Brett Oehlke Obituary
Brett Lawrence Oehlke, age 37, passed away suddenly at his home from natural causes on the morning of Wednesday, December 10, 2025.
He was born on June 14, 1988, at New London Hospital, the son of Brian and Betsy Oehlke.
Brett was the proud father of one amazing daughter, Peyton, who was the center of his world. He graduated from Weyauwega-Fremont High School and went on to work at Waupaca Foundry, Appleton Acoustical, and later as a bartender, where many knew him fondly as the "Big Teddy Bear."
Brett had a warm spirit and a love for the outdoors. He enjoyed fishing, golfing, and hunting, and treasured time spent swimming with Peyton. He also loved trivia, darts, spending time with friends, and the occasional karaoke night-always ready to sing a great tune. One of his greatest joys in life was supporting Peyton in all of her activities, especially cheering her on at her sporting events. The two shared a special bond, spending countless hours at the movies together and connecting through their shared love of music. Brett cherished the times he spent with his niece and nephew.
Brett will be remembered for his big heart, gentle nature, and the deep love he had for his daughter, family, and friends. Brett is survived by his parents, Brian and Betsy Oehlke; daughter, Peyton; brother, Beau (Hailey) Oehlke; niece and nephew, Raelyn and Bronson. Brett also has a large extended family of aunts, uncles and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Vern and Jean Oehlke, and maternal grandparents, Merle and Helen Jarchow.
Brett's family would like to thank the paramedics, firemen, and police force for their extreme efforts.
A gathering of family and friends will be held on Sunday, December 14, 2025, at the Dahlke Life Celebration Center in Weyauwega from 1:00 - 4:00 PM, and on Monday, December 15, 2025, at St. Paul Lutheran Church in Fremont from 10:00 - 11:00 AM with a memorial service to begin at 11:00 AM.
In lieu of flowers, please consider planting a tree in memory of Brett.
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