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George Leiper
October 2, 2024
I met Adm. Demars at sea on SSBN738 Maryland on Alpha trials as a main propulsion specialist. We encountered a March North Atlantic storm that was significant. He is now on Eternal Patrol RIP. Fair Winds and Following Seas.

Margaret Paczonay Draheim
July 7, 2024
Dear DeMars Family,
Here is a photo of COMNAVMAR and his driver while serving on Guam 1981.
What good memories of better times with my thankfulness for the trust he had in my driving for this special couple.
With tender prayers for your family,
Mrs. Draheim (formerly EM2 Margaret Paczonay)
Stu Saslow
February 26, 2024
Bruce, Patty, and family. My thoughts are with you.
Stu Saslow
Michael Thompson
February 20, 2024
I am so sorry for your loss. I never met the Admiral; however, I did serve as a Nuclear Machinist Mate on the USS La Jolla (SSN-701) along with serving onboard the USS James K.Polk (SSN-645) so I did serve under him. When I read the name DeMars, I instantly thought of a letter we had to send in and it was called the DeMars Letter. It was important to the command on the boat which made it important to all of us. Just a lasting legacy of something that every nuclear trained operator of my time recognizes. Thank You for supporting his service for all of us.
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Bobby L. Hughes MM1(SS) Ret.
February 18, 2024
Fair Winds and Following Seas! You stand relieved! We have the Watch! We are in the Power range.
Chris Current, Captain, USN (ret)
February 18, 2024
The Admiral was my best mentor in the Navy.
Eric Victory
February 18, 2024
I also had the privilege to serve at Naval Reactors under Admiral Demars. You deserve the thanks of a grateful nation for your years of service. My condolences to the family.
Kathy (Don) Hargett
February 18, 2024
Bruce and my husband Don shared a love for surf-fishing. When North Carolina's Outerbanks called, they responded. The friendship surpassed casting their rods. Their dry humors complemented one another and provided spontaneous entertainment for Margaret and me. Rest in peace, Bruce. You are loved and will be missed.
Heidi Northrop Sheridan
February 7, 2024
ADM DeMars had a wonderful dry sense of humor. I worked for him at Naval Reactors and he was a wonderful gentleman.
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