Anthony Pantaleo

Anthony 'Chay' Pantaleo, 58 of Monaca was an inspiration to all who knew him. Born in Aliquippa, Pennsylvania, Chay's life was tragically cut short on September 22, 2025, due to a car accident. His departure from this world leaves a void that can never be filled, yet his spirit and legacy will forever be celebrated.
Chay grew up in the close-knit community of Aliquippa and carried the town's values of hard work and camaraderie throughout his life. A graduate of Aliquippa High School, he went on to obtain his CDL license. Chay's entrepreneurial spirit shone brightly as he co-owned A.P. Painting with his long-time friend Billy Spooner, where his sharp wit and intelligence made him a mentor and friend to many.
Family was the cornerstone of Chay's life. He cherished his beloved wife, Shannon (Kilburn) Pantaleo, his daughter Kirstin Pantaleo, and stepson Brandon Peace. His fur babies, Toffee, Dipstick, and Victoria, also held a special place in his heart. Chay was a loving brother to Thereasa, Loraine, Annamarie (James) Fairman, Vincent 'Jimmy' (Joyce), and John Pantaleo. He was a great uncle loved by his many nieces and nephews and a caring son-in-law to Barbara Kilburn. He was preceded in death by his parents, Vincent and Eleanor Marie Pantaleo, his nephews: Anthony " Munchie" Pantaleo and Nicolas "Peanut" Pantaleo and his brother-in-law, Dennis Kilburn.
He was an enthusiastic supporter of the Pittsburgh sports teams and his love for classic cars was evident, with his 1967 Impala SS being his pride and joy. Known as the 'soup master,' he also had a knack for classic video games and a penchant for shopping and taking long drives with his buddy Harvey.
Chay's interests were as diverse as his personality. He enjoyed his breakfast routines at Yianni's, grabbing Mac donuts before school, and indulging in late-night snacks at Applebee's. His daughter Kirstin always sought his advice, especially on fashion. His playful assurance that he was 'just 20 minutes away' became a fondly-teased quirk among friends and family.
Chay's generosity knew no bounds. Whether feeding the ducks with day-old Nickles bread, sharing the beauty of the fall leaves, or providing a sweet treat for every occasion, he made sure nobody ever left his home hungry or without leftovers. His 'just because' surprises showed how deeply he cared, always ensuring that those in his company felt loved and taken care of. His humor, often laced with sarcasm, was a sign of affection, and if he joked with you, it was because you were loved.
As a child, unable to pronounce his own name, he called himself 'An Chay', a moniker that stuck. One of his favorite saying was, 'today is a good day, I didn't have to use my ' Chay had a connection for everything and a solution for every problem, always ready to extend a helping hand.
Chay's life was a testament to love, laughter, and loyalty. His legacy, like his humor, will forever shine brighter than any rainy day, leaving us with cherished memories and lessons learned. A funny and intelligent man, Chay was the best person anyone could have ever asked for. While our hearts are heavy with grief, we take comfort in knowing that his spirit lives on in the stories we share and the love he spread. Chay, you were truly one of a kind, and you will be deeply missed.
Celebrate Chay's life with his family on Sunday, September 28th from 1 – 4 pm and 6-8 pm at SIMPSON FUNERAL & CREMATION SERVICES, 1119 Washington Avenue, Monaca where a blessing service will be held on Monday at 10 A M with Father Gilbert from Mary, Queen of Saints parish, officiating. Interment will follow in Mt Olivet Catholic Cemetery. A luncheon will immediately follow at St. John the Baptist Church Hall, Monaca.
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