Carl Robert McCray

Carl Robert McCray obituary, Elizabethtown, NY

Carl Robert McCray

Upcoming Events

Sep

13

Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m.

Willsboro Fire Department

17 Farrell Road, Willsboro, NY 12996

Carl McCray Obituary

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Carl Robert McCray, passed away on August 27, 2025, at the age of 72 at the University of Vermont Medical Center in Burlington. Born on February 10, 1953, in Elizabethtown, New York to Henry McCray and Mildred Haven, Carl spent his life in Willsboro, surrounded by the beauty of the Adirondacks that he cherished so deeply.

Carl was a dedicated mechanic who found joy in working with his hands. Throughout his life, he engaged in various trades, including farming, logging, and working at Veolia Water and Graymont Quarries. His true passion lay in the automotive world, particularly with classic cars. He had a love for Chevy Chevelles and 1957 Chevys.


A member of the Willsboro Fire Department, Carl was known for his commitment to his community. He forged lasting friendships and always lent a helping hand.

Carl was an avid outdoorsman who treasured his yearly hunting trips to the Southern Tier. He also enjoyed camping at Douglas Beach, where he created countless memories with loved ones. Christmas was particularly special for him, as he loved the laughter and joy shared with his grandchildren: Porter, Callum, Brinlee, Paisley, Peyton, and Bentley. Whether playing games or sharing stories, these moments filled his heart with warmth and his legacy with love.

He is survived by his devoted wife, Susan McCray, his sons Robert (Taylor) McCray and Daniel (Toni) McCray, and his beloved grandchildren; as well as several siblings. Carl was preceded in death by his brothers and his parents.

A Celebration of Life will be held on Saturday, September 13, 2025, at 3:00 p.m. at the Willsboro Fire Department, 17 Farrell Road.

In lieu of flowers, the family welcomes contributions in Carl's honor to the Willsboro Fire Department, PO Box 332, Willsboro, NY 12996.

Services were entrusted to Heidrick Funeral Home, PO Box 188, Elizabethtown, NY 12932.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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Upcoming Events

Sep

13

Celebration of Life

3:00 p.m.

Willsboro Fire Department

17 Farrell Road, Willsboro, NY 12996