Barbara Wilder

1946 - 2016

Barbara Wilder obituary, 1946-2016, San Antonio, TX

Barbara Wilder

1946 - 2016

BORN

1946

DIED

2016

Barbara Wilder Obituary

Published by Porter Loring Mortuary North on Mar. 26, 2016.
Beloved wife and mother and dedicated volunteer Barbara Jane Godwin Wilder, passed away on March 26, 2016 at her home in San Antonio after a courageous battle with cancer. Barbara was born on May 13, 1946 in Atlanta, Georgia to Martha and Lamar Godwin. She grew up in Jonesboro, Georgia and attended the University of Georgia. She is survived by her husband of 49 years, Ed Wilder, and their two sons, Al Wilder and wife Melissa (Pittman) of San Antonio, and Steve Wilder and wife Sue (Mitan) of Troy, Illinois. Barbara was blessed with grandson, Justin, granddaughters, Shannon, Ezra, and Shirley; and great-grandchildren, Scarlette and Samuel. She is also survived by her sisters, Kay Godwin Graves and Peggy Godwin Hutcheson; and her brother, Robert Godwin. Barbara was an active volunteer and community member. A dedicated member of the Assistance League of San Antonio, she contributed to Thrift House, Operation School Bell, Togs for Tots, and Adopt a Resident. Her many contributions were recognized with the Assistance League's "Above and Beyond" Award. In addition, she was active in the Holly Garden Club and served as President of the San Antonio Garden Center. Barbara was a running enthusiast, running with the San Antonio Road Runners in races from 5Ks to Marathons, often placing among the winners in her age group. Known for her warmth, quick smile and humor, Barbara will be missed by many close friends. MEMORIAL SERVICE SATURDAY APRIL 30, 2016 2:00 P.M. COKER UNITED METHODIST CHURCH 231 E. NORTH LOOP ROAD In lieu of flowers, contributions can be made to the Assistance League of San Antonio, P.O. Box 13130, San Antonio, TX 78213.

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April 30, 2016

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April 29, 2016

Kim Judd posted to the memorial.

April 16, 2016

Jim and Grace Burghard posted to the memorial.

Sue and Frank Lester

April 30, 2016

Dear Ed and family,
Our thoughts are with you at this time. Barb was a wonderful, fun loving person with such a strong sense of faith and family. I have a great memory of Barb running the Houston marathon and towards the finish, shouting "I'm gonna make it, I'm gonna make it"... And this was after she only planned to run half. I'll always remember her in that spirit. We'll miss her very much.

Kim Judd

April 29, 2016

Ed Our prayers are with you and family. She was a great lady and an unforgettable person. She will be missed by us all. Kim and Kay Judd

Jim and Grace Burghard

April 16, 2016

Our prayers are with you all at this difficult time. May God's peace and grace abound with you, for Joy comes in the morning. Jim and Grace Burghard. Friends from Concordia Lutheran Church

Ann Sitterle

April 16, 2016

Dear Ed,
Our thoughts & prayers are with at this time.. Barbara was a lovely person...She will be missed by all who knew her...
Sincerely,
Ann & Frank Sitterle

Rick Hopkins

April 13, 2016

Ed,
As you know, I was only introduced to Barbara a couple of years ago. She was always so bubbly and sweet; always with a smile on her face. I'm so sorry for the loss to you and your family.
Rick and Holly Hopkins

April 13, 2016

Dear Ed and Family,
Barb was a dear friend. We had so much fun working together at ALSA and became super buddies there working almost every Friday until she became sick. I will miss her forever but know that she is walking with Nelson and enjoying it.
She will be missed by me during football season as we were always in touch about our dear teams, hers: University of Georgia and UTSA, me: Ole Miss. We constantly texted each other during the games and were supportive of our respective schools.
Take care and please accept my deepest sympathy.

Bettie Godwin

April 11, 2016

She was a beautiful person..inside and out.I. know she will e missed by many. With love and prayers.Aunt Bettie Godwin

Bonnie Kelley

April 9, 2016

Ed -

I just read about Barbara's death - I am so sorry for you and your family -

I want you to know how special those "old" days at Partner's were to me, and you and Barbara were always a part of the good times.

With fondness and condolences,
Bonnie Kelley

carol gilg

April 5, 2016

I'll remember Barbara as a skier and always being outdoors and ready for an adventure. The best times were in Winter Park enjoying the company of Ed and Barbara and their sharing their Winter Park home with us. Be free as the snow flakes and light as air and bright as the sun on the slopes Barbara. We'll see you again...Carol and John Gilg

Valerie Brown

April 2, 2016

I remember Barbara and Pat (Taylor) running/walking 4 miles a day in Roseheart. They were both too fast for me! Barbara was a wonderful, caring neighbor. One of my fondest memories is Barbara coaxing their dog, Nelson, to walk a little bit further by offering a treat every 3 or 4 steps.

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