved the way for acceptance and understanding, even when faced with unimaginable challenges. While we work tirelessly to protect our transgender youth, we must remember the struggles that transgender adults face each day. Leading with love and taking a stand against hate is imperative. Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with Allyson´s family, and we will do all we can to keep her light shining brightly.

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