Bill Graff

Bill Graff obituary, Provo, UT

Bill Graff

Bill Graff Obituary

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It is with profound sorrow and a deep sense of loss that we announce the passing of Bill Graff, who was born James William Graff on September 13, 1938, in Camden, NJ, and left us on September 14, 2025. Bill, as he was affectionately known, left a lasting legacy and touched many lives with his intellect, wisdom, and generosity. As Maya Angelou once said, "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Bill's impact, much like Angelou's words, was deep and unforgettable.

Bill moved to Provo, Utah, 32 years ago from Virginia, and quickly became an integral part of the community. He was a successful business owner who, in retirement, continued to influence the business world with his insight and expertise. His work with business turnarounds and his own business newspaper showcased his deep understanding of the business dynamics and his ability to find innovative solutions. Bill's retirement in 2003 did not slow him down but instead gave him more time to dedicate to his Ethiopian projects.

Married in Ethiopia while he was in the Peace Corps to his wife, Betty, on June 27, 1964, Bill was a devoted husband, always radiating love and warmth. His life was a testament to the quote by Helen Keller, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart."

Bill was preceded in death by his daughter, Sandra Lee Graff Murray, his grandson, John William Cantlin, his parents, Chauncey and Idamay Graff; his half brother, Edward (Eddie) Myers; his sisters, Leanna Graff King, Jane Graff Scheffler, and June Graff Garcia.

He is survived by his 2 sons, John Graff and Joseph Graff, his granddaughter, Ralynn Cantlin Butcher, his 3 grandsons, Joshua Graff, Jacob Graff and Mason Graff and his 5 great grandchildren, Ty, Porter, Korbin, Rowan and Amelia Butcher.

He was a beacon of light in their lives. His loss is deeply felt, but we take solace in the remarkable life he led, the lives he touched, and the legacy he leaves behind. As we mourn his passing, we also celebrate his life, cherishing the memories we have of him and the impact he had on us all. We kindly invite those who knew Bill to leave their memories and upload photos on his memorial page, thus helping us all to remember and celebrate his extraordinary life. As we remember Bill, let us keep in mind the words of Albert Schweitzer, "The only escape from the miseries of life are music and cats." Bill, with his love for business, his community, and his family, provided the melody to which we all danced, and for that, we will always be grateful.
Nelson Family Mortuary

4780 N University Ave, Provo, UT 84604

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