Passed away January 18, 2026 at age 93. She is predeceased by her mother Ruth and sister, Joan. She is survived by her husband of 55 years, Frank Sidoti; daughter Lisa (John), Tom (Eileen), Bill, Bob (Liz); stepdaughter Susan; 7 grandchildren and 3 great-grandchildren.
Betty was a friendly personality who never met a stranger. She loved to entertain and was a great cook. Shopping, decorating and fashion were pleasures of hers. Betty was an avid and good golfer, a fantastic seamstress and artist. She and Frank traveled all around the world skiing with their many friends. She also got all her kids and grandkids to learn skiing. She was a great mom and grandmother who loved them all. She loved music and played the violin when she was young. She was a very generous person who would try to give you something of hers if you mentioned that you liked it. She was loved by many and will be deeply missed.
A private memorial service will be held for the family. In leu of flowers, her memory contributions may be made to St. Ann’s Foundation, 1500 Portland Avenue, Rochester, NY 14621
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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