Charles Graff Obituary
Terry began his academic journey at Texas Christian University (TCU), where he played college basketball for the Horned Frogs during the 1964–65 season. His athleticism extended beyond the court-he was also a dedicated football player throughout junior high and high school. Later in life, he continued his athletic pursuits by playing with the San Antonio Eagles football team in 1975. He ultimately earned a Bachelor of Arts in History from the University of Texas at Arlington, combining his intellectual curiosity with his deep appreciation for the past.
A lifelong learner and history buff, Terry was an avid reader who rarely ended a day without a book in hand. His love of knowledge was matched by his love for the outdoors. He found peace and satisfaction in nature, whether tending to his garden or working in the yard. He enjoyed fishing, hunting trips, and friendly games of bowling and golf. Music was also central in his life. His diverse record collection spanned many genres, from musical theatre to blues and classic rock. These reflected his eclectic taste and deep appreciation for artistry.
Terry will be remembered not only for his many interests but also for his sense of humor and playful spirit. His ability to bring laughter into everyday moments made him a cherished presence among family and friends.
He is survived by his beloved wife Sonja Graff; sister Cathy Carson; daughters Sean Graff and Lauren Graff (Oscar); sons Scott Eason (Donna), Steve Graff (Tami), Brandon Graff (Chris), and Jason Cordova (Nicole); as well as grandchildren Jordon, Camryn, Austin, Addison, Melodee, Adira, Aisling, Kensley, and Alex.
Terry was preceded in death by his father, Charles Eugene Graff, and his mother, Clara Beth Graff.
May the memory of Charles Terry Graff bring comfort to those who knew him. A Celebration of Life will be held on October 3, 2025, from 4:00 p.m. to 6:00 p.m. at Ebensberger-Fisher Funeral Home, 1265 N. Main St., Boerne, TX 78006.
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Greg Hahn
October 7, 2025
My older brother David and I would walk thru these large fields and woods almost every Saturday and Sunday to check into the `Terry Graff Country Club on Quill´. There we would beat each other up playing tackle football, `anything goes´ basketball, or swimming. With Terry and David as my coaches and the neighborhood kids as players, we had a lot of fun. Mama would make lunch. Being the youngest I was still learning these sports and I remember and greatly appreciated how Terry would watch out for me. Terry loved sports and when he wasn´t playing, he was writing about the games in the school paper, the Rampage. We had our own inside man, always getting good reviews in the newspaper. Terry was a special person who will be missed by many. We are so very sorry to hear of Terry´s passing. He will be missed. Rest in peace.
Cathy Hickey
October 2, 2025
Terry has been a important part of my life. He was one of my first agents when I ventured into the finance side of real estate. A great mentor, a great friend and someone I admired. I was so happy when he and Sonja found each other. He truly adored her!
david wilfrid hahn
September 25, 2025
Terry was a best friend for some 70 years. We had lots of adventures as kids and young adults- playing football, basketball and swimming in Terry's back yard. He was only a short bikeride apart and we spent many many hours together. We sure will miss him........Dave Hahn
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Michael Hahn
September 25, 2025
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Terry was a remarkable person and I am blessed to have known him. He was a life long friend and enriched my life. My heart and condolences go out to Sonja and his entire family. The entire Hahn family had a brotherly and love and respect for Terry.
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