Daniel Willard "Danny" Bohart

Daniel Willard "Danny" Bohart obituary

Daniel Willard "Danny" Bohart

Daniel Bohart Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 25, 2010.

Daniel Willard Bohart II was a brother, a father, and a grandfather.  He was on a personal journey to enjoy life, and he did have many unique experiences throughout his journey.  He made many mistakes, but he had a very big heart and a lot of love.  Dan had a tough time towards the end, but we know he is at peace now.  His second grandchild was born Feb 26th 2011.. Dan never met Chase, but Chase was listening from inside when we said goodbye to his grandfather..



Born: Jan 01, 1948 in Honolulu, Hawaii

Died: Dec 25, 2010 in Wilmington, NC

About: Punahou School Alumni, University of Texas Alumni, Thunderbird Alumni

Obituary

Daniel Willard Bohart II of Wilmington, NC passed away at age 62 on Christmas Afternoon at 2:00 pm eastern time. He died in the Hospice Center of New Hanover Regional Medical Center just shy of his 63rd birthday due to complications related to diabetes and liver disease.

Dan was born in Hawaii at Ka’piolani Hospital on January 1, 1948 to Helen Louise Peck-Bohart and James Phillip Bohart, shortly after the end of WWII. He was the youngest of four children growing up in Honolulu Hawaii and attended Punahou School for most of his education, completing his senior year in Talequah, OK. He was a tremendous athlete, throwing a no-hitter in a State Championship game and playing linebacker for the Punahou football team. Had he not gotten into a major car accident in 1967, he would likely have played professional Baseball. He had received a scholarship to Oklahoma State University for Baseball and, at one point, considered taking a professional contract offer, but instead decided to finish College first. The automobile accident destroyed his chances for a turn with a professional Baseball team. He attended Northeastern State University, Dickenson College, and graduated from the University of Texas in 1970. In 1972, he earned an MBA from Thunderbird The American Graduate School of International Management in Arizona and became fluent in Spanish. He subsequently went to work for the Bank of Hawaii and was sent to work on exotic islands such as Tonga, Saipan, and Guam, feasting and playing Bridge with the Prince of Tonga.

Dan was married to Linda Patrick of Austin, TX for twelve years, and they had a son, Brett Taniela Bohart, while on assignment in Tonga in 1976. Linda flew to Houston to have the baby and flew directly back to Tonga to raise him. Two years later, while on assignment in Tamuning, Guam, Dan and Linda had a daughter, Paige Patrick Bohart and resided in Guam for a couple of years before settling down in Poway, CA.

Dan was an adventurer who grew up body surfing, surfing, playing sports, skateboarding, and spear fishing. He speared eel and deep sea tortoise off the coast of Hawaii, and he even speared his own shark, keeping the jaw as a family memento. He was fearless. He twice saved a person from being swept away by the rip current and drowning while at Solana Beach with his kids. Dan was also a writer who earned his Bachelor’s Degree in English, and he had a tremendous ability to make friends everywhere he went. His gregarious nature made him a natural for making business relationships, and he spent most of his career as a loan officer. He did, however, spend a short time as a Chef; he was a fantastic cook. He was also great with kids and, for a while, wanted to teach.

Dan had a long relationship with close friend of the family, Lynne Kuhn, and was remarried for a short time to Susan E. Mills of Salinas, CA. Susan and he had a daughter, Helen Evangaline Mills, and Dan did his best to keep in touch with her over the years.

Though Dan lived a full life with many unique experiences, he struggled with an addiction to alcohol and experienced many medical obstacles as a result. He acquired Diabetes late in life and underwent major surgeries for chronic pancreatitis. In the end, the mismanaged diabetes led to a loss of nerve function in his feet and other problems. He lived with these complications for many years, proving to be nearly indestructible, with amazing hardiness and grit. No doubt lesser men would have died years before Dan did. He had a spirit that simply wouldn’t quit, and he consistently maintained amazing positivity and motivation, especially in the most dire of situations. He was an innovator who never ceased to ponder new business ventures and new inventive ideas, always believing in a new tomorrow with unlimited possibility. Though his spirit persevered, his physical body would not allow him to keep going, and he went to sleep peacefully with his daughter, son-in-law, and granddaughter by his side.

