Benjamin Warren "Ben" Payton Sr.

Benjamin Warren "Ben" Payton Sr. obituary

Benjamin Warren "Ben" Payton Sr.

Benjamin Payton Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Chapel Memorial Funeral Home - Waterbury on Oct. 21, 2025.
On Saturday, October 17, 2025 Benjamin Warren Payton Sr. departed this life peacefully at his home. Benjamin was the husband of Latonya (Jones) Payton.
Benjamin was born March 26, 1961 in Danbury, CT, the youngest son to the late David and Mary (Smith) Payton.
"Ben" as he was called by all, graduated from Henry Abbott Technical High School in Danbury, Connecticut and attended Southern Connecticut State University. To know Ben was to know a person whose heart beat in rhythm with the bounce of a basketball, whose life was filled with the spirit of the game. Ben was a star basketball player in high school and college. He was known for his signature jump shot and earned the name as a true left hand "Sharp Shooter". Ben played basketball well into his later years and was able to run circles around the younger crowd as they stood in awe watching him. His love for basketball began early and never faded, whether he was on the court, on the sidelines coaching, or cheering his favorite teams the UCONN Huskies and the Dallas Cowboys.
A true master of his craft, our beloved Ben found deep satisfaction in his work as a construction and landscaping professional. He had a natural gift for operating heavy machinery, and his eyes would light up whenever he got to work with a bulldozer and Bobcat. Ben was compassionate about helping the youth in the community by coaching youth teams, and mentoring a new generation of players. His compassion for the game made him a tough coach but well respected. Ben loved his family and would dote over his grandchildren every chance he could.
In addition to his wife Latonya, Ben leaves to cherish his loving memories three daughters; Natika Payton of New York, Natiesha Jones and Natavia Payton both of Waterbury, two brothers; David Anthony (June) Greene of Hesperia, CA, and William Payton of Greenville, NC, two sisters; Sheila (Timothy) Jones of Greenville, NC, and Jacqueline (Wimbley) Jimenez-Moore of Bridgeport, CT, three grandchildren; Noelle Payton, E'Milliano Payton, and Zenlen Payton, mother in law; Jackline Pickette, Brothers in law; Christopher (Rosie) Jones , Shelvonn Jones and Jason Jones, three aunts, one uncle, a host of nieces, nephews, cousins, extended family and friends. He was predeceased by son Benjamin Payton Jr. We'll miss his laughter, and his infectious love for his family and for the game of basketball.

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November 16, 2025

Aira Perkins Moore posted to the memorial.

October 31, 2025

Tim Gorman posted to the memorial.

October 29, 2025

Vanessa Cardoza posted to the memorial.

Aira Perkins Moore

November 16, 2025

Sleep in peace Cousin, you will be missed

Tim Gorman

October 31, 2025

My sincere condolences to the Payton family.

Vanessa Cardoza

October 29, 2025

Rip Ben ima miss you I love my Friend Tanya your wife i knew you both for many many years and you both were always good to me I will never forget that me and my Husband Alan will miss your laugh and smile Rip our friend until we meet again our friend

Loretta Worthington

October 24, 2025

Rest in peace Ben

Angie Moore n family

October 22, 2025

My condolences to the family !! Ben you will be missed rip my cousin, God has gained another king in his kingdom. Love

Wendy L Christian

October 22, 2025

Prayers of comfort for the family... blessings Ben was a cool dude.. and always smiling God bless

Reggie and April Bunns

October 22, 2025

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family, you have our deepest sympathies.Ben, you are a true champion,watching you play taught me a lot as a lefty as well and proud to be a fellow WOLVERINE!! Rest easy my friend.

Alfred Harps

October 21, 2025

I met Ben when we were in the 3rd grade. We grew up together not only as best friends but as brothers. We were always together. We did everything. He taught me how to drive stick shift with his orange and black chevy camaro. There's so much to say about Ben, but just know I will never forget him. I can't. May GOD bless him and his family. I Love You Man. Rest in Peace

Kenny Gibbs

October 21, 2025

Good friend always happy to be around my brother my condolences goes out to the family.

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