Mr. Bart Albert Barré

Mr. Bart Albert Barré obituary, Mountainside, NJ

Mr. Bart Albert Barré

Bart Barré Obituary

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Bart Albert Barré, 79, died on March 6, 2017 with his wife of 52 years, Carolkay, by his side. He was a devoted husband and a dedicated and loving father and grandfather. Bart was a friend to everyone he met, a truly caring person who made the world better because he was in it. Bart was born in Hartford, Connecticut in 1937 to Henri and Dorothy Barré. He grew up in the Midwest, moving to Maplewood, New Jersey his senior year in high school. Bart was a man of many and diverse talents. After graduating from the University of Pennsylvania Wharton School of Business, he joined his father and uncle at The Barré Company in Linden, New Jersey. Ultimately Bart became the CEO and devoted almost 30 years to the Company before leaving to pursue another passion-the law. Bart graduated from Seton Hall School of Law in 1992. Bart went on to become the municipal public defender and judge in his hometown of Mountainside and practiced law for almost 15 years before retiring. After retirement Bart continued to volunteer as a Mediator and Arbitrator for the State of New Jersey, Division of Consumer Affairs, ADR Unit in Newark. Bart also continued to serve on the Board of the Watts Foundation in Mountainside and was an active supporter of Phi Kappa Sigma Fraternity, including decades managing the Alpha Chapter house at Penn. Bart was very civically minded, serving in the Army National Guard of New Jersey and always working to make the community in which he lived and raised his children a better place. Bart was extremely active in Rotary International, always heading out to distribute dictionaries at Deerfield, drop off Angel gifts at the Salvation Army in Plainfield or collect sewing machines and bicycles to ship to communities in need. Bart served as a member of the Mountainside Borough Council, Planning Board, Board of Adjustment, and Board of Education. He was an active member of the Community Presbyterian Church in Mountainside, serving multiple terms on the Board of Trustees and Session and serving the church in a myriad of small quiet ways. When his children were young, Bart was active in Mountainside Little League, Mountainside Midget Football, Cub Scouts, Jonathan Dayton Choral Parents Society, and the Thomas J. Ricciardi Scholarship Fund, Inc. When not in Mountainside, Bart loved being in Stone Harbor. Never sitting still, even on vacation, he was active in the Realty Owners Association. Bart is survived by his wife, Carolkay, his daughter Lisa Barré-Quick and husband Stephen, his son Bart Barré and wife Cathy, his three beloved grandchildren Maclaine, Emily, and Christopher, and his German Shepherd Grace. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in honor of Bart's life to the Masonic Charity Foundation of New Jersey, 902 Jacksonville Road, Burlington, NJ 08016-3896, njmasonicgiving.org or Community Presbyterian Church of Mountainside Youth and Music Programs, 1459 Deer Path, Mountainside, NJ 07092. There will be a memorial service to celebrate Bart's life at Community Presbyterian Church of Mountainside on Sunday, March 19th at 1 p.m. Arrangements by Gray Funeral Home, Westfield. Go to grayfuneralhomes.com for on line condolences.

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March 16, 2017

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March 16, 2017

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March 13, 2017

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Gail Raney

March 16, 2017

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Dr. Lissenden. I fondly remember your husband smiling and enjoying tending to his flower garden.

Clifford Baumbach

March 16, 2017

I was stunned to hear about Bart's passing. It was so sudden and unexpected. He was the glue that held the Alpha Chapter together during difficult times. I can't think of another person who worked as hard and was as dedicated. It will be hard to replace his energy and devotion. God bless Bart and his family. Cliff Baumbach Alpha'4

March 13, 2017

Sorry for your loss. May you draw comfort from the scripture at Ecclesiastes 9 : 5 that show your loved ones a resting in peace.