Dan is survived by son, Brett Taniela Bohart, daughter, Paige Patrick Bohart-Collins, daughter, Helen Evangaline Mills, and granddaughter, Makenna Maria Collins, with a grandson due in early March. He is also survived by brothers James Thurman and Philip Gregory, and sister Josephine Louise. There are innumerable cousins, aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews throughout Oklahoma, Texas, and California. Dan died too young and was an image of unrealized potential to his family, but, as Henry David Thoreau wrote, “If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Let him step to the music which he hears, however measured or far away.”

“The one law that does not change is that everything changes, and the hardship I was bearing today was only a breath away from the pleasures I would have tomorrow, and those pleasures would be all the richer because of the memories of this I was enduring.” - Louis L'Amour, a favorite author

Dan Bohart will be missed.

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67 Entries

Paige Collins

January 3, 2011

Just to let you know that I am thinking about you tonight and sending you my love and sympathy.  Dan was in my French class at Punahou and I remember his energy and especially the fact that he was always, always  in a good mood !

God bless you and all of Dan's and your family...you were and are very good brother.

x,
Betsy

(EMAIL)

Paige Collins

January 3, 2011

My deepest sympathy to you and your family and Danny?s family. As a recovering alcoholic, 21 yrs, I can relate to the pain that Danny must have been in most of his life.  I was one of the lucky ones and got it after the first time getting sober. Its hard to get sober and the wreckage that was created by my behavior will take me a lifetime to mend.  I am still working on making my life better and so far so good.  Our aloha to all of you, god bless. I will send the obit to the Punahou Alumni house. Do you plan to have any Hawaii memorial, let me know.
 
-Robby Ostrem
 
(EMAIL)

Donna Goodley

January 4, 2011

I was sorry to hear about your brother's passing. Maybe I'm in denial, but I still think of us as we were and am a bit shocked when things like this happen to those we know. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Sincerely,

Donna Benz Goodley

Betsy

January 4, 2011

Just to let you know that I am thinking about you tonight and sending you my love and sympathy. Dan was in my French class at Punahou and I remember his energy and especially the fact that he was always, always in a good mood !

God bless you and all of Dan's and your family...you were and are very good brother.

x,
Betsy

Paul Hay

January 4, 2011

Aloha,

I was sorry to hear of your brother's passing. The obituary was well written.

As one who struggles daily from Diabetes, I understand the challenges Dan faced.

Condolences.

Paul Hay
Punahou '65

Bob Robello

January 4, 2011

I'm so sorry to hear about your brother's passing. At our reunion you mentioned he was having a rough time but this came as a shock, nevertheless. Although we weren't close friends, I remember Danny as a warm, fun-loving guy and a darn good pitcher to boot (southpaw as I recall). It looks like he had many happy times and many blessings in his life. My condolences to you and Danny's family.

Aloha,
Bob Robello

Clark McPherson

January 4, 2011

I didn't know Dan, but do remember hearing of him. I am sorry for your loss, but am grateful that you were able to put such a lovely Memorial piece together, so that we could get to know him better. Christmas seems to have been a fitting time. Much love and support to your family to Dan's family. Clark McPherson

Cindy Cole

January 5, 2011

I choose to remember Danny as a fun, good-looking guy who
enjoyed life to the fullest and who truly charmed me with his wonderful
smile and happy spirit! Rest in peace, Danny. Good thoughts and aloha
to you and the family.
Cindy
Punahou '65

Paige Collins

January 3, 2011

I want to offer my condolences on the passing of Danny.  He was the first Punahou alum that I met when I came to San Diego.  I can still remember the day that he came to our offices in Kearny Mesa on a cold call.  The receptionist said there was a Dan Bohart from the Bank of San Diego.  Normally, I would not have seen him but the name struck a bell.  The rest is history.  I shall always remember him as an outgoing person with athletic ability that separated him from others. Aloha to Danny. 
 -Vernon Lee
 (EMAIL)
 

Paige Collins

December 31, 2010

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Paige Collins

January 1, 2011

I remember my dad always letting Brett and me punch him in the arm as hard as we could over and over again and he'd just stand there smiling and say "you can't hurt steel."  I have always been so angry with him the past twenty years.. now i just miss him.

Paige Collins

January 1, 2011

There is an additional Obituary on the funeral home site : 
www.wilmingtonburialandcreamation.com
 
Once I get my dad's ashes back, I plan to send half of them to his sister or brother to spread over the Bohart family plot in Oklahoma, where his mother and father and grandparents are. I plan to save half of the ashes for when my brother and sister, Brett and Helen, can come with Bobby and me to spread them across the ocean either in Waikiki or in the Pacific off of San Diego.  That will probably be in ten years when Brett is available and when Helen is older.  I had the funeral home split the ashes into two containers.

