An N. Ly

An N. Ly obituary, Freehold, NJ

An N. Ly

An Ly Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Clayton & McGirr Funeral Home on Dec. 21, 2025.
Obituary of An N. Ly

An N. Ly, 88, of Freehold passed away on Friday, December 19, 2025 at CentraState Medical Center, Freehold Township. He was born, raised, and started a family in Vietnam. He worked extremely hard to save enough money in order to flee Vietnam with the love of his life and his four young children after the war. The family were in a refugee camp in Hong Kong before arriving in Freehold in 1980. He would remain in Freehold for 45 years. He was a homebody.

An had a love for music, enjoying Vietnamese music, singing, and playing his mandolin. He was an avid reader and never stopped learning. He taught himself Vietnamese, Mandarin, and English. An had incredible discipline and work ethic. He kept many jobs to provide for his family here in Freehold and to support family still in Vietnam. He always prioritized his family's needs over his own. An often enjoyed watching boxing, basketball, and tennis. He loved to play ping pong and taught his kids how to play. An was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, and brother and will be missed dearly.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 62 years, Van Ly; children, Sylvia, Thanh and her husband, Tom, Khuong, and Lân and his wife, Sun; grandchildren, Teresa, Brandon, Brian, Kaylee, Nia, and Kai; great grandchildren, Aria and Kenzo; brothers, Thon, Vinh, and Minh; and many loving nieces and nephews.

All arrangements are private and under the direction of the Clayton & McGirr Funeral Home, Freehold Township. To leave condolence messages to the family, please visit www.claytonfuneralhome.com

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December 22, 2025

L. H posted to the memorial.

December 22, 2025

Keith Lee posted to the memorial.

December 22, 2025

Lý Biêu posted to the memorial.

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L. H

December 22, 2025

My mother and I was saddened to learn that Uncle An had passed away. Uncle An was one of the uncles who I was deeply respected and loved.

We are always remembering Uncle An as a fondness and funny as always. We'll miss him very much. We send our sincere condolences to the your family.

Thân mu & H

Keith Lee

December 22, 2025

I used to call Uncle very week to chitchat, Uncle had profound knowledge on life that he shared.
My biggest regret is that for the last few years I haven´t been able to talk to Uncle due to Uncle´s hearing problem.
Condolences to our Ly family...
Kit, Phng, Dc

Lý Biêu

December 22, 2025

It's my biggest condolences that Uncle An is no longer here. Uncle An had a gentle tone, along with family structure and morals that I always respect and love. He helped everyone else before he helped himself, and we always appreciated. We send wishes to Uncle An and his family.

Lý Biêu & Karen Quang
Lý Hu Thành (Alan)

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