Arlene With Obituary
Arlene, 74, Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, passed away peacefully on October 26, 2025, in Denver. Arlene was born on March 17, 1951, in Albuquerque, New Mexico to Flora Belle Drew and Alexander Chavez and was raised alongside her siblings Alfred, Robert, Thomas and Kathleen. On August 29, 1970, she would marry the love of her life Carl ‘Joe’ With. In 1979 they would move to Aurora, Colorado and there they would raise their daughter Victoria and son Eric. Arlene was very creative and loved sewing, quilting and knitting. She also loved taking care of her family, always making a special dinner for her husband and children on their birthdays. Arlene is survived by her husband Joe, children Victoria and Eric, siblings Alfred, Robert, Thomas and Kathleen, and her grandchildren David and Alex. She is preceded in death by her parents Flora and Alexander.
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11150 East Dartmouth Avenue, Aurora, CO 80014
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