Jon Stine

June 15, 2015

Dear Bohart family,
I stumbled upon this website this afternoon in search of my old friend Dan Bohart, and was suddenly shocked and sad to find him gone. He was at Dickinson College in Pennsylvania in the academic year of 1967-68, and during that time our little cadre of friends learned to love Danny boy. He was one of a kind. Dan was so fun-lovingly audacious, an actor who was on stage perpetually, and really savored it when we would rise to the level of his challenge and make every moment into a mission of madness and pure fun. There's too much hilarity and unprecedented creativity to tell and not enough space here to tell it. Bohart was definitely off the charts. In 1972, Dan and Linda let me stay in their home in Phoenix for several months while I was traveling around America in my faded blue Peugeot 404. They were both so gracious and kind, and we had such a wonderful time together. I loved Dan Bohart because I got him, and not everybody did. It is a beautiful tribute that you have set up here, you Bohart progeny. God bless you. - Jon Stine

John Noble

May 15, 2014

I am deeply saddened at the news Dan has gone on. I was his pledge brother back in 1967 at the Kappa Sigma House Oklahoma State Univesity. The Big Kahunah (Dan) led our entire pledge class on a long and glorious trail of many adventures filled with good times and uprorious laughter.

One time Dan told me about the Fifth Wave of the Fifth Set...a legendary wave that few surfers ever had an opportunity to ride. Somewhere there is a snow white sugar sand beach lined with emerald green palms and aquamarine waters. Out on the hurizon Dan is just getting up of the Fifth Wave of The Fifth Set....and he is howling down the tube of the most spetacular wave ever...and how fitting...he is mastering it.

Dan is bigger than life....i regret not keeping up with him through the years. I wish him God's Speed in his journey and Peace and Love to all of us who are left in his wake...Farewell dear friend.

Bobby Collins

December 20, 2011

I wish I was home to spend this holiday season with your daughter. I think she's finally coming to terms with your passing. I promise to get home soon so I can be the husband and father you always knew I could be. Take care big guy. I miss you.

December 16, 2011

I still miss you dad. it is coming up that i will have to face the anniversary of your death.. by myself because bobby is still in afghanistan.. i love you dad. i am still struggling with everything. i especially struggle with the indifference of your family.. they don't care at all, and realistically they obviously never did care .. but it
is hard for me to understand that. noone has contacted me since i settled your death .. by myself

Paige Collins

February 7, 2011

It has been so comforting to read about memories that people have of my dad, since I only knew one side of his life. I love knowing how he affected people and reading from people who I know loved him, like Lynne Kuhn and Tate Robinson. It has been hard to come to terms with his death since, sadly, his family members knew he was dying for months and no one came to visit him or seemed to care until he had already passed. I guess we all thought he'd be around forever; he had this seemingly unstoppable way about him, defying death three different times in the months prior. He was a tank. I love you dad. For better or for worse, you were a force in this world, both inspiring and frustrating for those who knew you and those who loved you. I feel like I am getting to know you more through these messages that people have left. I didn't know that I would miss you this much.

Tate (Robbie) Robinson

February 7, 2011

I miss and loved you bohart, and will never forget you my friend. My heart is very sad on your passing! I wish I could have visited with you one more time.

I'll never forget you!
Love, your friend forever...............

Lynne Kuhn

January 29, 2011

Paige and Brett, I just learned of Dan's passing and I'm so sorry. He loved you more than anything in this world and I'm glad to know that you, Paige, were with him. You inherited his big heart, generous spirit, and deep compassion. My prayers and thoughts are with you and the rest of the family.

Lynne

Linda Boland

January 19, 2011

Paige,
You are the most loving and forgiving person I have ever known. You loved Dan and cared for him without reservation, because he was your father, your family. You are the only one who really knows what it means to stand by and support your family. I am happy that you are my daughter and I am proud to understand how strong and beautiful you are. Others could learn from you.

I love you very much,
Mom
Linda

Elizabeth Crow

January 11, 2011

I have many memories of Dan, my last was in North Carolina when Paige, Dan and I were making salsa. It was fun and tasted yummy. I sorry for your loss and will have you in my prayers...........

