Brooke N. Gordon-Hare

Brooke N. Gordon-Hare

Upcoming Events

Oct

15

Service

Mount Hope Cemetery

Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Oct

15

Service

11:30 a.m.

Temple Sinai

363 Penfield Road, Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Oct

15

Celebration of Life

1:30 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Brighton Town Park – Carmen Clark Lodge

777 Westfall Road, Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Brighton Memorial Chapel, Inc.

Brooke Gordon-Hare Obituary

Obituary published on Legacy.com by Brighton Memorial Chapel, Inc. on Oct. 11, 2025.

Publish in a newspaper

Our beloved Brooke Gordon-Hare passed away on October 9, 2025 at the age of 73. She is survived by her husband of 50 years, Richie Hare, her daughter Arley Jurjens (Kyle and grandson Dax), her sister Alix (Sandy), brother Jeff (Sue) and numerous cousins.

Brooke loved life, especially the outdoors and particularly the Adirondack Mountains. She and her family vacationed there almost every summer exposing family and friends to the places she loved. She and Richie always had a rescue dog that added another layer of love in their house. She was always the empath who thrived on helping people whether as an Assistant Dean of Students at the U. of Rochester, the head of counseling at Planned Parenthood, or as a Social Worker in the Rochester City School District.

At home she was half of two best friends and a mother who was fiercely supportive of her daughter while allowing her to navigate the world in her own way. She loved her grandson in the same way. Brooke lived by the Hebrew philosophy 'Tikkun olam', which is the concept of working toward performing actions intended to repair and improve the world. The world lost and the universe gained an angel. Sweet Dreams, Brooke.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Sign Brooke Gordon-Hare's Guest Book

Not sure what to say?

Earlier today

Joann Marianetti posted to the memorial.

Earlier today

Barbara Code posted to the memorial.

October 11, 2025

Brighton Memorial Chapel, Inc. announced events.

2 Entries

Joann Marianetti

Earlier today

Richard and family. I am so very sorry to see that Brooke passed away. I am the one who chatted with you in the ICU while I was visiting my sister who was in an accident with her husband. My thoughts are with you. I know this is a tremendous and heartbreaking tragedy.

Barbara Code

Earlier today

Richie, please accept my heartfelt condolences. Brooke seemed like a loving and amazing person. May your happy memories of her help you through these difficult times.
Sincerely,
Barb Code

Showing 1 - 2 of 2 results

Brighton Memorial Chapel, Inc.

3325 Winton Road South, Rochester, NY 14623

Make a Donation
in Brooke Gordon-Hare's name

People and places connected with Brooke
How to support Brooke's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Brooke Gordon-Hare's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more

Upcoming Events

Oct

15

Service

Mount Hope Cemetery

Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Oct

15

Service

11:30 a.m.

Temple Sinai

363 Penfield Road, Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Oct

15

Celebration of Life

1:30 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Brighton Town Park – Carmen Clark Lodge

777 Westfall Road, Rochester, NY

Send Flowers

Services provided by

Brighton Memorial Chapel, Inc.