Brian O'Day Cremin

I will never forget the first rap that I ever heard you deliver! I will miss you Brian a.k.a Chunky. Renee

Dear Pat and Margie, I only learned of your loss today, in an email from Carol Weber Shrout. I am thinking of you and your lovely family. Your strength and humanity will see you through. And you will see Brian anew everyday in his daughter Tristyn.
Love,
Marsha Elkins Huff
Milwaukee, WI

Dear Cremin Family-
I am sorry to hear about Brian's passing. My prayers are with you.

Dearest Pat,
I just want to remind you, love, that I am here if there is any way I or The Tristesse Grief Center can help you, Margie and the family. I grieve with you the loss of your child and I celebrate with you the impending birth of his child, Tristyn. (Love the name.) I understand, as I know you and Margie do, the abundance of joy Brian must have felt in adopting that greatest of monikers -"father of Tristyn O'Day Cremin" - as deeply as I understand the devastating grief you must feel in the loss of your own precious child. My heart hurts for you both, and my prayers are with you in learning to live in his physical absence.
As for you, Brian O'Day Cremin, I can just hear you singing along with that wisest of your fellow band members, Yeats - “Come Fairies, take me out of this dull world, for I would ride with you upon the wind and dance upon the mountains like a flame!” Godspeed.

Pat, Margie, and Catherine,

I am so sorry to have heard of Brian's sudden passing. I did not know of it until today and wish I could have been there for you to have given you support. My prayers are with you and all of Brian's family.

Oh my dirty pants Oklahomie Brian! You never failed to bring a smile to everyones face..... I remember when i first met you, and insisted on walking you home with an umbrella, bc it was raining and you were on crutches..... You have always brought the biggest smile to my face! I'm so happy that you have been, and will always remain a huge part of my heart, and life, from the day i met you til forever..... xoxoxo< thanks for now watching over us!

Pat, Margie, and Catherine,

i was so saddened to hear about Brian passing. I wish it hadn't been so long since I'd seen him, but I got a beautiful picture of the man he'd become when I googled him and looked at his myspace where i was touched to see among his other information, his acknowledgement of what his family meant to him, mentioning his mom, dad, sis, nieces & nephews, and his whole family, and how much they all meant to him. Then to see and hear how others have responded, I know the world lost one of the joys we have here on earth. But our loss is heaven's gain, and the day will come when we will reuinite with Brian and all those we love who have passed before us.
All my love and prayers to you, and for the repose of Brian's soul, may he rest in peace.

Dee (Byard) Poe

Margie,

We grieve with you for the loss of your son. In Christ, we will see him again and have fellowship with him for eternity.

Into the open, into the ether, to the highest plane, may you find Peace...
bye Brian

To all of Brian's family.

I remember his wonderful sense of fun so well. I cannot imagine how much he will be missed. My prayers and thoughts are with you at this difficult time.

Pat and Margie,

My heart is aching for you, Catherine, and the rest of your family. I cannot imagine the grief you must be feeling at this time. I pray for all of you that the time will come when your hearts don't feel so heavy and you can truly rejoice Brian's life. I can tell, from all of the entries here, that he touched a multitude of lives and will forever do so.
Much love,
Cheri Byard Taggart

Dear Cremin Family;
I had the wonderful pleasure of meeting Brian through my daughter, Carla-Rose. He was always so funny, sweet, thoughtful and had a smile for everyone! Carla-Rose was so excited to have moved just a few houses from Brian and Liz. His passing has had such a huge impact on so many people. It shows how much he touched everyone's life. That, is the greatest accomplishment any of us can hope for. I hear from my daughter what an awesome family Brian has...he was a testament to that. I can't imagine your pain and sorrow. May you find comfort in your wonderful memories.
"...and in the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make..." The Beatles

To the Cremin Family, and Liz;
While it is true I did not know Brian as long as some, he was a most wonderful man. The learning of his passing has broken my heart and I will miss him much! I Thank you Pat and Margie for giving this world such an awesome gift!! My thoughs and Prayers are with you all. He will be missed and remembered!!!

Pat and Margie,
Having lost a child as well we know that it is not easy because our children are suppose to out live us. But know this, time will eventually lessen you grief and bring you understanding.

Our most sincere sympathies are with you and your family. You will be together once again. All will be well forever.

Tucker and Susan Perrine McHugh

Dear Margie and Pat,
My sincere condolences at the loss of your beloved son, Brian.
I was so sad when I saw his obiit in the newspaper and not only said a prayer for his safe return to Our Father in heaven, but shed some tears as I remembered with great fondness the fun-filled year I taught him at IC as his Kindergarten teacher.
I pulled a few of those photos out and my tears turned to laughter because Brian was the life of my classroom!
I also remember the fun parties at your home where Brian directed me to the lower level to sign his "Wall of Shame" as he called it.
He was a bright and very intelligent person and always among "Top of Class" at IC.
I happened to see him again at a HS graduation party of a neighbor down my street and we spent some time that evening talking about IC.
My heart goes out to his wife too and I know with your loving support you will help her through this time.
I couldn't attend the services for Brian because I have my mom here with me and she can't be left alone.
I was with you in prayer and in spirit.
I lost my dear husband, Patrick to Lung Cancer that metastized to his brain July 17, '08.
I have some photos of Brian and Patrick at the IC Hoedown Carnival both in cowboy hats, boots, chaps, and toy guns and was reminded of the joy each brought to all they knew.
My prayer of comfort at this loss is that they are both in heaven playing "Cowboy Up."
Sincerely,
Marilyn Millberry(Dietsch)

My love and prayers for Brian, a delightful young man. God's blessing and comfort for his family and friends. Sister Mary Clare

Pat, Margie and Catherine,
Brian made the planet Earth a better place to be; and he will now do the same for Heaven.
Thank you for sharing him with us.
Love,
Richard & Cheryl Groenendyke (NYC)

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. I am deeply sadden by your loss, please know that I and many others love and care for you.