Sandy Robinson

January 10, 2011

When George called me about Danny, I was just speechless and filled with sadness. the mind, the great "rollodex" , can just instantly flit back to a good time and thankfully focus on ALL those good memories: you two next door on the Kilua beach lane...then fun we would have ...your little home in Lanikai next...gone to Tonga...your stop at our house with tiny Bret...visiting you in Poway that time, Paige already born....Danny is an integral part of those early 70's as are you. The memorial site by a loving daughter is also so touching. Those photos--Roshi, the PIG, board-shorts, tanned and that wonderful hair and puckish smile of his--you just KNEW that mischief was on the way with a certain look.

ANTHONY VITTE

January 8, 2011

GOD BLESS YOU DANNY, HOPE IT'S MORE FUN OVER THERE CAUSE IT SURE IS TOUGH ON THIS SIDE! SEE YOU SOONER OR LATER BROTHER!

Nancy Patrick

January 8, 2011

First of all, to Paige and Brett, my heart hurts for you. Grief over someone you love is such an all consuming entity. But my heart also grieve with you. Dan was unique. Being educated does not necessarily mean one is intelligent. Dan was intelligent, educated, and street smart. If he was wearing a suit, he belonged in it. If he was wearing just a pair of swim trunks, be belonged in it. And always barefooted.
In Hawaii I remember him digging a pit in the yard and cooking ribeye steaks on coals under the ground. They were wrapped in bacon and certain kind of leaves for flavor. They were the best ever.
In Arizona he had a motorcycle. He handed me a helmet and said "Get on, I'll take you for a ride". That was fun.
I remember his laugh. I remember his smile. I remember how much I admired him. I will continue to remember him affectionately.
I love you Paige and Brett.

Diane Mang Nizza

January 5, 2011

I met Dan at the University of Texas. My good friend Linda had told me that she had met "the one." My favorite memories of Dan were the days (weeks) we spent in Hawaii with Linda and Dan. They were gracious hosts and I will always remember watching the Watergate Trials with him. We were products of the liberal Sixties, and none of us were really what you would call Nixon fans. I have photos of Dan in his Aloha shirts (the attire for the job he had at the time) which look so much like the one on this site. We were all so happy then. I saw Dan just one more time after Hawaii, and that was at Paige's wedding. I will choose to remember those happy days when we were in our 20's in Hawaii.

Paige and Brett, I am thinking of you.

Mele Howland

January 5, 2011

I knew Danny when I attended Punahou in grades 3-5. I think he was my first crush. I still remember him. Memories of loved ones live on forever. I'm glad he had those who loved him.

Marion Cox

January 5, 2011

Greg and the entire Bohart Family,
What a shock to hear of Danny's passing. I will always remember his grin and his love of fun. He had a way of making life seem richer whenever I was around him. I am thinking of all of you and sending love.

Marion Cox, Punahou '65

Debi Goodner

January 5, 2011

Rest in peace cousin...

Jake

January 4, 2011

Danny was blessed with a huge spirit of love and compassion.Many great times on the beaches at Sandy's and Makapuu with Greg,Kent Brooks,John Groth,Brian Jacobsen,Rob Luck and myself. With so many friends and family and experiences ,it is so tough for us yet living to do this part of The Earth Life...Danny's gauge reads empty since he is now gone "home"...but full, as he lived ! Aloha brah,'till we all meet again...Jake.

Kristin Biorn

January 4, 2011

I loved what you said about Danny - I never knew him as an adult but I knew him. He was sunshine in high school. A silly grin, a bounce in his step - handsome and so fun. As the sister of the "beautiful Toni Castro" I always related to Danny having to be compared to his brilliant, responsible brother. Tough act to follow. As we grow older, we find our place in the world and come to know our own unique gifts. Looking at the pictures and into Danny's eyes I could see a knowing had come to him and he had many moments of momentary peace and loving connection with the people in his life. I wish you all peace and warm memories and am so deeply touched by your loss - wishing I could fill your void - "you know that I would now, if only I could."

Paula Sterling

January 4, 2011

aloha greg, having lost my brother this past june, i share the sadness and joy you and your family are experiencing. we focus on the memories of their lives and the joy we all shared together. our prayers are with you. wayne and paula sterling

Bobby Collins

January 3, 2011

Dan was always fun to be around. The first time I met him, he took me out to sushi in Rancho Bernardo. I had never eaten it before and was a little tentative, but I didn't let Dan know that. He ordered the entire meal for Paige and I like a pro, and we feasted on sushi and saki for hours. It was a hell of an introduction.
I always admired his ability to look at the positive despite the hardships he had before him. Dan was a good man with a huge heart, and his time here with us went way too fast. He will surley be missed. Love you, Dan.

