Barbara Ann (Moll) Uplinger

Barbara Ann (Moll) Uplinger obituary, Elmira, NY

Barbara Ann (Moll) Uplinger

Barbara Uplinger Obituary

Visit the Olthof Funeral Home - Elmira website to view the full obituary.

Barbara Ann (Moll) Uplinger, a native of Williamsport, PA and resident of Elmira, NY passed away on August 16, 2025. She had just celebrated both her 90th birthday, and her 70th wedding anniversary, an occasion she and her beloved husband Jack celebrated by dancing to “The Anniversary Waltz.” Theirs truly was a love unaltered by time.

Barbara worked as a receptionist for Planned Parenthood for 25 years. She and Jack were generous and active members of their community, dedicating 25 years to meal delivery for Meals on Wheels. They were also very active in church life, joining Bethany Lutheran in the late 1950s and serving in a variety of ways through the decades. Barbara served as church treasurer and also shared her musical gifts by joining the bell choir, and singing in the church choir for 50 years. She and Jack loved ballroom dancing and were jazz aficionados who enjoyed 20 years of attending the Sacramento Jazz Jubilee. She could often be found visiting the geese and ducks at Eldridge Park, or enjoying a cruise around town in her Mustang, also know as "The Little Pony."

Barbara was preceded in death by her parents – Harold and Grace E. (Purcell) Moll, and her parents-in-law - John and Virginia Uplinger, Sr.

She is survived by: her loving husband of 70 years, John R. “Jack” Uplinger, Jr.; her children – Chuck Uplinger and wife Nadine, and Patti Uplinger and partner Eva Mosso; her grandchildren – Pamela Harney and husband Matt, and Andrew Kroh and wife Ritu; and her great-grandchildren – Miles, Milan, and Vandin.

Friends and Family are invited to a memorial service at 11:00 AM on Saturday, September 20 at Bethany Lutheran Church, 256 S. Walnut Street, Elmira NY 14904. A reception will follow. Those who cannot attend in-person can attend virtually via live stream to Bethany Lutheran Church Facebook Page. One can connect to the Page by activating the link: https://www.facebook.com/bethanylutheranelmira.org/ The livestream will begin approximately 10 minutes before the service.

The family would like to thank the staff of Woodbrook Assisted Living for the compassionate care they provided, and CareFirst Hospice for their guidance.

Memorial contributions may be made in Barbara’s honor to: Meals on Wheels of Chemung County, 409 William St, Elmira, NY 14901; Planned Parenthood of Greater New York, ATTN: Development Department, 26 Bleecker Street, New York, NY 10012; or to the Bethany Lutheran Church, ATTN: Community Kitchen 256 S. Walnut Street, Elmira NY 14904.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Olthof Funeral Home - Elmira

1050 Pennsylvania Ave., Elmira, NY 14904

Make a Donation
in Barbara Uplinger's name

How to support Barbara's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Barbara Uplinger's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more