Aubrey Coder-Holderman
Aubrey Coder-Holderman
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Aubrey was born on July 5, 1990, in Cedar Rapids, lowa, to Jamie Coder and Curtis Laver.
She is survived by her loving husband, Chris Holderman; her children, Lexi, Bentley, Bailey, Westley, Lily, and Bodhi; her mother, Jamie Coder-Laver; her father, Curtis Laver; her father, Brian Severson; and her stepmother, Melissa Severson. She is also survived by her siblings, Justin Coder, Keaton Laver, Dakota Lent, Ciara Wade, Brianna Volesky, and Jake Severson. She is further survived by her grandparents, Kenneth Coder, JoDee and Gene Moody, and Marnie, all of Cedar Rapids, lowa; many Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, and special friend Abby.
Aubrey was a free spirit and wildflower, known for her great sense of humor and her unforgettable laugh. She loved Jesus, music, books, nature, animals, rocks and crystals, bracelets, necklaces, fashion, painting, and plants. One of her favorite songs was "Save Me" by Jelly Roll, a reflection of both her depth and her heart. Her soul was as beautiful as she was.
A Celebration of Life will be held this spring or early summer. when all six of her children are able to be together.
A Go Fund Me will be set up for her husband and children.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Tiffany Long
January 17, 2026
Will always be deep in my heart. The last words you ever text me. Love you always .
Rodney Schneider
January 16, 2026
I love you
Marnee Glubka
January 16, 2026
My dear Granddaughter..we saw very little of each other in person, but she always kept in touch with me. She was always without judgment and a couple times were each other´s rock. I loved that she had so much interest in our family history and she had expressed what a fascinating lady that her Great Great Grandmother,Nellie, must have been. I would like to think that our G.G. Is giving her a big hug right now.
Jessica Trujillo
January 16, 2026
Sending so many prayers to you and your family! Sorry so sorry for your loss.
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Garland-Van Arkel-Langkamp Funeral Chapel
January 15, 2026
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