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Carolyn Peterson Obituary

Carolyn Peterson
Carolyn Peterson, 77, lifelong resident of Hamden, passed away on October 21, 2025 after a short illness. She was born in New Haven on April 30, 1948, to Pamela Schwab Castiglione and the late Dr. Frank Castiglione. After graduating from Hamden High School, Carolyn attended Springfield College before receiving her master's degree from SCSU. For 35 years, she taught 3rd grade in Hamden starting at Ridge Hill, St. Rita's, and finally Shepard Glen, where she worked until her retirement. As a teacher Carolyn was loved by all her students for appreciating their individuality and bringing out their positive attributes. Carolyn had a smile that lit up a room and a heart that knew no boundaries. She was never one to forget a friend's birthday and always acknowledged their special day with a kind word or a thoughtful gift.
Besides her adoring husband of 54 years, Thomas Peterson, Carolyn will be lovingly remembered by her son, Tyler Peterson; her siblings and their spouses, Cherie Castiglione, Pamela and Dr. Sam Potolicchio, Emily Coassin, Hope and Tom Gower, Joseph and Jan Castiglione, Dr. Charlie and Connie Castiglione, and Dr. Frank and Jan Castiglione; her brother-in-law, Michael Peterson, and his wife, Cookie Cusano Peterson, who was also Carolyn's life-long friend. She was predeceased by her brothers-in-law, Larry Coassin and Barry Lutin.
Friends are invited to visit with her family on Wednesday, October 29th from 9:00 to 11:00 a.m. at Beecher & Bennett Funeral Home, 2300 Whitney Ave, Hamden, followed by her Memorial Service at 11:00 a.m. in the funeral home. Burial will be private. Contributions in Carolyn's memory may be made to the Alzheimer's Association at www.alz.org/ct. To send a condolence to her family please see the obituary at www.beecherandbennett.com.

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Published by The New Haven Register from Oct. 24 to Oct. 26, 2025.

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Nancy Wright Pedersen

November 5, 2025

Tommy, I am so sorry for your loss! My sympathies to you and your family. Carolyn was such a lovely, kind person.. she touched so many lives!
Wishing you peace.

Cheryl French

October 26, 2025

My deepest sympathy to the Peterson and Castiglione families. Wishing all of you peace and comfort.

Carol Larson Ward

October 25, 2025

So sorry to see this news - we were both 1966 graduates of Hamden High School. I remember her beautiful smile and bubbly personality. My condolences to her family and friends. May she Rest In Peace.

Seth Brown

October 25, 2025

I had Mrs. Peterson decades ago at Shepard Glen. What an amazing teacher just as nice as a person. To the family I am very sorry for your loss. May Mrs. Peterson Rest In Peace

David Delaney

October 25, 2025

My condolences to the family. So sorry for your loss

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9:00 a.m. - 11:00 a.m.

Beecher & Bennett Funeral Service - Hamden

2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT 06518

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2300 Whitney Avenue, Hamden, CT 06518

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