Bruce Trent Kaulaity

Bruce Trent Kaulaity obituary, Carnegie, OK

Bruce Trent Kaulaity

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Bruce Kaulaity Obituary

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Bruce Trent Kaulaity, 35, passed away with family by his side on October 16, 2025, in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. He was born on September 21, 1990, in Lawton, Oklahoma to Tina (Redbird) Oheltoint and the late Robert Lewis Kaulaity, Jr.

Bruce was a hardworking concrete finisher whose dedication and skill were evident in every project he touched. Beyond his work, he was an avid sports fan with a special love for football-spending his Saturdays cheering passionately for the Oklahoma University Sooners and his Sundays devoted to the Dallas Cowboys. Family was the heart of Bruce's life; he cherished every moment spent with his children and found joy in bringing them together with the delicious meals he lovingly prepared. His warmth, devotion, and spirited love for both family and football will forever be remembered by those who knew and loved him.

Left to honor the memory of Bruce are his mother, Tina (Redbird) Oheltoint and husband, Rudy Oheltoint, Jr. of Anadarko; companion, Erin Hutton of Elgin; children, Jaycee Alexander, Addilyn Alexander, Brentley Kaulaity, Robert Kaulaity all of Elgin, and Kambren Moser of Anadarko; siblings, Brittnie Kaulaity of Moore, Matthew Kaulaity and wife, Shayna of Lawton, Cody Kaulaity of Anadarko and Dylan Kaulaity of Seminole; grandparents, Ernest and Gloria Redbird of Carnegie, and Berle Boyiddle of Anadarko; uncles, George Redbird of Anadarko, and William "Dex" Boyiddle of Anadarko; aunts, Robin Botone of Anadarko, and Kelli Gregory of Anadarko.

He was greeted in heaven by his father, Robert Lewis Kaulaity, Jr.; uncle, Ernest Redbird, III.; and aunt, Sherri Lynn Redbird.

Funeral Service: 11:00 AM Wednesday, October 22, 2025

Red Wolf Hall

Carnegie, Oklahoma

Visitation: 1:00 - 5:00 PM Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Ray & Martha's Funeral Home,

Carnegie, Oklahoma

Wake: 6:00 PM Tuesday, October 21, 2025

Red Wolf Hall

Carnegie, Oklahoma

Interment: Carnegie Cemetery

Carnegie, Oklahoma

Services under the direction of Ray & Martha's Funeral Home, Carnegie, Oklahoma

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Upcoming Events

Oct

21

Visitation

1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.

Ray & Martha's Funeral Home (Carnegie)

20 West Main Street, Carnegie, OK 73015

Send Flowers

Oct

21

Prayer Service

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Red Wolf Hall

100 Kiowa Way, Carnegie, OK 73015

Send Flowers

Oct

22

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Red Wolf Hall

100 Kiowa Way, Carnegie, OK 73015

Send Flowers

Only 1 day left for delivery to next service.