Bernardine M. Gordon (Huether)

Bernardine M. Gordon (Huether) obituary, Rochester, NY

Bernardine M. Gordon (Huether)

Bernardine Gordon (Huether) Obituary

Visit the Farrell-Ryan Funeral & Cremation Services - Rochester website to view the full obituary.

Suddenly on November 7th, 2025, at the age of 99 in the home she was born in. Predeceased by her husband Ralph; parents James and Bridget Huether; brothers and sisters. She is survived by her children Mary Catherine (Ron) Thayer, James (Sylvia) Gordon, Maureen (James) Shepard, Anne Marie (Nancy Friday) Gordon; her grandchildren Matthew (Savannah) Gordon, Rosemarie (Jeff) Bucci, John (Christine) Gordon, Andrew Gordon, Evelyn (Mitchell) Owens, Jacob (Gabriella) Shepard, Jeremiah (Joanna Fedele) Shepard, Isom Jenkins; 12 great-grandchildren and one great-great grandson; her sister in heart Helen Taylor; many nieces and nephews especially the Tomasso family.

She was a lifetime member Most Precious Blood Parish and President of the Sacred Heat League for many years as well as a Eucharistic Minister and Lector at the church.

No prior calling. Friends may attend her funeral mass 10:30 AM Thursday at St. Charles Borromeo Church. Interment Holy Sepulchre Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, Masses may be offered or donations to the National The Parkinson's Foundation, Greater Rochester Chapter, PO Box 23204, Rochester, NY 14692.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Farrell-Ryan Funeral & Cremation Services - Rochester

777 Long Pond Road, Rochester, NY 14612

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