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Carol Sanders Obituary
A legacy of love, faith and strength, Carol Lee Sanders passed away on July 9, 2021, in her hometown of Tulsa. She was born here on November 13,1935, to Ernest and Gladys Stucker. Carol's love for Tulsa lasted a lifetime. She attended Lee Elementary School, Horace Mann and the Class of 1953 at Central High School. Carol attended Oklahoma State University and was a member of Chi Omega Sorority. Carol married William "Bill" Sanders on June 1,1957. She was a member of First Presbyterian Church in Tulsa for over seventy years and loved the congregation. Carol and Bill had two children, Laura Lee Sanders and Ernie Sanders. Carol loved serving in her community and especially with youth. She had a deep passion for the Downtown Kiwanis Club of Tulsa, where her father served as president in 1948, and her husband in 1980. She served as secretary of the Kiwanis Club for many years and was diligent in keeping up with the lives of members. She served twice as president of the auxiliary Kiwanitas. Carol and her husband were active in the Miss Oklahoma Scholarship Pageant, which is sponsored by the Kiwanis Club. Carol judged many state pageants and was on the board of directors. The Sanders' lives were tragically altered October 6,1987, when their daughter, Laura Lee was murdered. Even through this horrible pain, she remained a woman full of joy, hope and grace. Carol was a bright light in the lives of many families who lost children to crime. She was a victims advocate and sought justice for Laura Lee for the rest of her life with the support of many, especially Lori Fullbright with Channel 6 News. Carol was preceded in death by her husband, Bill Sanders; her parents, Ernest and Gladys Stucker; brother, Robert Dale Stucker; and daughter Laura Lee Sanders. She is survived by her son, Ernie; and her life long friend, Dede Wallace Seal; special daughter, Corby Carlin Winters; and many loyal friends.
Her service will be held on Thursday July 22, at 11 a.m., First Presbyterian Church. A reception will follow in Stephens Hall. Her graveside service will be at 10 a.m. at Memorial Park. All are welcome. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to the Laura Lee Sanders Endowment Fund at First Presbyterian Church, 709 S. Boston Ave. 74119.
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Brian Bennett
July 7, 2022
I was trading emails with a high school classmate the other day that was, and is still, involved in the Miss Oklahoma pageant and then I saw where George Strella passed away. That got me to thinking about Carol and how wonderful it was to work with her through all those years I was in Kiwanis. Then, I got a reminder in an email about her passing a year ago. Carol, you are greatly missed.
Blake & Heather Ratliff
July 20, 2021
Blake and I so wish we could be there for you Ernie. I got to know your mother only briefly, but she did have a significant impact on my life when we brought our first born into the world. Please know we think of you often and are saddened by your loss. Julia is still in the same place and knows how to get in touch with us if you should want to.
Win Spears
July 19, 2021
I met Carol When I Was in the Kiwanis club while I lived in Tulsa a few years back. Her friendliness an enthusiastic attitude made me feel welcome, and she always supported everyone with sincere love and support. She was always the brightest light in the room. Condolences to her family and friends
Win Spears Weston, Florida
Brian Bennett
July 18, 2021
So sorry to hear of Carol's passing. I was in Kiwanis for many years and she was a joy to work with.
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Robin & Cherrie Siegfried
July 18, 2021
We have many Fond Memory's with Carol being actively involved in the Miss Oklahoma Pagent. May God bless The Sanders family for this great loss
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