Rick Barcheski

January 2, 2011

Dan was a classmate of mine (Punahou '66) and is remembered for his competitive nature. In addition to his football and baseball experiences, I remember his strength and determination in wrestling. He will always be remembered by his classmate-family at Punahou. A Hui Hou, Dan!

Lissa Bloomer

January 2, 2011

My sweet cousin, Paige-
My family & I are so sad for you - I know how hard his last years were, and how difficult your feelings have been. But my heart goes out to you, especially, and your new young family. The memory I will cherish of your father is when he took my son, Finn, then 3 years old, to catch lizards behind Tutu's house, in her avocado orchard. Finn had a blast, and Dan's smile was beautiful.
Peace to you & yours.
Lissa

Carrie Riggen

January 2, 2011

Page,
I am so sorry for your loss. If there is anything I can do or you just want to talk please call me. I am always here. I love and miss you lots!
Carrie

Kathleen Riordan

January 2, 2011

Dear Paige,

I am so sorry that you've lost your dad. This site is a wonderful tribute to him and his life. I really enjoyed looking at the photographs. Although he was my brother-in-law, he and Linda were always off living in some far away place while I was a teenager and so I never had the chance to know him really well. Here are some of the things I do remember - that he was interesting and handsome and exotic. He also was a great chef and had a great laugh!

He introduced this Texas girl to a bigger world. He and Linda had their rehearsal dinner at a Japanese restaurant and back then, for me, that was a fresh new experience. One year, my family took a vacation to Arizona to visit Linda and Dan and I remember a great time at the Grand Canyon. But best of all, I remember when I was sixteen, we got on the big 747 for a trip to Hawaii where Linda and Dan had a great home near the beach. I would say that in a way, my life has been influenced by his life adventures and the fact that he was always "living life large".

That's what I remember about Dan Bohart and I'm sorry he's gone so soon. God bless you.

Susan Mills

January 2, 2011

Dan and I have a beautiful daughter who is named after both grandmothers...Helen Evangeline. I often tell Helen about her Grandma Eve, who passed away in 2000, and I also tell her about Tutu. I'm very happy that Helen and Paige have a relationship. Helen loves being an Aunt to Mckenna. Dan loved kids and I know it would make him happy that Helen and Paige and Mckenna and the new baby will stay in touch and be a family. Helen goes barefoot at home even in winter and she loves the beach...she gets that from her father. Rest in peace Dan.

Stephen Helena

January 3, 2011

Growing up as his sons best friend I got to know Dan the way few others could. Just hanging around the house with him on any given day him was like taking 10 trips to Diseney Land with any of my other friends parents. One day inparticular stands out in my mind. It was opening day for the movie Jurasic Park and it was the first movie of its kind. We spent the whole day cruising around in this beatup old pontiac station wagon gathering and preparing a variety of idems from lawn chairs to sandwiches to movie tickets so we could post up in line hours ahead and be the first ones in the theater to get the absolute best seats. I remember that Dan had posed as some corporate executive to get free movie passes. Being 17 years old I thought that was pretty cool. When 3:00 rolled around we picked Brett up from school and met Paige and her friend at the movie theater and made a day of it. Dan was one of the most generous people I have ever met.

Phyllis Fischer

January 3, 2011

I did not know Dan, nor the rest of his kin. I do know his daughter, Helen, and her kindness and joy at life spring from a deep well of compassion and caring for others, especially animals. There is no greater testament to a man's life lived, than that of a child who carries the works of the heart forward. Thank you Dan, for gifting the earth Helen. Your Obit says so much, but her kind and gentle heart says it all. Your spirit will soar onward over the waves, as a gull flying into the sunrise.

Joe Collins

January 3, 2011

i did not know Dan but I did meet him once at Bobby & Paige's wedding. I am sure he appreciated everything you guys did for him. I just looked at his photos and he looks just like Brett. Teresa & I love you guys.

Kathleen Mayo

January 2, 2011

My heart goes out to the entire Bohart clan. Paige, I have such fond memories of the two weeks I spent with your Bohart Grandparents, Helen and Phil when I was a teenager! You and Brett were there for one of those weeks and we had such fun. I remember Dan would take us all out to dinner, so I wouldn't feel left out when he came to see the two of you.

Course I also remember going to Disneyland with ya'll when they had the county fair... so many wonderful memories! My thoughts, and prayers, are with you!

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