God bless

Tim S. Clark Sr.

To all of Brian's family -
Thank you for the gift of your son (brother, cousin). He was a dear friend of and support for my daughter, Amy, when they were at BKHS. He was a blessing in our lives.

The Cremin Family -

I have known Brian for many years and I considered him a dear friend and a person who was full of life. I have many fond memories of Brian and his passing is great loss to his family and to the world. He was truely a unique person who made the world a better place.

My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Margie and Pat - It's been a long time since we last saw you and a lot of water has gone under the bridge. Penny Schell called us today to tell us about the loss of your son Brian. We're sorry we never met him! We, of course, remember Catherine and when she came to live with you. Our deepest sympathy for your loss! Anthea and Doug Harrison, 3838 Rainbow Blvd. Ste 1411, Kansas City, KS 66103.

Dear Cremin Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Brian was a wonderful and amazing individual who could always make you smile. He will truly be missed.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time.
God Bless,
Julie Ingram

It was a true honor to have spent some fun times with Brian "Sreal" Cremin. He was a true entertainer in my book and could make anyone have a good time.

I met Brian through my friend (and his cousin) Carolyn. He had a great sense of humor and an amazing spirit. Much love to his family during this painful time.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I will always remember the good times as a kid playing baseball with Brian and running around Gilcrease Hills.

Pat and Margie, there is nothing i can say to ease the pain of this loss. I think of Brian at 7th grade football practice and his hijinks and at Cremin parties and it makes me smile. That is what he did to people. I hope that you can get to that point where the crying turns into thoughts that make you smile.
Darrell Bolton (BK '65)

Margie and Pat, please know that all of your friends from the SSHS Class of 1959 are thinking of you with love and prayers. What a tragic loss for you and all who loved Brian. We send our deepest sympathy.

So very, very sorry for your loss but am glad you have such happy memories.

Pat and Margie,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your heartbreak is shared by everyone who knows and loves you.
-Leslie Zieren

Pat and Margie
So sorry to hear this tragic loss. My heart and prayers are with you.
Dick Daniels

Please know you are in my prayers.
Pam Ross-Fogel (BK 1965)

Even though I have not seen you in many years, I will never forget your contagious laugh and smile!! You will be greatly missed. May your family and friends be comforted and may you rest in peace!
Marlow Perkins Sipes

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Brooke Nelson

My sympathy and prayers for your beloved Brian and the Cremin family.

I went to school with Brian for fours years at Immaculate Conception. I have not seen him since the 3rd grade, but I vividly remember his high energy and bright smile. My prayers are with his family.

Jamilah Salim

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

I never knew Brian; however, knowing Pat, he must have been quite a fun-loving, compassionate man. I am so sorry for your loss. Susan Harn, Goodwill Industries

Goose and I were so shocked when we heard the heart breking news of "B's" passing. We were always so happy to run into him and see his darling face. He touched everyone who came into contact with him, we will miss his grace.
Thoughts and prayers are with you,
Mike, Nita & Jon Dragoo

Dear Pat and Margie,
Lola and I were saddened to learn of Brian's passing. Please accept our deepest sympathies, and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Charles Borchardt

I am very sad to hear of your loss. May God bless you all.

Dear Pat and Margie,
I can't imagine your heartbreak and sense of loss. I'm sure it must be crushing.
There's an old saying, (probably Irish!) that "We are not meant to outlive our children". That's because it can break us into a million little pieces like a piece of fine crystal. It's just not the natural order of things, and we cannot possibly be prepared for it in any way, shape, or form. My heart goes out to you both.
If there is any solace to be found, let it be that he had the chance to find peace, contentment, and happiness before he left us. Hopefully that can be of some small comfort to you in these trying times.
Sincerely
Joe

To the entire Cremin Family-I am thinking of you and love you. If there is ANYTHING that I or my family can do for you, just ask. Brian was a dear friend and a wonderful person. He will be greatly missed.
Much Love~
Lori Stewart Irwin

Pat and Margie: While I was Hagedorn's assistant I loved watching Brian bebop his way through the office in front of my desk to go see his dad. He was so full of energy and would stop and chat with me about his music. He always made sure to poke his head into Frank's office to pay his respect. It is a great loss for us all and my heart is aching for your loss. I hope you can find some comfort in knowing the many lives he touched in his short time with us.

I am deeply saddened that our beloved friend was taken from us far too soon and cannot imagine what his family is feeling! As Amy Maples' cousin, I was able to be around Brian and have so many crazy, yet hilarious memories of of Brian O'Day Cremin. The Reed, Maples, and extended Broyles families send our deepest sympathies. We will miss you so very much!

Pat and Margie:

I think about all the times we spent together, many great, some good, some not-so good, but we always looked to the future, as I know you are doing now. I was not lucky enough to know Brian, but he sounds like a swell guy. I'm sorry I missed the opportunity. All my best to his family and yours.

Your good friend, Michelle

Our hearts hurt for your family. Tami and Dave DeAngelis

To the entire Cremin Family-I love you all and if there is ANYTHING that I or my family can do for you just ask. Brian was a dear friend to me and he will be greatly missed on this earth.
Much Love,
Lori Irwin

Pat and Margie, we are saddened by the news of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family. Loretta, Mike, Debbie and Jackie and the extended Hamilton family in Kansas City.

When I think of Brian, I will always see a big bright smile. Those who knew him were blessed.

Pat and Margie, we are heartbroken for you and your family. I really am at a loss for words, but know that all of you are in our prayers. May God Bless you.
Love and prayers,
MaryAnn Robb VanVeen and Family
(BK Class of 1962)