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Benedict Smith Obituary
Benedict Nelson Smith, II, born March 25, 1935 in New York City to the late Lucinda Huffman and Ralph C. Smith, a longtime resident of Darien, CT, died March 11, 2025.
He is survived by his wife of 60 years, Hester Huguley Smith, his daughter Lucinda S. Wesson (Jonathan) and his son David P. Smith, Virginie H. Smith and 3 grandchildren, Violet Smith, Creighton Wesson and Clementine Smith. He also leaves behind nieces and nephews Ronald Huebsch (Amanda), Suzanne Huebsch, Hunter Huebsch and Elizabeth Huebsch.
He graduated from Middlesex School, Concord, MA and the University of Colorado.
He started his 37 year career in personal wealth management at Fairfield County Trust Co. (now Wells Fargo Bank). Upon retirement he held the position of Senior Vice President and Senior Portfolio Manager.
He volunteered his time at The Darien Nature Center, Darien Historical Society, At Home in Darien, Saint Luke's Parish and the Community Fund.
Mr. Smith was predeceased by his sister Lucy S. Rowan and his nephew Michael C. Huebsch.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Benedict's memory to Americares.
A Memorial Service will be held May 28th at Saint Luke's Parish, Darien, CT at 2:30 p.m. To leave an online condolence, please visit www.LawrenceFuneralHome.com
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Lena G
May 28, 2025
My condolences to the family of Benedict Smith. I met Ben while working at Union Trust back in 1975. He was always kind, considerate, a true gentleman. I have nothing but fond memories of Ben and I am truly saddened of his passing. May he rest in peace.
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Melissa Wilcox Watson
April 1, 2025
I'm so sorry to hear of Ben's passing. I always enjoyed conversations with him at Latimer.
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