Brian Timothy "Timmy" Defelice

Brian Timothy "Timmy" Defelice obituary, Hagerstown, MD

Brian Timothy "Timmy" Defelice

Brian Defelice Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by J. L. Davis Funeral Home on Dec. 16, 2025.
Brian Timothy "Timmy" Defelice, 58, of Hagerstown, MD, passed away peacefully Thursday, December 11, 2025 at his home, surrounded by loving family.

Born on July 6, 1967 in Hagerstown, MD, he was the son of the late Brenda Ann (Haupt) and Ronald Hugh Defelice, Sr.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his Aunt, Dolores Defelice.

Brian worked in asphalt for Wastler & Son, Inc. for 5 years until he became a caregiver for 15 years.

Brian enjoyed Bowling, Golfing and spending time with family.

He is survived by his loving wife, Pamala S. (Twigg) Defelice; Sons, Bryan Defelice and wife, Samantha of Hagerstown, MD and Nick Defelice of Falling Waters, WV; Granddaughter, Charlotte Defelice; Brother, Ronald H. Defelice, Jr. (Chanon); numerous Nephews, Aunts, Uncles and Cousins, including a close Cousin, Ed Davis; and best friend, Nathan Smith.

Services will be private and at the convenience of the family.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to J.L. Davis Funeral Home, 12525 Bradbury Ave. Smithsburg, MD 21783 to help offset the funeral costs.

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December 29, 2025

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Melissa Richards

December 29, 2025

All my love and prayers to everyone that knew you..
And your family .

Sarah A

December 26, 2025

It was a pleasure knowing you. You were a great patient and I hope myself and my coworkers made you smile.

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