Dr. Arthur C. DeGraff Jr.

Dr. Arthur C. DeGraff Jr. obituary, Hamden, CT

Dr. Arthur C. DeGraff Jr.

Arthur DeGraff Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Beecher & Bennett-Flatow Funeral Home - Meriden on Oct. 11, 2025.

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Dr. Arthur Christian DeGraff, Jr., age 96, of West Hartford, CT passed away October 3, 2025. Born in New York City June 18, 1929, he was the son of the late Dr. Arthur C. DeGraff, Sr and Dorothy Dodd DeGraff and was predeceased by his two brothers, Elliott and Eric DeGraff. Dr. DeGraff is survived by his beloved wife of 69 years, Sandra (Ketelhut) DeGraff; his son, Arthur C. "Turk" DeGraff, III and his wife Amy of West Hartford; his daughter, Betsy D. Sands and her husband Christopher of Winchester, MA; 6 grandchildren: Nolan Zoccali (Matthew), Katherine Davis (Joel), Matthew Rand (Amy), Matthew Sands (Emily), Jennifer Burns (Jared) and Katrina Sands (Christopher Gilbert); and 7 great-grandchildren.
Dr. DeGraff was a graduate of the Frederick Gunn School in Washington, CT, Wesleyan University in Middletown, CT and New York University School of Medicine in 1955. He served his internship and first year medical residency at Bellevue Hospital in NYC, second year residency at the Bronx V.A. Hospital in NYC, and fellowship in the Department of Medicine at Tulane University in New Orleans. He served in the U.S. Airforce at Lackland AFB Hospital in San Antonio, TX as Assistant Chief of the pulmonary section. He held the position of Assistant Professor of Medicine at Univ. of Texas, Southwestern Medical School, Dallas, TX.
Dr. DeGraff was an active staff member at Hartford Hospital, Hartford, CT for 50 years and Emeritus, 2017, and also spent a number of years as Medical Director of the Pulmonary Laboratory at Hartford Hospital. He was Clinical Professor of Medicine at the University of Connecticut Health Center School of Medicine, and had a private consultation practice in Pulmonary Disease for over 30 years. He was also an Investigator at Hartford Hospital Clinical Research Center.
He enjoyed his outdoor life with family and friends, spending time at their summer home in Newtown, CT and skiing at their winter home on Stratton Mountain in VT. He and his wife always enjoyed traveling thru out the United States as well as exploring countries such as China, South America, New Zealand and Europe.
Services will be private. Arrangements in care of Beecher & Bennett- Flatow, Meriden, CT. To send a condolence, see obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Maria Ventura

October 28, 2025

Mrs. Degraff. My condolences to you & your family for the loss of your beloved. I had so many dealings with Dr. DeGraff over the years while scheduling depositions while I was employed @ Embry & Neusner. I have since retired. What a great man.

adreanne good

October 14, 2025

my heart felt condolences go out to the family a beautiful beautiful person doctor with a heart of gold riheavenly peace gone but never ever will be forgotten his smile lit up every room

Mary Jane Densmore

October 12, 2025

Dear Sandy and family,
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Dr DeGraff. He was a remarkable physician and my years working with him in the pulmonary lab doing medical research were some of the fondest memories of my career. He taught me much and for that I am eternally grateful. May his memory live forever in your hearts as it will in mine.
With love and sympathy to all the DeGraff family
Mary Jane Densmore❤

Rosemarie and Jack Papa

October 11, 2025

We shared many memories with Sandra and Dr. at the Town & County Club over the years. Our sincerest sympathy to all the family.

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