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G. Freeman

March 10, 2017

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Emily Schiller

March 10, 2017

May the words of our Heavenly Father in
2 Cirinthains 1:3,4 bring you the comfort you need

March 10, 2017

My heartfelt sympathy to the family on the passing of your love one please accept my heartfelt sympathy for your loss.may the god of all comforts you during this difficult time.2: corin 1 3-7
Cyd

David du Pont

March 10, 2017

Bart was a true modern Renaissance man who never stopped giving to others and never stopped learning. As a fraternity brother of Bart's, I first met him in 1963 when Iwas a freshman at Penn and he was the adult advisor to the Phi Kappa Sigma Fraternity chapter. This started a life long friendship. The hundreds of Phi Kap brothers he subsequently came in contact with on a regular basis were inspired by his devotion to the Fraternity, his friendship, his knowledge and his leadership. We have lost an extraordinary Brother. Rest in peace.

Wendy Whitbred

March 9, 2017

I am so sorry to know of Bart's death. I know how much your family means to mine. Nancy Whitbred is my mom and Bonnie Canevari is my sister and we are saddened that such a special man is gone from us for now. Know my prayers are with you.

Aileen Vega

March 9, 2017

Our deepest sympathy to CarolKay, the children and grand-children. Bart was a wonderful human being and we have lost a great man here on our. We pray that time will bring this beautiful family comfort and peace.

Steve Witt & Daniela Faibes

March 9, 2017

Bart was all you could hope for in a next-door-neighbor (and Karolkay was an added attraction when moving here years ago with two small children.) Bart was always kind, always considerate, and we'll miss his presence here on Wild Hedge Lane.

Vijay Gupta

March 9, 2017

I read his obituary, it beautifully portrayed a lile of a do-er! My respect and condolence to the family Bart left behind. May his soul rest in piece.

Pat and Bill Vetter

March 9, 2017

Often talked with Bart at coffee hour. I'll never forget the kind and uplifting ways he made

Marilyn Hart

March 8, 2017

I first met Bart when we both served on the Mountainside Borough Council. He was truly an exceptional person, not only through his commitment to volunteer activities, but because of his thoughtfulness and respect for people from all walks of life. Marilyn Hart

Mark Mitchell

March 8, 2017

Bart was a great asset to PKS and his efforts for the advancement of our fraternity were unmatched. As part of the Alpha Chapter class of 2007 at Penn, PKS was the foundation on which I have made lifelong friends. When I think back to college, most of my great memories were at the chapter house. Thank you Bart, and my condolences to the entire Barre family.

Max Dubin

March 7, 2017

Bart was a great friend and I always enjoyed a catch up call with him. I have always been blown away by his continued commitment to our fraternity, but I had no idea until today just how much time he volunteered to so many other groups. His commitment to being an engaged member of his community is an inspiration to aspire to. I made lifelong friends in the fraternity, and Bart, more than anyone, made that possible. Thank you Bart for your dedication and your friendship, and thank you to Barre family for sharing him with so many people.

Josh Berman

March 7, 2017

Although we met a handful times during my time at Penn/PKS (2003-2007), Bart's influence on the direction of the fraternity is undeniable. He always imparted just how important the friendships made truly are (as evidenced by seeing Bart with some of his fraternity brothers throughout the years). Aside from his commitment to ensuring we had a top notch house, it was his every cheerful mood and levity that livened his visits. Even though we only saw Bart a few times a year, it was truly special when he came to campus. He will certainly be missed.

Graham Bassett

March 7, 2017

To Bart's Family,

I was a brother of Phi Kappa Sigma at Penn in the class of 2007. I served as house manager 2005-2006, and worked closely with Bart looking after the Alpha chapter house. Bart was both extraordinarily kind and supportive of me and the entire fraternity. He will be remembered as a terrific mentor and the ideal brother. Thank you for sharing him with us.

Take Care,

Graham Bassett
Phi Kappa Sigma
Eta Class - Alpha Chapter

Ilya Feygin

March 7, 2017

Unexpected, unfair, painful. A great human being, the best neighbor with a kind and fair word ready for everybody at any time. Dear Doctor Carolkay, we are so very, very sorry. Please allow us to be helpful in any way possible. You know, we owe your family a lot for your help and kindness.
Sincerely, Ilya and Helen Feygin.

Sandy Graves

March 7, 2017

I am truly sorry to hear that this world lost a great man. Rest in peace Mr. Barre. The Trano and Graves families will dearly miss you.

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